"Feifei, please stay with Xiao Wan for a while. I'll answer the phone." The boy's father said goodbye and turned to go upstairs.
The meal has been finished, and the child's father is now at home. Even if Tong Fei wants to drag Fan Keqin into her boudoir and enjoy the world between them, she would be a little embarrassed.
So the two of them came to the living room. Tong Fei turned on the vinyl record player and played a slow four. He walked up to Fan Keqin, imitated the manner of a man, stretched out a hand, and said: "This handsome gentleman, I wonder if I can invite you to dance a song?"
Fan Keqin smiled and pulled Tong Fei's little hand, stood up and said, "This is my honor."
Of course, this is Tong Fei's little daughter's trouble. She can't go to her own boudoir world, but if she dances, she can hug each other openly. Even if her father sees her, he won't be able to say anything.
As a result, Tong Fei's plan succeeded. The two danced so close that it was no different than hugging each other. Tong Fei rested her head on Fan Keqin's arms and put her arms around Fan Keqin's waist. He said: "I saw that after you met my father, you didn't feel embarrassed at all, you looked very confident."
Fan Keqin basically kept the same posture and said: "Yeah, but I'm pretending. In fact, I still feel a little nervous inside. But I think being too nervous will affect your father's feelings towards me. I have to let your father I think his daughter has found a suitable person, so that I can pass the test and be with you openly. How about it? I pretend to be pretty good, right?"
"Well, well!" Tong Fei arched her arms in Fan Keqin's arms and said, "It's very good." When she heard what Fan Keqin said, she naturally liked it, which showed that Fan Keqin cared about her and wanted to talk to her. Together, otherwise, there would be no need to "pretend" in front of his father. But Tong Fei also knows that her sweetheart is very good in her own right, and even if she doesn't pretend, there will definitely be no problem.
Fan Keqin said: "Feifei, do you think I passed the test with your father?"
"Well, I passed the test." Tong Fei was really a little intoxicated. She felt that she felt so good in the arms of her sweetheart. In fact, she didn't know that this feeling was the so-called sense of security. Women, on the other hand, have a very strong need for security. When I was a child, maybe this feeling was given by my mother and father. When you grow up, it will naturally be given by your husband.
If you can bring a sense of security to women, most women will naturally follow you wholeheartedly. In fact, no matter how strong a strong woman is, the same principle applies. Who would feel bad about having a harbor where they can shelter themselves from the wind and rain? It’s just that among strong women, especially those who are very strong, why can’t many of them find their loved ones when they reach an older age? It’s not about how much money they can make that makes them look down on men. Rather, the sense of security brought to them by the men they come into contact with is not as good as the harbor they create for themselves. Then it will naturally be difficult to find a partner.
A very simple example, a strong woman started from scratch and created a net worth of tens of billions. This kind of woman is definitely a strong woman among strong women, right? However, if a man appears at this time, he will always care for her when she encounters difficulties and handle the trouble properly, and the problem will be easily solved. Even if this man's net worth is much lower than hers, the possibility of this woman being with this man will be very high. Why? Because this man can bring her a sense of security. This is the core.
Now Fan Keqin is like this, using his own charm, ability, and excellent qualities to directly create a very warm and excellent harbor. How could Miss Tong not like it.
This is the really scary thing about psychology, especially those who are very thorough in psychology. It’s not that something that can hypnotize or something is awesome. That's too childish.
When the song ended, Miss Tong was still reluctant to let go. Very easy to solve this problem. Fan Keqin tightened his arms slightly, and just like that, maintaining the embracing posture, he held Tong Fei and came to the record player again. He stretched out a hand and played a song again. That settles it all.
Tong Fei knew that her face must be red now. This isn't about shyness or anything, it's about emotion. Fan Keqin danced slowly with Miss Tong again while talking about some things with Miss Tong.
When chatting at this time, you don’t have to be afraid to ask. There is a concept in later generations that once you start chatting, it is very taboo to ask people to check their household registration, for example. where are you? how old are you? What do you do? Did you study there before? If you ask about these things as soon as they come up, it will definitely make the other party feel uncomfortable.
But with the current emotional progress of Fan Keqin and Tong Fei, you can ask this question. Why? Because this means that you want to understand your significant other from the bottom of your heart. If you ask this, the other party will be happy because she will feel that you want to understand yourself. Therefore, my heart will be even more joyful.
This is what Fan Keqin did at this time, for example, asking Tong Fei where she lived before and where she went to school. Of course, you can’t keep asking. After the other party answers, you can make the chat more creative and creative around the answer. For example, if Tong Fei answers that she attended a girls' school, Fan Keqin will nod and say: "I heard that the campuses of girls' schools are very strict and men are not allowed to enter. Is that true? If your father comes to find you What should I do? If I use the ultimate trick of bribery, will it work?"
Then wait for the other party to finish speaking, and continue to expand based on what the other party said. Otherwise, if you keep asking questions, that is also not allowed.
In short, Fan Keqin is doing the matching. Just do everything that suits Miss Tong’s character. It must be explained here that conformity and dog-licking are two different things. There is no bottom line when it comes to licking a dog, but there is an essential difference in compatibility. You can make your other half feel very comfortable doing anything with you. This is not the case with dog licking. If you lick endlessly, the other person will only think you are bored. Means nothing. Naturally, I feel uncomfortable doing anything. That's why I came up with that sentence, lick until there is nothing left. Because licking dogs don’t know where the bottom line is, what they can do and what they can’t do. Even after finishing it, I moved myself first, but the result was not what the other party wanted at all.
Fan Keqin noticed that it took a long time to answer the call from his father. After finishing two songs, I started walking down again. According to what the housekeeper said before, it should be a matter of work...
