Lu Jiang didn't come, and Wei Tao didn't let him come. We are classmates and we got together to "Happy Youth". I wish Xichun can change his identity. Lu Jiang won't. Let people see you coming with an entourage and pretending. The image of 13 is too obvious.
Jeans, white shoes, thick sweaters, dressed in line with the current age, all came in two or three people or in groups of three or five. Entering the room, mainly Li Dong and Liu Lei from Sheniu showed off their online names. , get familiar with some people you have chatted with online.
The process from unfamiliarity to familiarity may be just a meal of wine and being able to call each other "brother". In fact, they don't understand each other. They are just looking for a little unruly and repetitive fun in life. If you feel comfortable, just continue to stay in the group. If you don't feel comfortable, you may quit the dating group after you go back and find fun in another group.
Li Dong saw the girl with an unconventional hairstyle that was currently popular. He had seen it at the Songjiang Theater, and he had no sense of déjà vu. He knew that he could not be called a handsome guy, but his dress and his aura , but it is also faintly visible.
Some people, when participating in a dating group gathering, may buy a pack of high-priced cigarettes that they would normally be reluctant to smoke, thinking that this can give them a little boost. Put on your latest and best clothes, get a haircut, and show your best side. If you have a new mobile phone you bought, just put it on the dining table like a cigarette. If you don’t have one, there’s no need to show it.
The four Wei Tao people dress up. Even if they don't deliberately pursue luxury brands, the more expensive brands in the eyes of ordinary people are basically a place for them to choose clothes casually. With their mentality, except for Li Dong who is a little bit arrogant, , others simply come to play and experience it.
His social status and image do not need to be deliberately displayed once or twice, let alone to show off to these strangers, so he wears very casual clothes. Wei Tao also deliberately changed out his luxury belt and sweatshirt. The watch on his hand was a basic Patek Philippe. It cost more than 200,000 yuan. He wanted to take it off, but he was used to wearing watches and didn't often hold a mobile phone in his hand. To clearly understand the time, he still had to watch it. Check your watch.
If you just glance at it, this watch will not leave any impression on people. After all, its craftsmanship is not eye-catching like a large gold Rolex watch.
Even those who know watches will not think that what he is wearing is genuine, and they will say in their hearts: "This guy is interesting, and he also knows this brand of watches."
The girl with the current mainstream Internet name of Martian Wen, let everyone call her Xiaoying in reality, she did not come alone, she brought two girls of the same age, both of whom dyed their hair so long that it covered many parts of their face, and were dressed in such a way that They thought they were trendy, wearing earrings, painting their nails, and one of them had a simple tattoo of letters on his hand.
Very active. I am about 20 years old. It is the age when I am just for fun. There are some older men in their thirties in the group. They were quite stable at the beginning. At the first party, nearly four people came. There were ten people, and the two tables in the large private room were full. This was the first gathering of a dating group and it was a great success.
The group leader ordered a set meal. Not counting the drinks, each person only paid about 30 yuan. Each person was charged 50 yuan in advance, and any more would be refunded or compensated.
The meal was okay, the scene was a bit awkward, but after Xiaoying and the two female companions she brought with her began to become active, the men and women in the group, who were a little more outgoing, also became active.
Drinking, once there is a program, once there is a confrontation between men and women, any embarrassing scene can immediately become lively.
No one asked you what you do, and no one asked you which university you graduated from. This also made Li Dong somewhat unable to show off. He was also embarrassed to say that I graduated from Qingbei, and now I am the vice president. Etc., that would be too embarrassing, not in front of these people, but in front of the brothers.
Those who can join dating groups, especially those who are willing to come out to meet in person after such groups in the same city have gained a little bit of special fame, are more or less mentally prepared for the style of such group gatherings and hate this kind of environment. Just don't come.
Some introverts, at best I am not the protagonist, I just want to be the protagonist.
Those who are a little more outgoing can easily participate in the atmosphere and become a foil to the atmosphere.
Li Dong and Liu Lei are both socially awesome guys, and they also like to play. Liu Lei has fun all year round, and Li Dong has been holding back since he was in school. After graduation, he finally found a good job, and he basically realized it as soon as he started working. The golden collar living in Songjiang is semi-financially free, and the wildness in his heart has long been released during this period.
Everyone took a bath, including Wei Tao who arranged for him to be a model. Suddenly, his life opened a new chapter for him. A better life beckoned to him. He had never felt that he had lived in vain for more than 20 years in this new world. Completely immersed in it, without hiding his desire, once again subverted Wei Tao and others' perception of a pure academic master.
It is true that this guy is a top student, but if you frame him with conventional thinking patterns and solid images, your perception will be guaranteed to be subverted. If you exclude his studies and professional fields, this grandson is completely a person in life. Today's lively and energetic young man is full of interest in the beauty of material life. He even once felt that after studying so hard and working hard now, he finally has a goal of his own.
He took Liu Lei with him to protect Xiaoying and her friends, and started to fight against drinking in batches. There was no need to worry about how stressful it would be to eat in a restaurant for several hours. There was no concept of time at all, laughter and booing. There was a lot of noise, and some people came and went in and out of the box from time to time. Some bored people would consider who drank too much and who vomited.
Wei Tao and Zhu Xichun were just beginning to take turns drinking during the relatively calm war, when they were scratched and drank almost three bottles of beer each. Later, when the melee begins, if you don't rush forward, no one will take the initiative to drag you into the battlefield. Of course, this does not include the results you directly fancy.
Men fancy women.
Women fancy men.
Wei Tao didn't feel that he had such an advantage in terms of image. He was even willing to come over to contact him when he was attracted by a girl. He didn't talk about much when chatting on the Internet. It's not as good as those people who have been chatting in the group for a long time and are already familiar with each other on the Internet. There are still many Internet topics that can be brought into reality and become topics for chatting or drinking.
When the second game started, there was excitement.
The group leader is a man in his early thirties who works in a public institution. He looks like an old man at first glance, so he chose this time very well.
Starting at one o'clock in the afternoon, we will eat and drink, and play until about four o'clock. He will organize the second show. At this time, it is still bright, and most people, especially girls, will not be too serious about rejection. In this way, when the second show of ktv comes, leave There won’t be many people there.
At this time, drinking is not a big group of coaxing. There are also several women in their thirties or twenties in the group. Some of them are no less arrogant than Xiaoying and others, but they are of different age groups. Women are just natural enemies. They definitely can't communicate together. In the later stage of the hotel, they would each get a group of people to drink.
Old aunt, why don't you go home and serve your husband and children?
The little girl's hair has not even grown yet. Do you know what a man is?
Wei Tao has been watching and has to sigh, this group leader is really professional. It is difficult for women of two age groups to get together without fighting. Once they confront each other, who will enjoy the blessing? Naturally, some people from the same city who come to participate in such a group have dirty hearts. A man with other ideas.
In this so-called dating group, no one is a couple, and no one comes with a boyfriend or girlfriend. Even if there is, they will not tell the other party that they are participating in such a group gathering. If anyone foolishly thinks that this is just about making friends, then you are really foolish.
Naturally, making friends is for fun and fun. Even if you don't have the chance, getting to know a woman you don't know and having a drink is still a pleasure to pass the time.
There are also some girls in their twenties who come here for fun and fishing. When they meet a good man, they will attack them directly. Such people will chat about something casual while drinking, such as yours. Work and stuff like that.
In contrast, at this age, Xiaoying and the others are just for fun. If they meet a few older brothers who are willing to spend money, they will not mind hanging out with you. They are also confident in their looks. If you take us out, older brothers, we will definitely not embarrass you. , I don’t go there just to let people ‘play poker’, I just want to see the world, eat, drink, and have fun. I won’t refuse a certain level of contact, but I won’t give anyone a chance easily. I come out to play if I have this intention. If you don't care about certain things, you won't stupidly make yourself worthless.
If there are those who hold the microphone and don't sing, then they are really stupid.
When we arrived at the KTV, small groups soon appeared. Whoever liked it, who felt comfortable drinking with whomever. The third scene must be a small area after the group activity. After ordering the drinks, the group leader turned on the lights and collected money. It was a group activity. The consumption is settled here, how many people, how much will be shared, what we got before is enough for food, not enough for singing, everyone needs to make up for it.
After that, you can play casually, say hello to those who want to leave, and no one forces you to leave. Even if nothing happens at this kind of gathering for the first time, if you have a good time, the group will be lively after you go back, and soon the whole party will be happy. The group will become more active, maybe ten days and a half will catch up with a weekend, and the second gathering will follow, and there will only be more people.
After ordering the wine, I was almost done drinking. If I want more wine, I need to pay in cash. There are some big men who order beer for 3,200 yuan, which looks very arrogant.
Liu Lei is much more experienced than Li Dong. By now, he has almost drunk. He has already met everyone he needs to know. A real player will never hang out with you guys. You have hit the target. Hurry up. Start by contacting each other in private, and the development will be faster.
Today there was a young girl who was very outgoing and very active at the beginning. She came alone, but soon she became silent in the second session because she got to know someone, and through getting to know him, she learned that the other person was driving at the police station. of.
Being with the police, you will naturally have some transcendent social status in the social group, and everyone will look up to you. You are just a driver, and you don’t know whether you are in the establishment, but you don’t need to introduce yourself in these situations. Among those who work, he is considered to be of high quality, and his looks meet the approval of this girl. Soon the two of them got along with a few people online and chatted in whispers. During the halftime, they saw some people drinking too much. The atmosphere started to get bad and several people left immediately.
Wei Tao was very comfortable watching the fun. He didn't pay attention when he was a participant. He only thought about how to make himself more elegant in the group, or pretend to be serious, or be playful while smoking and drinking. Handsome, this is the first time for him to watch the excitement here as a pure bystander. Life is full of different situations. The same thing, but from a different angle, is a completely different scene, which is interesting.
Li Dong drank with others stupidly and looked like he was having a great time. Liu Lei directly said that he wanted to play and take them out to find a place. You can say whatever you want. We can't have fun in Songjiang. A few girls' movies , if you want to knock them out, is it still troublesome?
Li Dong suddenly realized it. He looked at the big box of the KTV. Half of the people were missing and it was in a mess. The leader of the group looked like a 'good old man'. He would take care of anyone who drank too much. Some of them came with friends. Let a friend take it away and not let people who drink too much ruin the overall atmosphere.
A little later, a few older men in their thirties ordered two or three drinks, said they were no longer interested, and invited the rest of the group to go to the disco. There was only a hint of excitement, but no enthusiastic response. They directly targeted young girls like Xiaoying and invited them to dance together.
After all, this is the first time. Experienced people have already found people who can chat with them in a small area. It would be boring to coax them. It is already past eight o'clock. It is better to end the show at this time, which can better reflect the organization of the group leader. Deli, our dating group has a very serious image.
In fact, this group of hosts had already figured out their target. He, his two friends, and the woman who also came together in the second scene chatted about whether they would go out to play next, and the people in the group I don’t know. Those who have experience are all looking for themselves. They set a target and start the attack. That’s like Li Dong. This kid has a target, but in the end he is immersed in the fun of such a group gathering. If it weren’t for Liu Lei’s help Look, this kid has drunk too much for a long time.
In this game, drinking is okay, but look at who is stupid enough to drink it to death. Even if I don’t want to have any thoughts about anyone, I still want to find a few netizens with whom I can chat well to have in-depth contact. Once we meet in person, we will have more fun chatting on the Internet in the future. After all, it was a blind box state before, but now we are honest with each other. , we must not hate each other before we continue to communicate. Otherwise, at such a party, after meeting each other and knowing who you are, but your face is covered with big pimples and acne, girls will think that your image is not up to standard and they will not want to have more contact with you. .
There will still be chatting in person, but it's just not enthusiastic. The sense of alienation gradually becomes felt. After the party is over, the group is no longer as lively as it was in the blind box state, where they joked and chatted with each other.
I don’t know if you’re too ugly, but I’m leaving a little room for boys.
As for girls, basically those who participate in this type of group offline gatherings, even if they are not confident in themselves, are definitely not the kind who have no confidence in themselves, or are ugly and fat girls, or are dark, thin and have bad skin. Ugly girls, they won't come to participate, they won't find any fun here.
Those who are willing to join local dating groups and meet in person will at least feel that they will not be in trouble wherever they go.
For some people who develop quickly, if they meet once, then meet in private the next day or a few days, and then get together in a small group and become familiar with each other, then anything can happen.
Some people develop slowly. If they meet in person, they can chat in depth online. They both have an impression of each other. If you are willing to chat in depth, it proves that there is a chance.
Of course, it is not ruled out that there is a faster way, that is, just look at each other for fun, open a room, and the two of them play poker for a while.
Wei Tao and the other four were the last group to leave with the group leader. This was the end of the party. Li Dong felt a little regretful and took Liu Lei to take a bath together in the evening. He also asked Liu Lei to help him find the number 76 he wore from the previous time. Technician in black gauze dress.
The group leader said he was allergic to alcohol and never drank. He only drank a glass at the beginning and took a sip during the second session.
All my experience and thoughts are online. The hotel is nearby, and the KTV is less than twenty meters away. I am very knowledgeable in choosing a place. After I came out, I sent the three girls away. I drove here, a modern off-road vehicle, in In this era when owning a private car is still associated with the wealthy, the cards are immediately raised, and the little thoughts prepared in advance have also achieved results.
If they have a clear goal and a good general direction, close to forty people will definitely not take care of them one by one. A clear goal is what they come for.
Wei Tao and four others stood on the steps at the entrance of the ktv, waving goodbye to the six group leaders. Three men and three women were crowded into a car. In such an atmosphere, it was more prestigious than taking a taxi.
Liu Lei poked Li Dong's waist with his finger: "See, he is the player, you are the stupid boy."
Li Dong wanted to defend himself, but was speechless. He did not deny that he lacked experience in this regard.
The four of them walked down the steps. Liu Lei bought a box of Huazi at the newsstand at the intersection. The hard ones. The most expensive ones here are the hard ones, not the soft ones.
I opened it, lit one, took a puff, took out the money, and bought three boxes from the boss.
These are real cigarettes, not fake cigarettes made by Hu Nong fool. The four brothers each have a pack. The cigarettes in their pockets have been distributed at the dinner party. In the KTV, it was when the group leader ordered wine and fruit plate. , the few packs of cigarettes I bought were all smoked out early.
"Those big gentlemen are just going after Xiaoying and the others..."
Before Liu Lei finished speaking, Li Dong let out a sigh, not believing it, how could it be so easy.
"Listen to me, do you think that Xiaoying is simple? She is also a player. Just look at it. The place she went to must be a place they are familiar with. At least they can get away if they really move their hands and feet without restraint. Or after dancing, they won’t be able to get away easily without going to the next show. They are the kind of girls who look for greedy men or men who pretend to be rich to spend money. It’s okay to touch their hands and hug them, no matter how much they want. See if you can win their hearts, otherwise, you will be their wallet to pay for their fun outside."
There must be no problem with Li Dong's IQ. As long as he is willing to think about it, he can just go through such things in his mind. He shrugs his shoulders, takes Wei Tao's lighter, and lights cigarettes for several people.
"Oh no, I'm so sorry for you guys today. I'm sorry."
Zhu Xichun is tall and tall, and his sight is more advantageous than others. He looks in one direction and the corners of his mouth are slightly raised: "Not necessarily. Look, this society always gives us opportunities. Dongzi, Shitiao Huazi, You have to be a stupid rich man. Brother, I will establish your image tonight. If you don’t say it accurately, you will have a chance. If you haven’t tried it for the first time, let others take it away. I have ten points for them. Shitiao, the three of us will handle this for you..."
