"Work hard and make yourself better. When you look back, you will find that you have already adapted." Zhuo Qing'er seemed to see Dong Yao's vague willingness and suggested to her.
In fact, it was not only Dong Yao who felt this way, she also felt this way at the beginning.
When she felt that her life was not bad, it would be good to live like this for the rest of her life. Suddenly I woke up and saw Yang Dongxu, and found that the two people who were originally equal had become one in the sky and the other in the earth.
She has no relatives left, and Yang Dongxu has become her support in life. So she was in a trance during that time, and she was also uneasy, fearing that Yang Dongxu would really be in the sky when she woke up, and she was extremely anxious underground.
Therefore, Zhuo Qing'er has continued to learn and improve himself over the years. Not without making myself better and qualified to stand beside Yang Dongxu.
Dong Yao is also not confident enough now. Perhaps she used to think that joining a wealthy family was a matter of course based on her beauty and figure.
But he really came into contact with a wealthy family, especially when it was a top wealthy family like the Yang family. What was once taken for granted has turned into an anxious ugly duckling.
I always feel like I would be inappropriate if I did this, or if I would be too vulgar and be looked down upon by others. It made me a little confused.
Sometimes a person's invisible aura really puts a lot of pressure on people. For example, the older generation of the Yang family are all from rural areas.
When eating, it was not all kinds of delicacies as expected from a wealthy family. They also ate rice and steamed buns.
But such a normal life is blessed by the aura of Yang Dongxu, a super giant. It made Dong Yao feel that the Yang family was informal and simple in doing so.
Just like a saying that has been widely circulated on the Internet in later generations, when rich people eat green vegetables, they are called healthy, and when poor people eat green vegetables, they are poor!
Because of the halo, the Yang family was infinitely elevated by Dong Yao, but she unconsciously began to feel humble and unconfident.
In fact, sometimes when people think too much, they really have more troubles. For example, if Dong Yao was really a simple-minded silly girl, these invisible pressures would not exist at all.
As long as you and Yang Dongjie simply fall in love with each other and live your own life happily, people often say that stupid people have stupid blessings, which refers to this simple simplicity.
"Should I sign up for a class to learn etiquette or something?" Dong Yao couldn't help but ask.
"Don't engage in those useless things, and don't be fooled by those aristocratic trainings on the Internet. If you really learn like that, you won't be able to stay in the Yang family at all. You will be awkward and make the elderly in the family awkward. .
To put it bluntly, Xuzi was also born in a mud-legged family, and the Yang family is still farming this land in the countryside and raising pigs. So just get along normally and don't get into those nonsense so-called aristocratic temperaments.
Xu Zi was still shirtless and doing skewers on the roadside when she had nothing to do. The so-called aristocratic temperament and elegant manners did not apply to the Yang family. As long as you know basic etiquette and have a normal upbringing, it is enough. It is useless to learn too much about other things, but it will be counterproductive.
What I ask you to study is to learn and work hard to improve yourself, just like high school entrance examination, college entrance examination, and graduate school study. Another example is that you are planning to be the boss of a game studio in the future.
Then learn more about how game studios manage and make money. Academic certificates are just decorations. What you want to improve is your personal ability.
Even if you don't want to be a boss lady and want to continue to be a star in the future, you can still improve your acting skills or something. In short, as long as the superficial things are normal, the Yang family has never been strict about these things.
"The First Minister of the Ming Dynasty"
Even if you are too stupid to improve the inner things, you can still live a stable life just as a wife who supports your husband and raises your children. Zhuo Qing'er said.
Dong Yao nodded slowly, "I understand, thank you Sister Qing'er!"
She was originally a smart person, so Zhuo Qing'er could say he had broken it into pieces and told her, and she naturally understood.
In short, don't be pretentious and show off those useless superficial things, just be sincere.
If you have the ability, learn to improve yourself. If you don't have the ability, just live a peaceful life and don't mess with those things.
As long as Dong Yao can be stable herself and give birth to a son and a half daughter to Yang Dongjie, she will basically be secure as the daughter-in-law of the Yang family.
The Yang family is also a respectable family in their hometown, as long as Dong Yao doesn't cause problems himself. After they got married and had children, the Yang family would never allow it. The Yang family's son had money but ended up playing with women, married a wife and continued to play around outside, and finally divorced his wife and married a younger one, and other rumors. It fell on the Yang family.
If they are really married and have children, if Yang Dongjie dares to act recklessly outside. No need for Dong Yao to say anything, his uncle Shengli could break his son's legs with a stick.
The Yang family's reputation has finally been established, and they will never allow their son to behave like this.
"Don't talk to two different families. In fact, if you have time, you can follow Ajie back to your hometown to live for a while. I think your game studio can be opened anywhere as long as there is a network cable. When Ajie stops going to school, you guys You can also go to your hometown to drive.”
"I will seriously consider it and find time to accompany Ajie back to my hometown for a visit. It's getting late, so hurry up and wash up and rest. You have to get up early to go hiking tomorrow. You were so tired this afternoon that you didn't even take a nap."
She understood the hint in Zhuo Qing'er's words, that is, as long as she integrated into the family life of the Yang family's hometown, her identity as a prospective daughter-in-law would be basically stable.
"I'm a little tired, why don't you take a shower first? I want to take a bath in a while, it might take a little long." Although each bedroom has its own bathroom in a suite.
But there is only one bathroom with a bathtub!
"It's okay, you should take a bath first. I don't want to take a bath. It just so happened that the master who taught me at the game studio sent me some information and I went back to the house to take a look." Dong Yao said.
Zhuo Qing'er nodded and was no longer polite. She went back to the house to collect her clothes and toiletries, ready to take a hot bath and relax. I was really tired after walking around the ancient city this night, so I just happened to take a bath so I could sleep.
After closing the door, Dong Yao took out her mobile phone and hesitated for a moment before dialing a number. The phone rang twice and the call was answered!
"Hey, Mom. Well...I have a boyfriend!"
Dong Yao is indeed a smart woman. She knows how to integrate into the life of the Yang family before accompanying Yang Dongjie back to her hometown. First of all, your parents’ thoughts must be in place.
Don't let it happen that you want to marry into the Yang family, but your parents don't agree!
"Having a boyfriend? A male or a female? Not...from your circle, or something else? How old is the guy, what does he do, what do his parents do at home..."
When Dong Yao's parents heard that their daughter had a boyfriend, they were so excited that they asked a lot of questions incoherently. Mainly because her daughter's ex-boyfriend left such a deep impression on her.
I'm afraid that my daughter's second boyfriend will be like this!
