In fact, in most rural families, relatives and friends do not have wedding gifts. Basically, when they get married, the man buys three gold coins as a bride price, and the woman pays a certain amount of dowry according to her family conditions.
As for relatives and friends, many times they will make a few new quilts, and then give gifts according to the distance of the relationship. After that, they will attend a wedding and serve dinner.
Prepare special wedding gifts, or give extra red envelopes or something. Red envelopes are also given to the bride when she gets married. Parents in the south give red envelopes to the bride when she gets in or out of the car, and then they give money for the change of mouth during the tea ceremony. There is nothing to do with other relatives and friends.
Of course, there are exceptions to everything. If there are some relatives and friends with better family conditions who are willing to provide extra help to the newly married couple.
But many times people who do this kind of thing have two choices. One is to do it on the wedding day so that they can gain face, and it can also make the south or the woman look good. With relatives who are so generous, this family must be good.
The other way is to keep a low profile and wait until the couple gets married and start living together, and then provide some help.
Yang Dongxu's family has passed the stage where people say it has face and is a good family. In addition, the Yang family is almost the local weather vane. If they do something novel when they get married, it might set off an unnecessary trend in the local area.
So although Yang Dongxu didn't go back, because communications are now very developed, his uncle, aunt, Yang's father and mother all called him and asked him about Ajie's marriage.
Regarding this matter, Yang Dongxu's attitude has always been to follow the customs of his hometown. It should be lively and lively at the expense, but it is best not to make some relatively novel things and have to pay attention to any super large scenes.
In fact, when he got married, he didn't even want to create such a big scene. He only wanted to make other aspects as simple as possible while satisfying Zhou Ya and not losing face. But in the end, he still went to so many people who didn't send invitations at all. .
The influence of Yang Dongjie's marriage is definitely not as good as his own, but Yang Dongxu can already predict that no matter how simple his home is, there will still be many people present who have not sent invitations.
Apart from anything else, let’s talk about the local Chinese Medicine Association and the important planting area in Yangjiacun. It was Yang Dongxu who set off a wave with his own efforts.
In addition, almost half of the important plantings ended up being acquired by the pharmaceutical factory run by Yang Dongxu. How could I say no to the invisible boss's cousin getting married?
What's more, leaving aside traditional Chinese medicine, if you can strike up a conversation with Yang Dongxu and leave an impression when you go to the wedding, maybe the noble person in your life will just come.
This is just an organization called the Traditional Chinese Medicine Cultivation Association. There are countless similar organizations, or there are countless people who want to join the Yang family.
In normal times, Yang Dongxu is too low-key and it is difficult to find opportunities to contact him. He is also not in his hometown all year round. Although he will go back during the Spring Festival, anyone who knows Yang Dongxu knows that if you try to flatter him at this time, you may end up flattering him. Therefore, no one dared to move forward.
Now that I have finally caught the opportunity, I must not miss it. This is only local to Yangjia Village. People outside the local area, such as Li Yihang and others, have already inquired, but they were all declined by Yang Dongxu.
The only gift I accepted was from Yu Feihong. It would be a bit involved for Yang Dongjie to go to his studio to study. It would be wrong to accept the gift.
You can still talk to Yang Dongxu and know Yang Dongxu's temper. After Yang Dongxu declined, everyone knew what to do.
And those who want to cling to Yang Dongxu have no way to receive the news. If they come to the door with gifts that day, can Yang Dongxu give them a cold look on the wedding day? Or tell people to get out?
Therefore, you don't have to make the scene big by yourself. Again, the Yang family has already passed the stage of earning face.
Instead of thinking about the grand occasion, Yang Dongxu's advice was that it would be fine if other families had a lot of them. All that was left was to prepare a few more tables of food and wine to prevent too many people from unexpectedly coming to the door. Even the place to eat was not out of etiquette.
Of course, the records on the gift list must be stricter. Relatives and friends from the same village who come to congratulate are recorded on a gift list. These are normal contacts. In the future, if someone has something to do, the Yang family will also go to the Yang family to give gifts.
As for those who don’t know each other at all and are not relatives or friends of the bride’s family, make a separate gift list and record it clearly. These people can eat the wedding banquet, but the gifts are definitely not required.
I will return it after the wedding. When I return it, I feel like I have tricked someone into refusing to take it, so I will donate it directly to the Red Cross in the name of the other party, and Yang Dongxu will not even donate to the Runyu Fund.
In the future, these people will brag about whether they attended Yang Dongxu's cousin's wedding or their relationship with Yang Dongxu, and Yang Dongxu doesn't care. But if you want to use this favor that you just thought was forced on you to do something with Yang Dongxu, I'm sorry it's not the wedding day, so go back to where you came from.
"What should we give after the wedding?" Zhou Ya obviously understood what her husband meant, so she continued to ask.
"Let's give him a decent car. Don't just give it a car worth two to three hundred thousand yuan. If it's too good and eye-catching, that kid Ajie will complain easily." Regarding the house, Bai Qian had already said that she would give it away. Bian Geng is making plans to buy it.
At that time, let Ajie tell his aunt that someone has given away a new house in Yanjing, and let her think about doing something else with the money. So now that the house is available, all that's left is the car.
As for Bai Qian, the second-bedroom owner, who was given a house worth several million as a gift, and Zhou Ya, who was the second-bedroom owner, was given a car worth two to three million yuan, would it be embarrassing?
This problem will never arise on Zhou Ya's side. She doesn't even have the slightest idea. She was once a business queen and her situation was not that small.
"Then let him choose by himself. Don't choose the one he doesn't like, or give her a card worth 300,000 and let him decide on his own."
"Let him choose the car and let's pay for it. Don't give us any money. Although Ajie doesn't have any bad habits, it's easy for him to have other thoughts when he has cash in his hand.
So let's just buy the car directly. If he wants to use cash and wants to see it still in the bank, he will feel comfortable and let him work hard to earn money. Yang Dongxu said.
"That's fine!" Zhou Ya nodded, "I'll go back tomorrow. Are you busy here?"
It will still be some time before Yang Dongjie gets married, but Zhou Ya plans to go back early. Although she will be very busy at the end of the year, she can just find someone to attend some meetings, unlike Yang Dongxu who needs to handle many things personally.
"It's almost done, you go ahead. I'll ask for leave from Wen Chen in a few days, and then I'll take him back with me."
"As for Wenwu and Tangtang, Baiqian and Fuzhen are also very busy at the end of the year."
"Let Chen Xin come and take care of her for two days. It just so happens that during this period, except for some necessary occasions where she needs to show her face, it is better to keep a low profile at other times and let the aftermath of that incident completely quiet down."
"What do the people in Hangzhou say?"
"What else can I say? Zhou was so happy when he ran over there that he changed everything from a person involved to a bystander watching the excitement. But it doesn't matter what they think or do, since things Once you have spoken, you must continue until you reach your goal.”
(End of chapter)
