My house now feels like a storm is about to come, but even before I enter the house, I have already experienced the difference between love and marriage.
No wonder they say marriage is the tomb of love. When the passion ends, there are no more surprises and expectations for each other. Sometimes two people may have nothing to say when they sit together.
I think this is not because they no longer love each other, but because after entering into marriage, both people are used to each other's existence and become more reserved. In fact, love never disappears, it is just hidden in life.
Meijia Deng's backbiting and my parents' attitude towards the wedding were both unexpected to me. Life always takes advantage of others and slaps you in the face.
What I received was no longer slaps, but combination punches. I was successful in my career, but frustrated in love. My love seemed to have entered a standstill mode.
Since you have been knocked down by life, then lie down for a while.
My first priority now is not to stand up in a hurry, but to slowly adjust my emotions first. If people cannot control their emotions, they will be controlled by their emotions. When their emotions collapse, it is easy to make wrong choices.
Just like with Deng Meijia, she is my future mother-in-law after all. She cannot be tough and can only slowly wear down the enemy.
This afternoon, as soon as I arrived at the company, Zhao Yue found me.
Zhao Yue went straight to the point, "Binzi, I tried this product you asked me to use, but I don't think it works well."
I was startled, looked at him in astonishment and asked, "Is there any problem?"
Zhao Yue showed me the opened sample and the packaging bag. He frowned and said, "Look at their can of abalone. The abalone on the package is very big, but after opening it, the abalone is very small. And I think this kind of abalone is very big." The cost-effectiveness of canned food is relatively low. The manufacturer says it is nutritious and convenient, but a few of the workers have nothing to do and open a can of abalone to eat. Selling this is not as good as bringing pasta and noodles! Several of us have just tasted it, and everyone is happy I think it tastes average, you can try it."
Zhao Yue's analysis was very objective. When I took the sample and took a look, the actual abalone was indeed a bit small, which was very inconsistent with what was advertised on the outer packaging. I was worried that some fans would actually buy it and feel deceived after receiving the actual product.
Nowadays, live broadcasts are very popular and everyone can bring goods. Many brands ask experts to do live broadcasts to bring goods. However, once the number of products increases, it is difficult for the company to concentrate on selecting products with the existing manpower. Some are even "one-shot deals". , leading to endless rollovers and various tricks.
Having learned a lot from the past, I would rather earn less, slow down a bit, and ensure quality, otherwise I would only be a flash in the pan.
After listening to Zhao Yue's analysis, I opened the product reviews of this seafood company's flagship store. Many of the reviews were complaints. Moreover, I saw that the production date of the products was already a year past. It was obviously to clear the inventory. .
Seafood products generally have a long shelf life, some even two or three years, but consumers may feel uncomfortable when they get them.
I pondered for a moment, nodded and said, "Okay, then I won't carry the goods. I'll reply to them in the group!"
A trace of hesitation flashed across Zhao Yue's face, and he waved his hand, "Forget it, let me say it in the group! If you refuse, can Feifei's mother forgive you?"
I couldn't help but smile bitterly, as if this way Deng Meijia could just give up.
Sure enough, not long after Zhao Yue finished speaking in the group, Deng Meijia called me to accuse me. She was so aggressive and not at all as cheerful as when she begged me before.
"Hey, Yu Bin, what's the matter with you? Why did you reject my friend? Where can I put my face?"
Put it on the ground.
I couldn't help but mutter in my heart.
Since Zhao Yue has taken the initiative to stop the blame for me, I naturally cannot live up to his good intentions and said slowly:
"Auntie, I'm just the one who brings the goods. It's not my responsibility to choose the products. My colleagues didn't choose them."
"Haha, whether you are chosen or not is not your decision! You are the anchor, shouldn't they listen to you?"
"Of course not. We have a colleague who selects products. He explained the reasons in the group. You should also understand."
"What do I understand? I understand! I've already guaranteed that I can bring the goods."
, what to do now? "
I couldn't help but roll my eyes.
She sells well in front of others, and others can thank her just by talking, but I do the dirty work, and they treat me like a fool!
No matter what she said, I remained unmoved. Finally, Deng Meijia became anxious and resorted to her trump card.
"Yu Bin, you can do it. I will never agree to Feifei marrying you in this life."
I chuckled a few times.
It was as if she would agree if I agreed.
My mother tongue is almost speechless, but I think about it. If you don’t agree, just agree! Anyway, I am marrying her daughter, as long as Lin Feifei is willing to be with me, that is enough.
Deng Meijia only asks for things, but does not talk about giving. In fact, from the bottom of her heart, she looks down on me, a "proletarian" comrade. If I had a poor psychological quality, I would probably have broken up with Lin Feifei long ago.
After hanging up the phone, I gradually regained my composure. Since both parents couldn't settle the matter, I could only let it go for the time being to reduce unnecessary emotional internal consumption.
The days continued to pass day by day, like running water. Before I knew it, half a month passed. I took two days off in a row and drove back to my hometown to send my parents home to stay for a while.
My parents are used to living in the courtyard, and the building is like a prison to them. I will drive back today and drive back tomorrow, so that I will not delay work.
We set off early in the morning and arrived home at noon that day. After getting off the car, my father looked up at the blue sky and white clouds. His body and mind seemed to be completely relaxed and nourished.
"If a golden nest or a silver nest is not as good as your own doghouse, it's better to go home!"
After saying that, my dad walked into the yard happily on crutches.
Then I walked into the yard, and Huahua rushed towards me like a bolt of lightning, her tail wagging like an antenna.
After entering the house, I said to my mother: "Mom, take a look at what is missing at home. I will buy it in the afternoon."
Before my mother could speak, my father suddenly looked at me seriously and said, "Binzi, come here. Dad wants to ask you something."
An ominous feeling arose in my heart and I was silent for a moment, "You tell me."
My father stared at me and said, "Tell me the truth. Does Feifei's mother disagree with what you two are doing?"
I touched my nose and said with a smile: "Of course not, why do you suddenly ask that? Didn't I tell you before! Feifei's mother has already agreed."
I saw an indescribable complex emotion in his eyes, and he hummed heavily: "Don't lie to me, don't I understand you? Every time you lie, you habitually touch your nose. It seems that I guess That’s right.”