But as for Miss Tong's complete decline, she felt in her heart that it was true.
For Fan Keqin, if Miss Tong thinks it is true, then there is no problem. The two danced three times in a row without caring about anyone else, as if they were immersed in their own two-person world and couldn't see anyone else.
Tong Fei hugged Fan Keqin, took four slow steps, and said, "I regret it a little."
Fan Keqin said: "What do you mean? You said come here?"
"Yeah." Tong Fei said: "I thought I came here just to completely put Lian Qingyun out of his thoughts. But now I feel that it is a bit bad to bring you in."
Fan Keqin said: "It's nothing. If you don't tell me this or pull me over, who else can you turn to? You are mine and I am yours. It is normal to support each other."
Fan Keqin is not lying about this, because women are like this and are more likely to be emotional. When they encounter certain things, they just do things that men don't understand. When a man looks at it, he may feel like, "Fuck, what are you doing?" What the hell are you doing like this again! In fact, this is what women do.
On the other hand, there are some behaviors of men that women cannot understand. For example, how can eating and drinking with brothers be so happy? What's so happy about this? Is the wine that good? I almost vomited after drinking. But men just know how to be happy and do this.
Now Tong Fei is particularly annoyed with Lian Qingyun, and after having Fan Keqin, she will be even more annoyed with Lian Qingyun. So she wanted to take her man and appear in front of Lian Qingyun and tell him to get lost. In the eyes of men, this kind of thing is simply a reverse operation. Childish is okay. But Tong Fei is a woman and has little experience in this area. She just felt that doing this could relieve her anger, so she did it. Because women are emotional creatures, there is nothing we can do. If it were a man, he would not pay attention to the other person at all and treat the other person as a transparent person. That is the most correct way.
But as a psychologist, Fan Keqin knew and understood Tong Fei's mentality. If women want to do this, there is basically nothing you can do to change their minds. All you have to do is be naive and accompany them. As long as it's not a matter of principle, it's fine. For example, if it is just for the sake of temporary anger, it involves principles and bottom lines. At this time, it is okay for you to solemnly object. But in other cases, let them be.
Otherwise, women will definitely feel that you won’t go crazy with me for such a trivial matter, or won’t accompany me to a certain place. I see you don't care about me at all. Doesn’t it feel unreasonable? If you still think women are unreasonable, it means you don't understand at all, because as I said before, women are emotional creatures, and if you try to reason with them, you are the sick person.
Of course, we are talking about emotional life here. If the other person still relies on emotion to do things at work, you must object. Because this principle only applies to emotional life.
Nothing else works. For example, your boss asks you to sign a contract today, but your woman is unhappy today and insists on letting you accompany her to the amusement park. At this time, you have to adhere to principles. Business is always the biggest priority. Remember this sentence, repeat it again, business is always the biggest. Although they always say that what is important to me is more important to you.
But if you really give up on signing the contract and go to accompany your woman, you will make a big mistake. Because afterwards, she will definitely feel that you have no principles and no business at all.
Yes, I have said that women are emotional animals, so emotional animals are inconsistent in this way. Therefore, the summary is: Men must have principles, and as long as it does not involve principles, they can be as tolerant of women as possible.
Is not it simple? Yes, that's it. As long as you do this, you will definitely get a good emotional destination.
Even if you lose a girlfriend because of your principles. But if you think about it carefully, you stick to the bottom line and stick to your principles. In other words, what you lose is an extremely self-centered girlfriend who won’t let you do anything serious and just makes you infinitely tolerant. Ego man!
And you've lost someone who had a lot of himself. If you think about it carefully, this is actually a good thing. And in your next relationship, you might get a girlfriend who will support your job and think you are a good man with principles. So, is that right? Is this a good thing? Therefore, again, men must have their own principles and bottom line. Without touching your bottom line and principles, be as tolerant as possible to satisfy your girlfriend. In this way, you will truly be invincible. It's that simple.
Fan Keqin is like this now. Of course, Miss Tong really knows how to advance and retreat. She could feel that the sense of security Fan Keqin gave her was so strong that he could tolerate and accompany her in almost anything. Miss Tong also believes that as long as she does not touch Fan Keqin's bottom line and principles.
Then he and Fan Keqin are bound to be together. And having said that, Miss Tong also knows, why should she touch other people's bottom line? No one is qualified to touch other people's bottom line. What, you go to rob, I will accompany you to rob? You go out to have fun, and I will accompany you to have fun too? The bottom line is men, to be exact, everyone has it. Of course, Miss Tong would not touch her sweetheart's bottom line. In fact, she was too late to protect him. How could he possibly touch it?
"I just suddenly felt that it was quite boring." Miss Tong tightly hugged Fan Keqin's arm and said, "Husband, am I quite naive?"
Fan Keqin smiled, tightened his arms and said, "Well, it's quite childish. Tell me, what lessons have you learned?"
"Hehe." Miss Tong smiled and said, "I shouldn't have come. If he calls, he will call. Anyway, I won't answer. Why did I bring you here? You shouldn't have such thoughts. When he calls, What doesn’t exist is the correct way.”
"Yes." Fan Keqin said more seriously than Ge You, "A child can be taught. In the past, rotten wood could not be carved. What a great progress this is. Could it be that... this is the power of love."
Miss Tong smiled even wider and put her head in Fan Keqin's arms so she wouldn't come out. She wasn't afraid of what others would think of her. Her father agreed anyway. And he even decided that Fan Keqin was the love of his life and they were destined to be together. It's my husband. Then what's the point of being like this with your lover?
