Little Lu didn't understand what he meant, and blinked her beautiful eyes, wondering what she was saying, actually apologizing to herself?
Princess Gao Yang held her hand, sighed softly, and said: "To be honest, we are both women, so we naturally understand each other's difficulties, and we should be more considerate when we get along in the future. But although we were born into aristocratic families, on the day of our birth, We have been well-fed and well-off since we were born, but nothing in this world comes without hard work. Since we enjoy the family's grace, we should naturally contribute to the family."
Little Lu whispered softly: "Your Highness is right."
Every child of an aristocratic family understands this truth, but she feels that her daughter's family cannot compete with men to fight for the interests of the family and the future, but this body has been completely given to the family. As long as the family needs it, she will give it away for marriage. In order to achieve some goals, even if the marriage partner is a deaf or lame person, they can only accept their fate.
You have become the "goods" of the family, and marrying into the Fang family has become the link between the two families. What can you be sorry for?
Princess Gaoyang was also a little embarrassed, wondering what exactly her husband had done...
However, these words have been given by the husband in advance, and they must be explained clearly one by one, so as not to sow trouble in the hearts of Sanlang's wife in the future, causing disharmony between the sisters and the whole family.
So I had to tell about the marriage proposal between Sanlang Fang Yize and Taichang Shaoqing Zhang's girl two days ago...
She tried her best to speak tactfully, but after hearing this, little Lu's face was still pale and her beautiful eyes were filled with tears.
I would like to ask, if any woman learns that just two days before she gets married, her husband has gone to someone else's house to ask for a marriage, can she not feel sad and desolate in her heart, and cry out that she is being treated as an unfair person?
Being able to sit quietly like little Lu without making a fuss is an achievement in cultivating qi.
Princess Gaoyang was not good at words, and she was very unfamiliar with the work of an authority figure. She would be very handy if she could accompany her to make a fuss... She took Little Lu's hand to comfort her, which was very embarrassing.
Wu Meiniang on the side saw little Lu's picturesque eyebrows and pure and beautiful face full of ignorance and youthfulness. She couldn't help but recall that she was abused by her brother at home, so she had to accept her fate and recommend herself to the palace. Later, she was bullied by the palace's maids and servants. During those days, he said softly: "We women, we can't control our own destiny in this life, so we can only pray to God to love and show mercy to our children. If we are lucky, we will marry a man who is willing to marry us, and we can know how cold it is and how hot it is." The whole family is in peace, but if you are entrusted to someone else, you will probably be able to lament your miserable fate for the rest of your life."
Little Lu looked at Wu Meiniang blankly, tears finally falling from her eyes.
Isn’t it me who you’re talking about trusting someone else?
But she was a lady after all, so she wiped her tears with the back of her hand, looked at Wu Meiniang, and then at Princess Gaoyang, waiting for what they would say next.
Since he mentioned this in front of himself on the first day of marriage, it was obvious that he was not just trying to make fun of himself, but he must have a deeper meaning.
Seeing that she was just suffering but not noisy, Wu Meiniang felt pity in her heart and said softly: "Erlang begged Song Guogong to come to the house in person to talk about this marriage. It involves a big plan for the future of our family. It’s profound, it’s of great significance, it has to be done.”
After a pause, she continued: "It is common for a man to have three wives and four concubines. Instead of marrying a lustful and immoral person in the future, which will cause the whole family to be in disarray, it is better to marry a daughter of the Zhang family who knows her roots. This is the fate of us women. Not only do we have to be sent to other people's homes as livestock, but we also have to endure our own men marrying other women back. This is the way of survival for aristocratic families. We just have no way to tie the chicken. What can a weak woman with no strength do but submit?"
The best way to stabilize your emotions is to accept your fate.
As long as you feel that your fate is like this, you can comfort yourself and accept it no matter how great your grievances are...
Xiao Lu is a sensible person with a gentle and submissive temperament, so she naturally understands this truth. In fact, even if no one told her about it, she could only grit her teeth and endure it when the Zhang daughter was married some time later. Now that several sisters-in-law, including Princess Gaoyang, could go out of their way to enlighten and comfort her, it was already a surprise. I'm happy, this means that I will be valued in this family in the future.
But, it's still very sad...
What girl is not pregnant? Little Lu had always longed for her husband to be such a romantic, handsome and talented young man. After they got married, the handsome man and the beautiful woman fell in love with each other. broken.
Xiao Shuer sat on the chair and moved her body with difficulty. Her round belly seemed to be hiding a rubber ball. Seeing this, she smiled and said: "Brothers and sisters, don't be sad. The men of the Fang family are all knowledgeable and caring men. As long as Don't marry those cunning and sinister women back, and you will definitely have a loving couple and a happy family."
Little Lu looked at Xiao Shu'er with tearful eyes, nodded slowly, and hummed.
Although she had just joined the Fang family, she knew a lot about the Fang family. Naturally, she knew that the Xiao family's direct daughter, who had the blood of the Qianliang royal family, married someone else as a concubine with such a prominent status. It's a very miserable thing, but looking at her coquettish belly but the calm and peaceful smile on her face, you can tell what kind of family the Fang family is.
There are parents and two elder brothers present above. Even if my husband is a bit out-of-the-box, he would not dare to be as crazy as a playboy from an ordinary family...
…
In the back hall, two brothers were sitting together drinking tea and chatting.
"What are your plans after getting married? Do you want to stay at home for a few years and study more, or do you want to become an official?"
Fang Jun took a sip of tea and asked casually.
Fang Yi thought for a while and said: "Forget it about becoming an official, it will take a few more years anyway. As for studying... To be honest, second brother, I would rather do some chores, one can train myself, Besides, there’s no need to feel too much pressure.”
After all, I haven’t had enough fun yet…
Fang Jun nodded and expressed his understanding. A child of fifteen or sixteen got married and started a family. It was impossible to hold a son in his arms a year or two later. It was difficult for his immature mind to smoothly accept this most important role change in his life. He was a little confused for a moment. It's completely understandable.
only……
"What a pity. The current situation is critical and turbulent. If you are not careful, you may be overthrown. So if you want to play freely for a few years, you may not be able to do anything. Although our Fang family is prosperous, we are actually very small. It's a bit weak, and you know my eldest brother's temperament, so I can't take it seriously, so I can only hope that you can grow up as soon as possible and help me."
Fang Yi was startled and quickly sat up straight and asked, "Has the situation collapsed to this point?"
He had some understanding of the situation in the DPRK and his own family's status. Although he could not analyze the deeper trends in depth, he was not as indifferent as Fang Yizhi.
At this moment, hearing the second brother I admired the most speak so solemnly, I couldn't help but feel nervous.
Fang Jun put down his teacup, let out a breath, and shook his head: "That's not the case, but as the saying goes, everything can be done in advance, and failure in advance can lead to failure. Only by making arrangements in advance and preparing an escape route can everything be foolproof. Who can do anything in this world? There’s no telling, if things change in a hurry, the consequences will be absolutely unbearable.”
Fang Yi said sternly: "What do you need me to do? Brother, I just say it's okay. No matter how hard it is, I will never shrink back."
"good!"
Fang Jun reached out and patted Fang Yize on the shoulder approvingly: "As expected of the man of my Fang family, he is courageous and responsible. When he is playing, he can do all kinds of tricks and be unscrupulous, but when he needs to straighten his shoulders and bear heavy responsibilities, , you must be able to pick it up and carry it!”
Fang Yi smiled and said: "Brother is joking. In fact, I am not that promising. I just understand my brother's love and care. Even if there is such a thing as life and death, I am definitely not willing to let my brother do it."
Turning sideways, he held the pot and poured half a cup of tea into the teacup.
Fang Jun laughed: "You are so cunning!"
However, he quickly suppressed his smile and said slowly: "In the spring of next year, you will go south and stay in Huating Town. It is my brother's fiefdom, and everyone from top to bottom is his confidant. After you go there, you have to take on the important responsibilities and manage it with all your heart." Tang Shanghao's headquarters is in Huating Town. If you are undecided on internal matters, you can ask Wang Xuance. If you are in trouble on foreign matters, ask Su Dingfang. Both of them are brother's confidants and can depend on life or death. While stabilizing Huating Town, We also need to use the navy to visit a port in the Japanese country with the Zhang family and the Xiao family, and that is the final destination that my brother has found for my Fang family."
