Chapter 1925: Don’t buckle, but you can’t just go along with it
"Be generous when you're in love, and don't be picky about dinner or treat. But although our family is not short of money, you don't want to be stupid and give expensive gifts.
When you fall in love, you must have true feelings. You can't let the other person fall in love with you just because you have money. Otherwise, there will be more people who are richer than you. When the money is spent and someone meets a richer person, you won’t even be able to cry. "
Seeing Yang Dongjie's face become relaxed, Yang Dongxu began to teach earnestly.
"Dong Yao shouldn't be that kind of person." Yang Dongjie retorted in a low voice. After all, this is my first love and I am very precious to my heart. I don’t want to hear anyone say anything bad about my girlfriend.
"I didn't say she was such a person, I just reminded you in advance. Our family's conditions are not bad, no matter what the other person's conditions are. We are basically worthy of each other.
So since it's worthy of your waist, don't be too soft. We can't let others feel wronged when they fall in love with you. But you can't just give her what she wants. You must also have some principles of your own.
Otherwise, you have to give it one at a time. What if things get smoother in the future and you can’t afford what you want? Relationships definitely require a material foundation, but you can't do everything, right?
Besides, falling in love requires both parties to work together, so that such a relationship can be sincere and long-lasting. In terms of material things, let's not talk about taking advantage of others. The other party can't always ask for this and that, right?
When I tell you this, I don’t mean that your girlfriend’s motives are impure, nor do I mean to make you speculate about her in the worst possible way. I just want to remind you so that you have an idea. Don't be stupid and don't know everything when you encounter something. "
Hearing what Yang Dongxu said, Yang Dongjie nodded thoughtfully, "I know, brother, I will pay attention."
Although Yang Dongjie feels that he wants freedom when he grows up, he is not the kind of mindless person who wants freedom, and he has already passed the age of rebellion.
To be honest, for children who were beaten by their parents in rural areas, I have never heard of any giant babies or any particularly rebellious ones. So he knows who is good to him, who he should listen to at home and who will not harm him.
Yang Dongxu touched his pocket and found that he didn't bring a cigarette.
Yang Dongjie took out a cigarette from his pocket and handed it over with a wink. The Yang family all smoke, Yang Dongxu’s grandfather smokes, Yang’s father also smokes, not to mention my brother-in-law who used to be a smoker.
Yang Dongxu smoked before and smoked in his last life. It’s just that after I had children, I rarely smoked it for fear of inhaling the smoke. I would light one occasionally when I went back to the village or encountered some occasions.
Yang Dongjie's smoking was influenced by his father and the environment. For example, in the living environment of the generation of 1980s and 1990s, smoking is basically a social etiquette.
Asking for help, or visiting as a guest. The first reaction of both parties was to offer each other cigarettes.
Yang Dongjie didn't smoke at first, after all, he was very strictly controlled by his aunt. However, because he was a kid in the last row because of poor grades, secretly smoking was something every boy and teenager could do when they were a little rebellious.
In the ivory tower of school, the only thing that makes you stand out is good test scores. The scumbags who think they are handsome only smoke and look cool, or have some unique hairstyles, or behave in some unusual ways.
With his aunt under strict supervision, Yang Dongjie obviously didn't have to think about killing Matt, so secretly smoking became one of the few options available to him in his rebellious stage.
Now that my aunt is in college and thousands of miles away, she has enough living expenses, so she naturally becomes very free to smoke.
"Smoking less if you have nothing to do!" Yang Dongxu lit a cigarette and said casually.
Yang Dongjie nodded without saying anything and lit one himself. The two people stood at the door of the toilet and started puffing away.
"Want to work part-time?" Yang Dongxu suddenly asked.
Yang Dongjie was stunned for a moment, then remained silent for a moment, "I don't want to think about it yet!"
After saying that, he looked at his cousin a little uneasily. In fact, he knew a little bit about Yang Dongxu's idea of letting him come out to see and do things to see the world.
But he was just a freshman, and in the first half of the semester, his mother still had to run to school every now and then and was still under supervision. Now I have finally been completely free for half a year. I haven't really enjoyed my life yet, so I have to work part-time. This...
"Forget it if you don't want to. But I feel a little bit naive. Don't always go to the Internet cafe if you have nothing to do. Just walk around and look around." Yang Dongxu said.
Yang Dongjie continued to nod. For a moment neither of them knew what to say.
The heart-to-heart talk between men started suddenly, got deep, and ended suddenly.
"If you have nothing to do, go back." Yang Dongxu put out the cigarette in his hand and patted Yang Dongjie on the shoulder. "The living expenses are not enough, but you can't spend money recklessly."
"My living expenses are enough, and my mother gives me enough to spend. When I started school at the beginning of the year, my grandma and aunt (Yang's mother) put some money into my pocket." Yang Dongjie said.
Although he is in love, it is just the beginning after all, and his usual expenses are really not much. The Yang family was already well-off when he was young, so no one had ever complained about his mouth since he was a child, and Yang Dongjie had no obsession with food or anything else.
Luxury goods, various famous brands, etc., with Zhuo Qing'er as the eldest sister, he really doesn't care about these things. What's more, those gifts for birthdays every year have become numb after seeing so many. So I basically won’t spend money in this area.
The only biggest purchases now are to go to Internet cafes to surf the Internet, and to hang out and drink with my brothers. Now there is one more person watching movies or something with Dong Yao.
"Okay, go back. If anything happens, call me, or call your Aunt Fei or Sister-in-law Baiqian. Don't cause trouble at school, but men in Lao Yang's family shouldn't be afraid of trouble."
"Well. I'll leave first, brother!" Yang Dongjie put out the cigarette in his hand and prepared to leave.
"Go to the front hall to say hello, and your sister Qing'er seems to be participating in some design event. The organizer is the Honor Group and has given away some of the latest mobile phones. If you want to change to a new mobile phone, go get one!"
"Okay, brother!" Yang Dongjie had a smile on his face.
Although apart from being addicted to games and falling in love with Dong Yao recently, he doesn't care about other things. But who would use the old one when they have a new phone? What's more, Honor's new mobile phones are not only expensive when they are launched, but they are also notoriously difficult to buy and have to queue up.
Now you can directly choose one and feel happy. Although he is a little afraid of Yang Dongxu, his cousin, Yang Dongjie is not soft at all when taking things, and he does not feel any burden.
Of course, he knew that his cousin did not lack this, but he would not just take things randomly. I still have this kind of upbringing. I can only take it as long as I know my cousin agrees. If I don't agree, I can't touch anything worth a dime.
Watching Yang Dongjie leave, Yang Dongxu stood in the corridor for a while, and then waved to someone not far away. Du Heng, who didn't know when he finished eating, was standing in the shadow over there.
"Check Dong Yao's surrounding relationships and recent contacts and behaviors. See if she is just trying to get close to Ajie because she wants to climb high, or if there is someone with bad intentions behind her."
(End of chapter)
