Hearing Qiaoyun's explanation, Jiang Zhi became even more angry: "How tiring can it be to take a child to bed? Can it be as tiring as when I used to carry a child on my back to work in the fields?"
The original person used to work in the fields with his children, and the suffering he suffered can not be contained in the word "tired".
At this point, seeing that Qiaoyun was very afraid of him, Jiang Zhi finally softened his voice: "It's okay if you don't want to study. From now on, you won't recognize Caixia's writing and drawings, and you won't understand what she says or does.
What difficulties does she have that you can't help but can only watch the child suffer, are you willing? "
Qiaoyun shook her head vigorously, tears streaming down her face: "No, I don't want to."
She couldn't bear to let her child suffer. It would be even worse if she really couldn't do anything!
"Then why?" Jiang Zhi was puzzled and became increasingly frustrated.
This daughter-in-law is obedient and not lazy. Could it be that she was wronged in the village.
He must ask Er Rui clearly. He can't protect his wife and is being bullied by others. What's the use of him as a husband? He deserves to be beaten!
Qiao Yun was about to explain that Er Rui had already returned with a basket of pounded wheat hulls. The wheat flour still needed to be sifted and pounded repeatedly to become white flour.
"Mom, Qiaoyun, are you ready for food? I'm hungry!"
Putting down the basket, Xu Errui's face was covered with dust and sweat, and he washed it with a handful of water in the wooden basin next to him. He had been busy all morning and was already very hungry.
"Okay, let's eat!"
Jiang Zhi suppressed the anger in his heart and asked them together.
Breakfast is boiled porridge, steamed wheat cake, and a steamed egg, which is also convenient for Caixia to eat.
The other thing is to fry a sweet potato vine tip.
Stir-fried vegetables are what Jiang Zhi wants to eat.
Qiaoyun never finds it troublesome for her mother-in-law to ask for something.
Nowadays, in addition to a bowl of kimchi for every meal, we need to stir-fry a seasonal vegetarian dish, or cold dog bean sprouts (wolfberry tips), malanjian, Zheergen, cucumber, etc.
There are eggs to eat every day, and meat and fats are eaten every other day. The food at home is decorated in various ways.
Because my mother-in-law said that if you can’t even eat a mouthful of food throughout your life, you won’t have the energy to do things, and your life will be meaningless.
If you are willing to eat, you must be willing to work. As long as it is within your ability, you must not rob yourself and your family.
After hugging Caixia and having dinner together, Jiang Zhi asked Er Rui how he was doing.
Xu Errui ate a big meal and said vaguely: "Very good. Xiaoman and I didn't understand what Xia Xiucai said at the time. We didn't understand until Qiaoyun explained it to me when we were walking back. Mom, Qiaoyun is smarter than Xiaoman and I!" "
Jiang Zhi saw that he still looked careless when he said this. He didn't feel that he was not as embarrassed as his wife at all, so he didn't feel that Qiao Yun had been wronged in any way.
"Qiaoyun, what are you thinking? Why don't you listen to the lecture? Stop lying to me." Jiang Zhi asked with his last patience.
Xu Errui stopped his chopsticks and looked at his wife in surprise: "Qiaoyun, are you really not going? Yesterday you said it was fun and interesting."
Qiao Yun lowered his head and finally spoke out: "I went to the village to listen to the lectures, and those sisters-in-law and aunts said... It would be unfilial for me to leave my children alone and go out to play by myself!"
"Pah!" Jiang Zhi put the chopsticks on the table and said to Qiao Yun, "Qiao Yun, you are stupid. There is only one person in Xujia Village who has the qualifications to tell you whether you are filial or not, and that is me! Your mother-in-law!" "
"Only I know whether you are okay or not, and only I have the final say. If others say you are just farting!"
Qiaoyun twitched the corner of her mouth and squeezed out a smile to cheer herself up: "I can't explain what they said. I just want no one to say anything if I don't go back to the village."
Xu Errui stared: "Who? Who said you are Sister-in-law Pi or from the Lin family?"
He tried hard to remember the women who talked to him yesterday, but he didn't take them to heart. He couldn't remember them at this time.
Jiang Zhi did not ask who said it, but simply said: "Who said it is not important, the important thing is not to live on the tip of other people's tongues.
In other words, you are like a cow with a nose string on you. If you are asked to go east, you will not dare to go west. You will be led by others casually for decades to come. Do you feel aggrieved? "
Qiaoyun lowered her head and stopped talking. She also knew that she felt aggrieved, but being said to be unfilial was not only unpleasant, but also ruined her reputation.
Seeing that Qiaoyun hadn't turned around yet, Jiang Zhi was not accustomed to speaking out. At this time, he had to make some things clear to the two young people.
So, with a soft voice and a calm mood, she said: "Er Rui, Qiao Yun, have you ever thought about it. In the future, we will make more and more mosquito coils and repellent liquids. We will also make granules and tablets in the future. We will need ten or eight Even when there are twenty people helping, people from your own family have to look after you.
You can't keep me running around here and there, worrying about everything, without even a single person who can take care of things.
You know, the more you learn, the more you understand, and the more promising you are, the easier it will be for me.
Whenever I don't care about anything, I only need to take care of the children leisurely, and be an old woman who only knows how to eat, then you are the most filial.
Don't be like what others have said, thinking that sticking to your mother-in-law's legs and shoulders and never leaving her is filial piety. "
Qiaoyun and Errui both blushed. They knew that although they could help their mother, they were only "helping" and they still relied on their mother to do everything.
Seeing that the two of them had woken up, Jiang Zhi was afraid that too much pressure would hurt his self-esteem. After all, not many people could understand Xia Xiucai's lectures.
So he continued: "Although Xia Xiucai's words are profound, there are some words that you can't understand, and others can't understand them either.
You must know that Xia Xiucai has learned this knowledge for decades. You can't learn it in one day. If you don't understand it one day, you can do it the next day. If you don't understand it the next day, you can do it the third day..."
The three of them ate the meal slowly and talked slowly, putting aside their scruples. Qiaoyun said that they would go there every day from now on and no longer listen to those people.
Xu Errui also stated that he would study seriously in the future, and he would not allow anyone to talk nonsense to Qiaoyun again.
Because my mother said that men would not dare to bully a woman who is protected by her mother's family.
If a woman is protected by a man, her husband's family will not dare to bully her.
A woman protected by her husband's family cannot be bullied by outsiders.
Anyone can bully a woman without protection.
Anyone who bullies or embarrasses his wife is bullying her as a useless man.
Seeing that both of them understood the truth, Jiang Zhi felt a little happier.
In addition to letting Er Rui Qiaoyun study more and be able to share in the family affairs, she also considered the male protagonist Nie Fantian.
When Nie Fantian becomes famous and everyone meets again, Jiang Zhi will find a way to protect himself, but he doesn't want Er Rui and Qiao Yun to accomplish nothing and bow down in front of Nie Fantian.
Everyone's struggle seems different, but in the end they are inseparable from fame and fortune. When everyone's goals are clear, opponents will become teammates.
It's just that these things are still far away in the future, and Er Rui and the two can't understand them for the time being, so it's useless to talk about them.
A small disturbance was resolved during the meal, and everyone went about their business during the day.
Jiang Zhi held the hoe and prepared to dig up the deer grass that he had been promising for a long time.
This medicine is not easy to find. If it hadn't bloomed, I wouldn't have discovered it. It has an effect on Xu Dazhu's physical recovery.
According to legend, people discovered that when a group of deer were fighting and playing, one deer fell to the ground, and the other deer rescued it by holding grass in its mouth. It has the effect of saving lives and healing the wounded.
Deer grass, called Baiyinchen in Mianyang, grows beside the Qinggang forest in the mountains. It nourishes the liver and kidneys, strengthens the muscles and bones, and is used for rheumatic pain, soreness and weakness of the muscles and bones.
The leaves of deer grass are divided into elliptical and inverted ellipses. They have the same effect, but the flowers are slightly different.
