Du Weiwei rarely spoke at the dinner table, and even when Lan Lan spoke to her, she listened more and spoke less. Because she has the lowest status at this table, if she hadn't been connected with classmate Yang Dongxu, she probably wouldn't even be qualified to sit on the table.
"What are you thinking about?" Yang Dongxu asked, looking at Du Weiwei who was sitting silently in the passenger seat.
It's a bit far from where Du Weiwei lives. It would be a bit embarrassing to be honest if the journey continues to be so boring.
"I didn't think anything of it. Thank you for what happened today." Du Weiwei turned her head and smiled.
"It's okay, it's not a big deal. It's nothing troublesome. It's nothing to do a little favor among classmates." Yang Dongxu replied.
"It's a small matter to you, but it's a big deal to me. If you don't break the bank this time, you will definitely not be able to prevent the disaster." Du Weiwei said leisurely, something seemed to sound as she spoke, and the eyes dimmed. .
Yang Dongxu didn't know what to say for a while, and the car fell into silence again.
After a while, Du Weiwei turned her head and looked out the window: "I initiated the divorce with Fang Min. Do you think I am a bad woman?"
Yang Dongxu glanced sideways at Du Weiwei, opened his mouth and still didn't know what to say for a while, so he turned his head and continued to look at the road and concentrate on driving.
"Fang Min and I didn't actually have any major emotional problems. After graduation, we returned to his hometown in a small county. My father-in-law was a small leader there and we had a good relationship. We were both college students, so we settled it after we returned. I work in the government on staffing issues.
In order to avoid suspicion, I went to the Cultural Affairs Bureau, while he went to the Finance Bureau. The days after the wedding were peaceful and uneventful.
Fang Min is very smart and well-educated, and with my father-in-law’s relationship, it’s easy to move up as long as you work hard. In this way, I can quit my job and be a full-time housewife.
But I resigned him in the first year of work, and he was still treading water, and his relationship with his colleagues was not that good. During the holidays, people are always traveling around. My father-in-law would urge him to go, but he would not go, saying that he relied on his ability to make a living and did not engage in such crooked ways.
In the first half of the year before last, I was promoted again because of my excellent work. But instead of being in this county, he was transferred to a poor county in Lin County, so that his position could be promoted by half a level.
My father-in-law and mother-in-law supported my transfer. Anyway, Linxian is not far away and it is convenient to drive back and forth on weekends. My father-in-law also noticed that Fang Minxin was not in the official career. He went to work step by step every day and did his essential work well, never thinking about promotion.
So I wanted to use some resources on me. In addition, the country has been increasing the proportion of female cadres in recent years, which is also my advantage. In the words of my father-in-law, if I can go higher, if I have a grandson in the future and he wants to pursue an official career when he grows up, at least I can help.
If the two of us only have two jobs, when he gets old and our relationships will fade away, then if the Fang family wants to hire another talent, I don’t know how much trouble it will take. "Du Weiwei said, showing great respect for her father-in-law.
Yang Dongxu didn't speak because he didn't know what to say.
"A colleague from the same unit was transferred with me. He is a male and I am the boss. He has some background in his family and came here to practice. He may not be perfect as a person, but at least he is decent. When I transferred my colleague from the same unit, Had a farewell party.
Just when Fang Min went to pick me up, an elder sister from the work unit said some witty words, and he heard them. After returning home, he gave me various expressions.
Later, when I took office in Lin County, we were separated for a while and the matter was never mentioned again. Later, last year, our impoverished county was removed from the county and merged with the city. My position just happened to catch up. Although the level remained the same, my power became much greater.
In this way, both work and human contacts have increased. At this time he suggested having a child, but I didn't agree. Because after the county was removed and the city was merged into the city, the official job was on the rise. If I got pregnant, it would definitely have an impact. I told him that we would wait for a year after stabilization.
He didn't want to and we had a fight. Later, when he was chatting with people at work, he also said with some sourness that he had found a good and capable wife, plus some gossip..." Du Weiwei did not say any more.
However, Yang Dongxu basically understood the reason why the two people divorced. Although there are always calls for equality between men and women, you rarely see a situation where women are stronger than men in a family. The women work hard outside and the men work as nannies at home.
It is normal for women to stay at home, raise their children, and take care of the elderly, while men are the breadwinners of the family and earn money outside the home. But if the roles were reversed, nine times out of ten would feel that this man was a softie, even if he said that he envied the other person for having a very powerful wife. But the tone behind the words is definitely not pleasant to listen to.
Coupled with the cooperation between the male leader and the beautiful female subordinate...
His wife has a better working ability and a higher position than him. In some public places, Fang Min probably needs to sit down and be the audience, while Du Weiwei speaks on the stage as the leader.
This undoubtedly stimulates the man's self-esteem. Although Fang Min's personality is ideal and optimistic, the premise of this ideal optimism is that we are on the same level, not that you are one level higher than me, not to mention that there are all kinds of rumors around stimulation.
"One time we had a big argument and I asked for a divorce. He slapped me and called me a bitch. Later, my father-in-law learned about this and scolded him.
I went back to work in Linxian County and wanted to deal with this matter calmly and let everyone calm down. But later he came to our unit to make trouble and rushed into the male leader's office to beat him.
The first time I was taken to the police station, the man I went to pick up didn't come out and he scolded me. He came out of the police station only after his parents-in-law came. Two days after I was released, I went to my workplace to make trouble again, and this time someone from the superior came to talk to me.
It was originally said that I would be transferred from the original department to another department so that my family members could be emotionally stable. After all, I am a leader, and problems in my family would not be bad.
I agreed, but Fang Min disagreed. They still started arguing with me, and later I simply submitted my resignation report. As a result, the day after I resigned, he put the divorce agreement in front of me..." The bitterness on Du Weiwei's face turned into a bitter smile, and then the bitter smile turned into sadness, and tears fell from her eyes.
She obviously still loves Fang Min, which can be seen from the fact that she is willing to resign as she is also ambitious. But Fang Min's divorce agreement left the two of them with no room for change.
Yang Dongxu still said nothing, took out two tissues from the front and handed them to Du Weiwei.
"He said I ruined the reputation of their Fang family." Du Weiwei choked up as she took the tissue.
If a divorce agreement left two people with no room for change, then these words undoubtedly made Du Weiwei, who might have had a glimmer of hope in her heart, completely despair.
"When I graduated, the school leaders talked to me and wanted me to stay in school. Because of the results in the supporting education office, people from the Municipal Education Bureau also talked to me, but Fang Min insisted on returning to his hometown.
If you go back to your hometown, just go back to your hometown. Now that you have joined the establishment, you should use the advantages you have, right? But he didn't want to. He insisted on me going to the Cultural Bureau. How far could I go to the Education Bureau?
His father also agreed to the transfer to Lin County, and his father also asked me to move around in various human relationships after that. The result was not good, they said that I used their Fang family's resources to get promoted and make a fortune, and also ruined their Fang family's reputation.
I resigned and divorced me directly, as if if I divorced me early, I would occupy the position and not let go, and then continue to humiliate their Fang family. "The crying Du Weiwei laughed again, but her smile was a little sad.
Seriously speaking, Fang Min did go overboard on this matter. With Du Weiwei's work ability and emotional intelligence, as well as the platform established by supporting teachers, if she had stayed in school, her development would have been better than if she had returned to Fang Min's hometown. She could have gone a long way up by herself.
Arriving at Du Weiwei's residence, Yang Dongxu stopped the car and buried his head in his arms. Du Weiwei, who was crying, felt the car stop and raised his head, wiping his eyes and face with a tissue, "I'm sorry for making you laugh."
"We are classmates and friends, right? You did a lot of work when the teaching support office was established, and I don't always thank you, right?"
"I volunteered to work in the Supporting Education Office. Besides, I also received a salary for a period of time. After receiving the salary, I naturally had to work." Du Weiwei wanted to calm down her emotions and try to keep her voice as low as possible. She was crying, but her heart was too sad, and the smile she wanted to show on her face was a little forced.
"What are your plans for the future?" Yang Dongxu asked.
"I don't know. Just keep doing this job for now. If there is any good opportunity in the future, you can change jobs." Du Weiwei tried her best to look free and easy.
"Then if you have any trouble, call me. You saw it at the dinner table today. I am very energetic." Yang Dongxu also wanted to make the atmosphere more relaxed.
"That's for sure. With such an energetic friend, I won't be afraid of hitting someone with my car next time."
"It's better to be afraid. It won't help me to talk about breaking the law." Yang Dongxu followed Du Weiwei's words and teased.
"Then it's not very useful for you." Du Weiwei wrinkled her nose in disgust, but she did look a little embarrassed at this time, so she unbuckled her seat belt: "I won't ask you to go up and do it, you are alone. It’s not convenient either. I’ll treat you to dinner sometime as a thank you.”
"That will definitely require a big meal." Yang Dongxu said with a smile.
"My monthly salary is only a few thousand yuan. You can take care of it when the time comes. If you overspend, you can leave it to wash dishes and pay off debts." Du Weiwei opened the car door and walked out, then waved to him casually and turned around to enter. community.
Watching Du Weiwei walk for more than ten meters, he now wanted to call Fang Min to have a chat. In his opinion, such a couple, who were enviable in school and married after graduation, were completely separated like this. It's a pity.
But he hesitated for a while when he picked up the phone, but he didn't know what to say.
In the end, I could only let out a long sigh, throw the phone on the seat, and put my foot on the accelerator.
