When Yang Dongxu was a bachelor in his last life, he actually fantasized more than once about what would happen if he had a child one day, how he would raise him, how he would play with him, how he would...
But when I really have a child, I can't hide the joy in my heart. This is certain. But being tired can also make people speechless.
The whole family accompanied this little devil around alone, but in the end he exhausted the four or five adults in the family, while he himself was less energetic.
As promised, you should not pamper your child and must establish correct values for him. But when he cries, you don't hold back all the anxiety in your heart, and then say: "The child is too young, you can educate him when he grows up."
Then he held it in his arms and couldn't throw it away. In the bedroom, Yang Dongxu made a small bed next to the big bed. The small bed was not for the child to sleep, but for him to sleep on.
Zhou Ya and Yang's mother sleep on the big bed. If the baby cries and refuses to feed, then he and Yang's mother will hold them and wander around the room alone. During the day, Yang's father, two old people, and the four grandparents also joined the ranks. In a word - tired!
I don’t know if this child is really destined to old man Xuan. He can’t be put to sleep without being held. Old Man Xuan coaxed him to lie down on the bed and patted him until he could sleep for an hour or two without waking up. Every time, old man Xuan used words in front of Zhou Yiren, the child's grandfather, which made Zhou Yiren, a scholar, roll his eyes.
No matter how wise the old man is when facing his grandson, he will be reduced to the standard of a child, and there will be jealousy that makes Yang Dongxu dumbfounded.
After spending more than half a difficult month in the past, I have basically adapted to life with a baby, although I am exhausted every day and can't be energetic. Newa cried so much that Yang Dongxu patiently set some rules for his son.
In fact, such a young child will definitely not be able to understand what you are saying. At most, he can understand whether your tone of voice is happy or sad. Some bad habits were obviously developed, so Yang Dongxu began to change them.
Since he couldn't speak clearly and didn't know baby language, food became the best means of education. In short, try little by little to see which method can make it easier to take care of your children. As for establishing good living habits for your children from an early age, this is just a task that is completed incidentally.
The matter of catching fish was finally settled. Yang Dongxu was about to go into the water, but unfortunately he was arranged to take care of the baby in the house. According to the rules in the countryside, it is best for pregnant women not to leave the room during confinement. The baby is also afraid of catching wind.
So Yang Dongxu held the child in front of the window and watched fishing outside. In fact, the child was not afraid of relatively noisy environments, but was afraid of sudden loud noises when he was startled.
Yang Dongxu didn't know how far the half-month-old child in his arms could see, but listening to the noise outside the window and watching the silver carp flying around in the water, the little guy didn't know whether it was because of curiosity about the sound or if it was true. You can see the fish flying around, and you can always look out the window and occasionally smile.
"There are really a lot of big fish." Zhou Ya walked to him with a towel wrapped on her head. The room was actually still a bit stuffy at noon in October, so she wore something cool.
The previously slender figure is now very rounded, and the complexion has become rosy after this period of conditioning. It looks so round that people can't help but want to take a bite.
"It's quite a lot. I would have known that I had fished with fishhooks a few days after I came back. I haven't fished for many years." Yang Dongxu said with a smile.
Silver carp were flying around in the horizontal net pulled up outside the window, and many of them were big fish weighing four or five pounds. In addition to silver carp, there were also grass carp. Someone in front was chasing fish and pulling a horizontal net to block the area, which was only five or six meters away. I don’t know why there were so many fish in this area. This net caught at least thirty or forty kilograms.
Among them, there were two big-headed silver carp weighing more than three kilograms, one grass carp and one carp weighing four or five kilograms. Moreover, the carp, which was mostly red, looked very festive.
If you put it in the city, some people might say that this thing is koi and should not be eaten. But if you put it in a rural house, there is nothing special about it. The meat is no more fragrant than other carp, or it may have an extra fishy smell. In general, it is cooked in the same pot.
"Do you know about Sanyin?" Zhou Ya suddenly asked.
"You also know?" Yang Dongxu, who was holding the child, couldn't help but look back at his wife in surprise.
Then he thought of something and showed a look of sudden enlightenment. If the aunt in the community is the boundary between heaven and earth in the community, then the rural women are the intelligence organization in the countryside. There is nothing that they don't know about the villages in ten miles and eight villages. Yang Dongxu still doesn't understand it. sources of intelligence for these people.
Yang's mother was afraid that Zhou Ya would be bored. Although it was impossible to leave the house, occasionally a few women from the same village would come over to the house to talk or play cards together. Besides playing cards, women naturally played various games. Gossip little news.
Even men like Xiaowu know about Sanyin, so there is no reason why women don’t know about it. Xiao Wu probably knew that his wife told him about this matter.
"Do you want help with this matter?" Zhou Ya asked.
"The matter hasn't been resolved yet, okay? Didn't Yinshan come back two days ago?" Yang Dongxu pouted out the window. Except for his peers like Xiao Wu, who was very active in catching fish today.
My brother-in-law, Shengli, a middle-aged uncle, was very excited. Besides him, there were many men and women in their thirties and forties from the countryside who came to watch the fun. Among them, Yinshan was currently beating his seven or eight-year-old son who wanted to have sex.
When Xiao Wu told him about this matter before, he was still thinking about finding a suitable opportunity to ask his third grandfather what was going on and whether he could help. Apart from anything else, you can't let your family suffer, right?
But after seeing Yinshan come back, he thought the matter had been settled. As for Sanyin not coming back, it might be because he was afraid of gossip in the village, so he went to the relative's friend's house and waited for the matter to cool down before talking about it. I never thought that this matter has not been resolved yet.
"They say they have broken up now, but Sanyin seems a little unwilling. Mom and some other elders in the same village said that Sanyin has been arrogant since childhood.
And she is the only female college student in our village who has gone out. She wants to do something better than the men, so when this incident happened..."
That's right, Sanyin is still twenty-four or five years old and not yet married. This has to do with her going to school. In the last life, because the conditions of people in the village were generally poor, it would be good if a man with difficult conditions could go to junior high school.
As for girls whose grades are not particularly good, they basically finish junior high school and then go out to work. In this life, because the conditions in the village are good, every family can afford the tuition for their children to go to school, so girls like Sanyin also study. Finished high school and junior college.
Graduating from a junior college is a big deal in this era. When he was admitted to the junior college, Grandpa San and his family were very happy. After all, except for the cheater Yang Dongxu, the girls in their family were better than the boys in the same village.
Except for this guy Yang Dongxu, there is only one person in the village, let alone a junior college student, and there are only a few high school students in total.
After graduating from Sanyin, Grandpa San wanted to find connections in the town to get her to teach in the school. After all, this was an iron rice bowl. If the family can have a teacher, it will be a matter of honor for the ancestors.
But Sanyin disagrees. In addition, the village has a strong commercial atmosphere. Everyone is either investing in trucks or thinking about starting a small business. The low price of the teacher company is indeed a bit pitiful. Therefore, Sanyin chose to go out to find a job.
At first, the third grandfather disagreed and felt that it was not safe for a girl to work outside. Later, he couldn't resist his daughter and stopped taking care of her. In the past two years, San Yin, as the daughter, has indeed brought a lot of money to the family, which is more useful than the son Yin Shan. The third grandfather did not say anything more. Who would have thought that such a thing could be excepted.
"What exactly happened?" Yang Dongxu asked. Although he knew about the matter, he really didn't know the ins and outs of the matter. It was not easy to inquire about such a thing.
"It seems that the man lied to her, saying that he was single but actually married. It was just that his wife and children were not around. Then Sanyin took the initiative to pursue her. In the end, Sanyin accidentally found out that she had a wife and children and asked him to reason with her.
As a result, he was told back that Sanyin took the initiative to seduce him. When the other party's wife found out about this, she blocked the entrance of the place and called Sanyin a vixen for seducing her.
As a result, Sanyin, which had performed well at work and was about to be promoted, not only suffered a bad reputation, but its chances of promotion were also ruined. Moreover, people in the factory looked at her differently and began to point fingers, and some even harassed her. "
"Then why is she unwilling? She suffered too much, was defrauded of money, or can't let go of the man?" Yang Dongxu asked.
"I didn't suffer a big loss, but I guess I took advantage of it. The girls who went out in the village were quite conservative. The other party borrowed wine a few times to try to get along with her, but she kicked her out, so I didn't suffer a big loss in this regard.
Mainly because Sanyin had been studying hard and had never been in love. Suddenly she met someone who greeted her politely, but in the end she didn't mind her age, and she fell in love with her despite the pressure from her family.
In the end, it ended up like this, and the emotional damage was even greater. After all, this was her first love, and I heard that she had been planning to marry him before and talked about the wedding. "Zhou Ya said.
"What about her now? She's still working in that factory?"
"How is it possible? After the accident, the man's wife went to the factory and made a fuss and resigned not long after. Now she has found another job, but she doesn't want to come back. It's better not to come back now so that no one will gossip. That's it. The third grandma came to our mother to cry and complain..."
The third grandfather's family did not mention this matter before because they were afraid of ruining their daughter's reputation. Now that they were sure that their daughter had not lost her virginity, they breathed a sigh of relief and were angry at her daughter for not coming back. They were so far away and were afraid of something happening, so they came to see Yang. Mom is crying.
"Call my sister, she and Sanyin have been playmates since childhood, and ask her to call and give her some advice. I invested so much in my first love and was about to get married, but I was deceived. Don't think about it anymore." Yang Dongxu said. .
