After dinner, Grandma Wu came over and gave Shu Shu her first lesson.
Shu Shu admits that she is narrow-minded.
Grandma Wu did not start with "men love women," nor did she have other hidden backgrounds and skills similar to those in a certain circle in Yangzhou. Instead, she talked about her own experience.
"The old slave's ancestral home is Huairou, and his family has been making wine for generations. When the old slave first got married, he received a rich dowry. He was a son of a farming student from the same village. The two girls were wealthy and handsome, and they were as good as honey mixed with oil. They gave birth to a pair of children...
After the Eight Banners entered the customs, the clans enclosed their land, most of the land in the capital became official villages, and most of the people became tenant farmers...
My parents-in-law died of illness one after another. My ex-husband was already a scholar. He used this opportunity to join his old master. He also demoted his wife as a concubine and married a married woman as his wife...
At that time, everyone advised Lao Nu to admit it, but Lao Nu didn’t admit it. He could get promoted with books, but couldn’t I?
At that time, Lord Shunzhi also admired Sinology, and the female relatives of the bannermen learned to speak Chinese and recognize Chinese characters. The old slave took refuge in the name of the mistress, and divorced her ex-husband with a dowry...
In the mistress's companionship, she chose the current man as her husband...
Although they are a couple halfway through their lives, there has been no stumbling in their lives for fifty years.
However, even if he had his parents and brothers as his backers, he would not dare to offend the orphan girl, the old slave. In addition to the fact that the old slave had grown up with his wife, he was somewhat respectable in the house, and also because the old slave had no shortage of money, and the house purchased by the family was all expensive. In the name of Lao Nu, the love between husband and wife is just the icing on the cake. It doesn’t mean that you can’t live without the man. Whether they live apart or get together again, there is nothing unacceptable...
As for the love between husband and wife, the relationship between children, as long as there is no shortage of money, they can all respect each other...
But we can't be taken advantage of, thinking about flesh and blood...
You must know that these people's hearts are raised, it is better to draw the line early...
At all times, putting yourself first is the real way to protect yourself...
Don't think about asking for perfection. The more you ask for it, the more you ask for it...
The old slave’s two children from his ex-husband are a lesson from the past...
I thought they were pitiful before and wanted to take them with me to educate them, but at that time they were too wealthy to look down on the old slave's cousin...
The old slave will not force...
Until now, they are all filial sons and virtuous grandchildren...
But the old slave also understands that they are all here for money...
Come on, come on, no one is a saint...
As long as you can live with your face, you should be able to make yourself happy and don’t be harsh..."
The old man spoke slowly, but Shu Shu listened with admiration.
You must know that there was a winery under Jueluo's name before, but it was closed down after the emperor issued a "prohibition order" a few years ago.
It seems that the recipe used is the recipe of Grandma Wu’s family.
An ordinary woman would probably end up depressed after experiencing such drastic changes as the decline of her natal family, her husband's change of heart, and his wife being demoted as a concubine. However, Grandma Wu refused to admit defeat and always had her own trump card.
There are many calculations such as "borrowing strength", "fake the power of a tiger", "preparing for a rainy day", etc., but the initiative is firmly in one's own hands.
"The so-called parents-in-law are not parents... Back then, the old slave's parents-in-law wanted to collect my dowry as soon as I entered the house. They kept saying, 'A sister-in-law is like a mother'. They wished they could push all the marriage funds of my brother-in-law and sister-in-law onto the old slave...
He just wanted to bully my new daughter-in-law, who had a tender face and could not refuse. The old slave borrowed law books from the bookstore and came back. Day and night, he urged her ex-husband to copy the books. Taking up the responsibility of the 'eldest brother', he also took the initiative to teach my sister-in-law embroidery, teaching her step by step. Her way of being a woman...
Perhaps because of the deepening of the rift, they later supported their son in marrying another woman, and finally ended up with a domineering eldest daughter-in-law who was 'like a mother', who also 'seeked benevolence and received benevolence'...
There is no need to take these idle people to heart, there is no need to be angry with these idle people, they are just irrelevant people...
When it comes to the in-laws later, everyone will be polite and respectful to each other, and no one will do anything wrong. The rules are..."
Shu Shu became more and more awe-struck.
Maybe some people are born with good fortune, while some people earn it through hard work.
It seems that she misunderstood Jue Luo. What she wanted to teach her through Nanny Wu was not a game between men and women, but an attitude towards dealing with things.
You must be self-reliant and self-reliant at all times, and don’t wrong yourself.
The next day, Shu Shu came up to Jue Luo and said with some sadness: "Eni, you and Ama both need to be well... You need to take Ping'an pulse every month, and you need to take food supplements at the four seasons..."
The couple had been married for many years before they had their eldest daughter. Now that they are in their forties, they are sometimes worried that they will not be able to rely on their daughter.
Jueluo Shi gently hugged Shu Shu and touched her back: "Enie knows your temperament. You look peaceful and have the best temper... If you don't want to be angry, you can't rely on anyone, but you don't need to show your sharpness... There are some success stories. Just remember it in your heart, there is no need to imprint your shrewdness on your face...many diseases are caused by anger. Apart from life and death, there is nothing that cannot be solved..."
Shu Shu sighed in his heart, it was not her who was afraid of marriage now, but Jueluo Shi. This was the disadvantage of "marrying a girl from a high family".
"Don't worry, Enie, I will live a good life..."
Shu Shu said solemnly as she smelled the increasingly rich sandalwood fragrance on Jue Luo's body.
When she returned to the room, Shu Shu took out her notepad.
Before worrying about the direction of "Kowloon seizing the legitimate son", he should still learn to be a "qualified" Jiu Fujin.
The first impression is very important. I had a lawsuit with Guidan before and had a tit-for-tat confrontation with Guo Luoluo, which seemed to be too sharp-tempered.
Next, it’s time to show Shouli’s softer side.
The dowry can be reduced!
No matter in terms of pedigree or title, the ninth elder brother was inferior to the eighth elder brother. The reduction of his dowry was also a sign of respect to his elder brother and sister-in-law.
As for the Guo Luoluo family, Guidan is a bastard, but he is heartless and not vindictive, so he is easier to coax.
The Guo Luoluo family are not fools, but there is no need to worry. They are the only ones flattering me because of my identity. When the time comes, I will share some of the profits from the tea business, which will comfort me.
Shu Shu made adjustments and felt at ease.
I never expected that I would see real "knowledge" that night.
"Is there anything that men can learn that women can't learn? Couples fighting at the end of the bed, fighting at the end of the bed, the old principles that have been passed down for thousands of years cannot be wrong...
It's a couple's fun to behave in front of others, but how to make trouble behind others...
A man? They all have a sacrificial nature. If you don’t satisfy him, someone will always satisfy him...
The reconciliation of yin and yang is the way of heaven. If you can't reconcile it, you can only find someone from outside...
When it comes to the physical strength of men and women, men seem to be stronger, but women have endurance...
It is very easy to torment him without any external intentions..."
During the second time of "teaching" by Grandma Wu, only Shu Shu and Grandma Qi were left, while Xiao Chun and Xiao Tao were sent away.
Shu Shu took the small box from Nanny Wu and listened to Nanny Wu's words, knowing that this was the real deal.
A set of slightly rough porcelain, consisting of two small figures, no more than the size of a thumb, but the details are in place.
Some postures are common, and some have only heard of names, which are a bit juggling.
"These two positions are suitable for women to get pregnant easily... These positions make it difficult for the uterus to implant, so they can be used for contraception... This kind and this kind are mostly men's efforts, so they can go first... The following ones are There are two kinds. If a man is not strong enough, he can turn back to the guest..."
Grandma Wu still looked kind and spoke slowly.
Grandma Qi listened with a serious face, looking at the meaning, she wanted to remember every word in her heart.
Shu Shu realized later that the image of Brother Jiu appeared in his mind, and his face suddenly turned red, not out of shame, but out of embarrassment.
Don’t discuss such private matters as a topic! ?
This... this... this...
Don't take it so seriously...
Aunt Wu and Aunt Qi looked at each other, only for Shu Shu to understand.
Aunt Wu smiled and said: "It's not a bad thing to listen to this more... It will save you the fear and pain when the time comes, and you won't be bothered by this anymore..."
Aunt Qi also tried to persuade her sincerely: "To put it bluntly, this is the only thing between men and women... If you really get annoyed by this, your life will not be warm... Although my legitimate wife Fujin does not need to be infatuated, but The young man is new to this. It is easier to have sex between husband and wife than between husband and concubine... Husband and husband are husbands within one foot of each other... Regardless of whether the marriage is to your liking or not, the young master has to win over him before he lands, and waits for the birth of the child. A son and a half-daughter, if you don't think so, then don't be surprised... The emperor proposes marriage, and Gege's status is stable. As long as you relax and don't think too narrowly, it's not difficult to live a smooth life..."
Shu Shu felt extremely embarrassed, but she didn't want to be too different, so she nodded shyly.
When the two nuns went out, Xiao Chun and others came in, with a bit of uneasiness on their faces.
Shu Shu looked at them one by one. Xiao Chun, who knew how to settle accounts, Xiao Song, who knew massage, Xiao Tang, who knew how to cook, and Xiao Tao, who knew how to comb hair, all followed her since they were children, and they also chose their names.
Although she had no memory of her previous life at the time, she was obviously afraid of death and took the names of trees that symbolized longevity.
These four people are one to two years older than her, and they are all just right for Zhenghua, especially Xiao Tao, who is particularly good-looking, with bulging breasts, as delicate as a peach, and a soft personality.
Shu Shu personally trained these Crystal People, and naturally had no intention of letting them have sex with each other, so she had to say it first: "I told you earlier that I don't need to have sex with each other... It means this before marriage, but now This is what I mean... From now on, even if my brother wants to take a concubine, he can choose one from the Eight Banners beautiful women, or he can choose from the beautiful women from the Ministry of Internal Affairs, but I will not recommend you. You have been with me for two years, and you want to marry outside. , or if you want to choose someone in the mansion, it’s up to you..."
Xiaochun and the others immediately knelt down.
"Don't worry, Master, if you have such evil thoughts, you will only suffer a bad death and be a prostitute for the rest of your life!"
Xiaochun was the most loyal. He said harsh words and looked at the others with suspicion.
Xiaosong frowned and said: "Anyway, I have made up my mind to comb myself... What good is a smelly man? I don't want to leave Gege..."
Xiaotang said nothing, his gaze fell on Xiaotao like a knife.
Seeing her like this, Shu Shu's eyes also fell on Xiao Tao.
Xiaotao's face turned pale with shock, and she kowtowed quickly: "Gege, slave... I don't dare to have this idea... My family just said it, I never dare to have such thoughts..."
Shu Shu's heart sank after hearing this.
If a family member has such thoughts, this person is in danger.
However, Xiaotang is usually the most protective of Xiaotao, but now he takes the initiative to expose this matter, which shows that he is very angry.
Both Xiaotang and Xiaosong lost their mothers, and both died during childbirth, not when they were born, but when their younger siblings were born. They had already remembered the incident at that time, which obviously left a shadow.
Xiaosong feels that pregnancy is the original sin and that it is dangerous to get married and have children.
Xiaotang, on the other hand, hated her mother even though she was still alive, so she blamed her mother's death on her aunt, who had colluded with her brother-in-law to fill in the house. She blamed her mother's death on her adulterous father and aunt, and especially hated the affair between men and women.
Shu Shu did not immediately attack Xiaotao.
After all, this kind of thought is ordinary. In the eyes of the servants, the prince's intercourse is no less than becoming rich and powerful. The fate of the whole family can be changed. What is the relationship between master and servant?
Regardless of whether Xiao Taosheng had this idea, it was not appropriate to follow him into the palace.
