People have advantages and disadvantages, as well as strengths and weaknesses.
In other words, a person's merits and demerits are never so absolute.
No matter how useless a person is, he must have his merits; no matter how flawless a person seems, he will never be truly flawless. When God closes this door for you, he may have opened another window for you at the same time.
There is no shortcoming, it is a shortcoming in itself.
Therefore, as a human being, it is impossible to be perfect.
Just like Tang Zhong, he was a fool when he was born, but God did not give up on him. He also has many abilities that others will never be able to match. How to make use of his strengths and make up for his natural flaws as much as possible is something he must consider in the future, or his relatives must consider for him.
Although Wei Yan was lonely since she was a child and could write and read, she was not well versed in poetry, nor was she from a scholarly family, nor was she good at martial arts. It stands to reason that if such a weak woman with no strength can find a good family to marry, she can be entrusted with her for the rest of her life. However, she found Tang Zhong. Although she seemed a little helpless, after all, it was not a done deal and it was not impossible to change. It's just that now, she can't bear to let go of that silly boy.
If there are no difficulties, who would be willing to marry a fool for no reason and entrust their whole life to an older child who will not grow up at all.
She casually accepted her fate and married a fool. Maybe because of this, she would be talked about behind her back for the rest of her life.
Some people will definitely say that she is vain, some will say that she is greedy for wealth, some will definitely say that she is good for nothing, and some will directly say that her life is as thin as paper.
Before that, she might have been very wary of these rumors, because the harm that rumors can do to a person may directly destroy her soul.
However, now, she no longer thinks so and doesn't care about those rumors at all.
Wei Yan is not as soft-spoken as he appears, nor is she as vain as others think.
She is careful, cautious, affectionate and righteous, diligent and eager to learn, smart and low-key, and knows how to hide and be forbearing. But she is already an adult and a big girl, but she is still homeless, seeking shelter and support everywhere. Therefore, in the eyes of the world, she is still so useless.
If a person does not have the ability to gain a foothold in society, then no matter how many advantages you have, it will not help.
However, if you have many advantages, but you have nowhere to show them, no one trusts you, and no place to stay, then it is not that easy to establish yourself in the world on your own, let alone as a woman.
In fact, as long as a woman has looks, there are many shortcuts she can take.
Although Wei Yan did not do that, marrying into the Tang clan was already considered the biggest shortcut.
However, when she left Tangzhong and lived alone in the Mushroom Forest, she often thought of him. How should Tangzhong live without her? He didn't even know what kind of clothes he should wear when going out, and he didn't even know what he could do with money. How many people in the Tang Sect are really good to Tang Zhong?
Perhaps, after Tang Siji and his wife died, only grandpa was left.
If one day, grandpa is no longer here, then it may not be certain whether Tang Zhong can even establish a foothold in Tangmen? Can the four little maids around him still take care of him as sincerely as they do now?
Yes, Tang Zhong does have obvious advantages, but his shortcomings are also irreparable. If no one helps him, Wei Yan is sure that Tang Zhong will be kicked out of the Tang Clan again by his cousins in less than three months.
In fact, he doesn't have to commit himself to marrying Tang Zhong just out of gratitude. She could live in the mushroom forest, be like the proprietress of a couple's wine shop, marry an honest man like the boss, and then have a bunch of fat boys, and still live a good life.
She finally suddenly understood that it was not that she needed Tang Zhong very much, but that Tang Zhong needed her very much. It can even be said that Tangzhong cannot live without her.
Tang Zhong had probably realized this a long time ago, so he always obeyed her words and acted cautiously, but his fool's head was really not working well, so he always wanted to hurt her again and again.
So, she decided to look for Tang Zhong again and never be separated from him again. Even if he did anything to hurt her in the future, but it was not intentional but unintentional, she planned to forgive him. She not only wanted to help Tang Zhong gain a foothold in the Tang Sect, but also help Tang Zhong establish his prestige in the world.
This was what she really thought, but she never dared to tell others. Because in the eyes of others, she is always a weak and worthless woman who covets the wealth of the Tang family. If she tells the truth, she will only be laughed at by others.
People do not need because of love; they love because of need.
Tang Zhong really needed her, so he really loved her.
She is a woman with strong opinions. Now that she has decided, she no longer cares about worldly opinions. She has her own ideas and has been working hard for them.
"Madam, what are you doing here? Everyone is ready to leave. Grandpa asked me to come find you. Leave him alone! His master has ignored him, so why should you care about this bad guy!" Tang Zhong suddenly came in and said with a giggle.
Wei Yan stood up slowly, looked at Tang Zhong who looked stupid, and suddenly asked: "Silly boy, from now on, will you listen to me for the rest of your life?"
"Of course! You are my wife!" Only Wei Yan dared to call him "silly boy". If anyone else did, Tang Zhong would fall out with him.
"Okay! From then on, you will always follow me, and you will not leave me even a step without my order. Do you understand?" He asked Tang Zhong to follow her forever, not that she should follow Tang Zhong forever.
Because he already knew that Tang Zhong needed him more.
"Then let's go!" Tang Zhong said, pulling Wei Yan out.
"Wait!" Wei Yan was not in a hurry.
"What are you waiting for? Grandpa and the others are leaving soon." Tang Zhong said anxiously.
"Let me ask you. Can you really see things that others can't?" Wei Yan asked.
"I don't know, what do you mean?" Tang Zhong didn't understand what Wei Yan was talking about.
"Ha! Silly boy, it hasn't changed at all. Then take a look, what's wrong with this bad guy's body?" Wei Yan laughed and cursed.
Tang Zhong only took one look and immediately replied: "All the bones in his body are broken!"
"That's right, silly boy. You can already tell after just one glance." Wei Yan approved.
Wei Yan is a very smart girl. Perhaps outsiders have not noticed her wisdom at all because she is always so low-key. In her previous contacts with Tang Zhong, she had already discovered the best way to communicate with him.
When talking and communicating with Tang Zhong, don't try to make him understand what you want to do, just let him do it, because even if he finishes the whole thing, he still can't understand what you want to do. In other words, don't let him use his brain, just let him do it.
"Later, when you go out, take a closer look at everyone to see if there is anything weird about them. If you can handle this, I will get you something delicious." Wei Yan knew that, with Food is always the most effective way to arouse Tang Zhong's enthusiasm.
"What is weird?" Tang Zhong asked blankly.
"For example, if I don't have it, you don't have it, and everyone else doesn't have it, but he is the only one who has it, that's weird." Wei Yan explained to Tang Zhong patiently.
"Oh! I understand!" After Tang Zhong finished speaking, he just pulled Wei Yan to go out, but suddenly stopped and asked: "Are you really going to buy me something good to eat? Don't lie to me!"
Tang Zhong started talking like a child again, and Wei Yan just smiled and said: "Okay, I will buy whatever you want to eat."
"You said that?" Tang Zhong seemed not to believe it.
"I said so." Wei Yan replied.
"I want to eat......"
