Directly stating that he has a wife may temporarily make the young lady opposite him feel a little repelled or disappointed.
However, this kind of thing must be said early. He believed that it was impossible for Miss Tong to instantly fall out because of this incident. You should know that you have just sat down not long ago. Moreover, he was invited by the other party, so we had to chat for a while no matter what. And as long as they chatted for a while, Fan Keqin was confident that he could sit still longer. In other words, it is to improve one's goodwill again.
In addition, Fan Keqin's speaking skills are so powerful, so powerful that there is no trace of pyrotechnics. Naturally, by answering the other party's questions and talking about himself, he had already revealed the information that he had a wife.
This effect is actually very good. It's like some people who can't speak suddenly say: I have a wife. If you do this, it will give people a feeling. That is: This person is rejecting me. Then the other person's impression of you will definitely take a turn for the worse.
But after Fan Keqin said it in his own words, you will feel that there is nothing artificial about Fan Keqin, nor does he exclude himself, because he is answering the question you asked before. And he didn't deliberately hide anything. Therefore, if you say this, you might even give the other party a good impression. At the very least, I will feel that you are not pretending and are very sincere.
Fan Keqin continued: "After arriving in Shanghai, I have almost spent all my money. So I need to find a job quickly. Finally... I am lucky. I am sitting here now, and I can get acquainted with Miss Tong and succeed. I have survived my own economic crisis. I now feel that the decision I made before to come to Shanghai should be the right one."
"Incredibly correct." Listening to Fan Keqin's unhurried narration, Miss Tong really listened. This is also a situation in psychology, that is, the continuation of human subjective consciousness, which is really a very wonderful thing.
Specifically, Miss Tong was absolutely fascinated by Fan Keqin's previous performance. So the impression is inherently good. After Fan Keqin arrived, whether it was his appearance, behavior, or speech, Fan Keqin continued this good impression. Therefore, Miss Tong was really fascinated by Fan Keqin at this time.
In addition, the most important point is the special nature of this era. Although we are talking about monogamy at this time, please ask if there are elderly people in your family, can they do it this year? impossible. For example, so-and-so’s second aunt, fifth aunt, etc. are called familiar, right? This situation is too normal.
Of course, this does not mean that Miss Tong directly thought of this section, but she lived and grew up in such an environment. Although she didn't think of it directly at this time, this was what she knew in her heart.
Therefore, Miss Tong really didn't think much about Fan Keqin's information that he had a wife. In other words, there is no sense of rejection. At the very least, she was quite happy to meet Fan Keqin. I don’t say how it will develop in the future, but it definitely feels good now.
With this great first impression, it's really not difficult to open up the situation. In the next drinking conversation with Miss Tong, Fan Keqin only needed to deepen his goodwill in this regard. And this really shouldn't be too easy for Fan Keqin. Therefore, it can be said that Miss Tong got along very happily with Fan Keqin. Her mood before the splendor was gone and she became talkative.
Do you want to chat, especially friends you have just met? They are still very friendly friends. Naturally, he will talk about his own situation. During the conversation, Fan Keqin learned that the name of this young lady was Tong Fei. She was the daughter of Tong Dawei, director of the Department of Finance of Shanghai Special City at this time. Her mother's family is also quite powerful, with businesses all over central and eastern China. There are dozens of businesses including gold and silver shops, jewelry stores, banks, pawn shops, carriage shops, etc. It can be said that the business is very big.
Moreover, Tong Fei is the only child in the family, so she can be said to be loved by thousands of people. But such women have one characteristic, that is, they are willful. The word "willful" is actually a neutral term, and when used alone, it has neither a positive nor a derogatory meaning. This Miss Tong is a very willful person, so much so that she has never gotten married at her age, which is unusual for couples of this age. But it was normal for her, because their family really didn't lack any material, and they didn't expect to marry anyone.
Although she had this plan before, Tong Fei had been favored since she was a child, and it naturally continued when she got older. If she doesn't like it, her parents won't force her to do it. Although I am very anxious, there is nothing I can do about it, Chong. In addition, Tong Fei is also very picky and willful, so she is still single now.
After the two parties exchanged information, the progress of the conversation can be said to have progressed further. Or how to put it another way, a thousand cups of wine is too little to meet a close friend, but half a sentence is too much to say without speculation. Miss Tong felt that chatting with Fan Keqin was so comfortable that she almost forgot about the time. In addition, the two of them took a sip of wine from time to time, and the alcohol also played a role in adding to the fun. Therefore, Miss Tong almost lost track of time.
Fan Keqin originally wanted to sit in more seats for a while, so that he would have more time to observe deck No. 6. Therefore, he used his words to make Miss Tong have a more interesting conversation with him. While quietly starting to observe the target.
First of all, Fan Keqin can be sure that Chen Gongshu was not talking about business when he was chatting with the two people opposite him. Because not long after he sat down, each of the three people ordered a waitress. He was laughing and joking, very relaxed, and quite bohemian. If we were talking about business, we definitely couldn't do this.
Secondly, with Fan Keqin's observation skills, he not only watched, but also vaguely heard some words drifting over from table No. 6. So he was sure that the two people accompanying Chen Gongshu were little devils. And in terms of style, the older kid's status is not low. Because even Chen Gongshu was still vaguely supporting this person.
Fan Keqin searched the memory in his mind and instantly knew who this person was. Because I saw a file in my memory, and there was a photo in it. But the person in the photo is at least ten years older than the little devil. So much so that Fan Keqin needed to compare them before he could recognize them. Shadow of the feudal clan is currently the director of the Shanghai Special Municipal Mei Agency.
