Song Hongguo thought that based on Han Ying's personality, there was a high probability that she would not date Xu Wei. After all, she had clearly stated that she had no idea about Xu Wei before. Who knew that this time she guessed wrong.
The next day at noon, the two of them had dinner in the cafeteria. Han Ying told her calmly, "Hongguo, I saw Xu Wei last night."
Song Hongguo looked at her in surprise and didn't know what to say for a moment.
Han Ying laughed, "What's that expression on your face? Are you so surprised?"
Song Hongguo said "Yeah" with a complicated expression, and couldn't help but ask, "Why did you decide to see him?"
According to local customs, a blind date is a meeting arranged by two families who intend to get married. Even if the parties involved have known each other before, a formal blind date is usually required. Firstly, it does not follow the facts and shows the rules. Secondly, It also respects the woman. Thirdly, even the parents or relatives of both families have the opportunity to help.
Therefore, under normal circumstances, if you agree to meet each other, as long as there is not much difference between what was introduced by the matchmaker, the marriage will be close to each other, especially if it is Xu Wei and Han Ying. They have known each other for a long time beforehand, and they almost understand each other. Not announced.
Song Hongguo was surprised because she really didn't expect Han Ying to want to marry Xu Wei.
Their personalities...
Han Ying had a calm expression at the moment, as if it was no big deal with Xu Wei, "Didn't you say yesterday that you wanted me to ask myself about my heart? I was still a little confused and worried at that time, but now I can When I saw Yang Rongyue and Meng Jiao at home, I suddenly stopped worrying and asked my dad to make arrangements without hesitation."
Song Hongguo frowned, "What did they say? Did they deliberately use words to irritate you?"
Han Ying smiled mockingly, "They really didn't irritate me. On the contrary, when I heard that Xu Wei took the initiative to ask someone to hook up with me, Meng Jiao changed her face on the spot. Haha, you didn't see it. What is sunny day? Thunderbolts, beautiful faces faded, what do you mean by crumbling, pear blossoms with rain, I admired them all, it was so exciting to watch..."
She paused and then sneered, "Ever since Meng Jiao followed Yang Rongyue into my house, I have been suppressed by them everywhere. Meng Jiao would always put eye drops on me in front of my dad, pretending to coax my dad, but secretly... Showing off in front of me how favored she is, she looks more like the Han family than me, my biological daughter. No matter how much trouble I make, I don't take advantage of it at all, and it doesn't really hurt her. Haha, now I finally have a chance. I was stupid before, Why did you forget to take advantage of this? This is obviously the best way to make her miserable! "
Song Hongguo heard this and said disapprovingly, "Is that why you agreed?"
Han Ying lowered her eyes, "That's not entirely true. My family members all praise Xu Wei. With such an excellent partner, what else can I choose? If I'm not even satisfied with him, then how proud will I be?" "
Song Hongguo considered it carefully and said, "The attitude of your family is important, but the most important thing is your own thoughts. Do you really like him and want to live with him? Han Ying, don't act out of emotion, and don't use your marriage to get angry. !”
She said the last two sentences in a somewhat serious tone. The two were friends. Although she had always had a principle of not intervening in other people's emotional problems, she couldn't turn a blind eye or remain indifferent when there was such an obvious problem.
You can't just watch her make inappropriate decisions.
After hearing this, Han Ying was silent for a moment and asked her, "Don't you think highly of Xu Wei?"
Song Hongguo said frankly, "I don't know much about him. I can't say whether I like him or not. I just think that you shouldn't choose him just to stimulate Meng Jiao. This is irresponsible to you. I'm afraid of you." I will regret it in the future.”
Han Ying laughed at herself, "I don't know if I will regret it in the future, but now, I don't regret it. I just feel relieved and happy. After being bullied by their mother and daughter for so many years, this is the first time that I have the upper hand and can Even if Xu Wei and I have some problems in the future and I may retaliate against them severely this time, I feel it is worth it..."
"Han Ying..." Song Hongguo wanted to persuade her again, but was cut off by Han Ying, "Hongguo, I know what you mean and understand your concerns, but this is my temper. I can't learn from those who make decisions and then act." , and I didn’t have the scheming and means to compete with them in the ring. I was indeed very impulsive yesterday and made such a hasty decision. But after that, I felt very calm and didn’t have any fear at all. I think this is enough. "
After hearing what she said calmly, Song Hongguo felt a little empathy at this moment. She was in a different place. Perhaps, she might also be impulsive. After all, it was so satisfying to watch Meng Jiao and her daughter suffer such a blow. "Okay, now that you've decided, go ahead and do it. As for the future, let's talk about it in the future."
Maybe she is too cautious. Who can predict the future? If Han Ying and Xu Wei could really have a happy marriage, it would seem inappropriate for her to stop them today.
Han Ying asked tentatively, "Are you not angry?"
Seeing her cautious look, Song Hongguo smiled, "Why am I angry? I'm just a little worried. However, maybe I think too much, but I seem to be timid. Since even your grandfather and uncle If everyone is optimistic about him, then he must have merit, and he is a person worthy of being entrusted with life."
Hearing this, Han Ying breathed a sigh of relief and his tone became more relaxed, "Yes, I think so too. My grandfather and uncle are my closest relatives. They will definitely not harm me. I can't trust my father's vision." , trust them.”
Song Hongguo asked curiously, "How did they praise Xu Wei to you?"
Han Ying said casually, "Let's just say that he has a good family background, he is from the same family as mine, he is good-looking, and most importantly, he is very capable. As a secretary to Deputy Factory Director Qiu, his future prospects will definitely be good..."
"Didn't you mention character?"
"I told you, there is nothing wrong with his character. My grandfather even sent someone to check him out. He didn't do any bad things like bullying men and women behind his back. He has a gentle temper and is well-educated. He is polite to everyone without any airs. , However, I complained that he was very scheming and a smiling tiger..."
This summary was quite accurate. Song Hongguo asked, "What did your grandfather and uncle say?"
Han Ying curled her lips and said, "Neither of them thinks this is a problem. Which man with ability is not serious about his thoughts? Isn't he indifferent to emotions and anger? That's called stability and maturity. If you want to pursue an official career, you must practice it. Only when you are like that can you be successful, otherwise I will wait to be tricked by others. They even said that if I am so careless and heartless, I should find someone like Xu Wei who can complement me and not worry about me being deceived or suffering losses in the future. ”
Song Hongguo said with emotion, "Your grandfather and uncle also have good intentions for you."
From their point of view, someone like Xu Wei can indeed protect Han Ying. Xu Wei's conditions and abilities are indeed suitable for people of their age and status, and they will be optimistic about their son-in-law.
