When I arrived at the restaurant, I took the menu, flipped through it, and asked, "Sister Song, do you have any taboos?"
She said there were no taboos, so I just called the waiter to take my order.
When ordering, avoid being hesitant or giving the menu to the woman.
Because some people have difficulty choosing, giving the other person a menu will inadvertently increase the pressure on the other person, fearing what they will do if they order something bad.
The second step is to avoid confusion.
For two people to eat, three or four high-quality specialties are enough. Ordering a large table will not make you look awesome, but will make you look a little bit aggressive.
There will be a vacuum period while waiting for the food to be served. At this time, you can't glare. Once you don't speak, it means you have reached an impasse, so the third step is to take the initiative to open the topic.
I asked Dr. Song how long have you been running a clinic? Are there any elders in your family who have immigrated? What are the fun places in Qiandao Lake? As we chatted, the unfamiliarity between us gradually became smaller.
Soon the food will be served. At this time, we can no longer talk nonsense. We have to eat. During this process, do not take the initiative to pick up food for the woman. Everyone can eat their own food. Otherwise, the other party will definitely think in their hearts: "Does this person have ulterior motives?" ?Are you trying to figure me out? We met on the first day but we’re not familiar with each other.”
The fourth step is to avoid poor hygiene.
Before vomiting, spread a piece of paper or put the trash can directly under the table. If you eat fish bones, peppercorns, or aniseed, you can't spit it all over the table. At this time, you must wait until you have finished eating everything in your mouth before speaking. Don't talk with your mouth.
The fifth step is to avoid not paying attention to details.
As long as she doesn't put down her chopsticks, then I won't put down her chopsticks, otherwise it won't look good if she looks like she's very good at eating.
During this period, I said I went to the bathroom and paid the bill directly, thus skipping the step of going to the front desk to check out together.
After completing the above five steps, the other person will subconsciously feel that the meal is very comfortable and natural, just like having a meal with an old friend. At this time, it is time for me to use the sixth step.
"Expose the purpose and get straight to the point."
I chatted casually: "Sister Song, I have seen that the water quality of Qiandao Lake is very good these days. I have always wanted to go diving, but I can't buy diving equipment. You are a local and you must have many friends. I wonder if you can help me." .”
After listening to my question, she took a sip of her drink and said with a smile, "You don't have a diving certificate, do you?"
I smiled and said yes.
She smiled and said: "It's easy to handle, no problem, it's on me. I happen to have connections in Sea World. No documents are required to get things from there, and no records will be left."
Did you see it?
A big problem is solved in one meal, and it's easy to find a thief.
The "six-step eating method" that Master Yu taught me was so powerful that I was afraid that it would be difficult if Dr. Song accidentally developed a crush on me. After all, that was not my purpose.
While I was thinking about it, she suddenly stood up and put down her chopsticks.
"Sister Song, are you full now?"
She smiled and said: "It's not a small item. If it's convenient, you can add two dishes. My husband just happened to get off work. I sent a text message and asked him to come over and eat together."
After hearing this, my face changed slightly, and I smiled awkwardly after being stunned for two seconds.
After waiting for about ten minutes, a middle-aged man in his thirties with a beer belly and a cadre-like appearance came over. This man also wore gold-rimmed glasses and a pair of polished leather shoes.
