Xie Suyu looked at Xu Qingmo for a long time, and for some reason, when she said she couldn't embroider, Xie Suyu felt that this was a very natural thing, and even felt that people like Xu Qingmo were not suitable for picking up embroidery needles.
Xu Qingmo didn't know what Xie Suyu was thinking, so he continued: "When I was young, my mother watched me learn it for several months, but she couldn't learn it in the end. Later, she didn't force me to know how to embroider! "
"Actually, whether you can embroider or not is not a big deal!" Xie Suyu smiled.
Xu Qingmo took a deep look at Xie Su Yu, and then said: "His Royal Highness the Seventh Prince probably doesn't know how difficult it is for women in this world!"
"Um?"
"Even if you are a queen in the palace, look at which of them can't embroider?" Xu Qingmo said helplessly, "My mother told me more than once that it is natural for her daughter's family to do laundry and cooking. Embroidering and weaving is also a must. A serious girl who doesn’t know how to embroider will be laughed at!”
Xie Suyu frowned slightly: "It's just embroidery. If you don't know it, of course there will be others who can. You can let others make the clothes, but only you can use your knowledge!"
"It is virtue for a woman to have no talent!" Xu Qingmo lowered his eyes slightly, "You have to know that many daughters of ordinary families are not even qualified to study. Even if they study and are knowledgeable, what will happen? The daughter's family can neither show up in public nor obtain fame. , no matter how good your knowledge is, there is nothing you can use it for!"
Xie Suyu fell silent.
"Who said it was useless?" Meng Hetong walked out at some point.
Xu Qingmo turned back to look at Meng Hetong: "Then tell me, what is available?"
"As the saying goes, you should marry a virtuous wife, so let me ask you, why should you marry a virtuous wife?" Meng Hetong looked at Xu Qingmo and asked.
"Of course it's for virtuousness, for being in charge of the family, for the man to have no worries!" When Xu Qingmo said these words, he couldn't help but sneer.
Meng Hetong naturally noticed the disdain in Xu Qingmo's words, smiled, and then said: "Men are in power and women are vassals. This has been a rule for thousands of years. In fact, it was also thousands of years ago that when men and women were competing for power, women fell behind. We are at a disadvantage and this continues to this day, but we never deny the importance of women!”
Xu Qingmo didn't speak, just listened quietly.
"Thousands of years of history, there has never been a shortage of powerful female images. A good woman's reputation will remain in history, and Mulan joined the army for her father. Even singing praises is proof!" Meng Hetong said softly, "It's just that there are natural differences between men and women in body. There are very few women who can prove themselves on the battlefield like them!"
Xu Qingmo raised his eyebrows: "What does this have to do with marrying a virtuous wife?"
"In a family, the ones who raise the children are usually women. How can a woman with no talent or virtue raise good children?" Meng Hetong said softly, "My mother is a very talented person. In comparison, my father is simply a reckless man!"
Xu Qingmo was silent for a long time, and finally said: "Actually, you said so much. In the end, even if a woman has both ability and political integrity, in the end, she still has to support her husband and raise her children. This is the way of the world!"
Seeing that the two were about to argue, Xie Suyu, as the instigator, hurriedly came out and said: "Everything has a process. Maybe one day, the world will be peaceful and all women can study. What we have to do is to work hard to Whatever we can do, do it the best!”
Meng Hetong and Xu Qingmo didn't speak anymore. They looked at each other and didn't continue to argue on this topic, which was considered a favor to Xie Suyu.
Perhaps they had been outside for a long time, so Xu Yanquan and He Wenlin came out to look for them: "Why are you here?"
"We chatted for a while!" Xu Qingmo hurriedly walked to Xu Yanquan, "Did you have fun chatting with Princess Zhengyang today?"
Xu Yanquan punched Xu Qingmo on the head: "Are you starting to make fun of me, your elder brother now?"
Xu Qingmo suddenly received a beating, his face full of grievance: "Didn't I just care about you?"
As soon as he finished speaking, Qu Lian, who had been watching outside, hurried over and said, "Girl!"
Anyone with a discerning eye could tell from Qu Lian's appearance that something was probably going on.
"What's wrong?" Xu Qingmo frowned slightly, feeling a strange feeling in his heart.
Qu Lian looked around, hesitated to speak, and finally Xu Yanquan said coldly: "It's okay, just tell me!"
"The eldest prince of Northern Xinjiang came to propose marriage with a betrothal gift!"
A thunder on the ground!
Yale Gesheng came to propose marriage, which caught them all off guard. Xu Qingmo's face was full of disbelief: "What did you say? Who, who came to propose marriage?"
"The great prince of Northern Xinjiang, Ye Gesheng!" Qu Lian emphasized again.
At this moment, almost everyone was confused. Sure enough, did the great prince of Northern Xinjiang have a brain convulsion? He came here to get married, and the one he was marrying was naturally a princess. How could he be such a good person that he would mention the marriage proposal to her.
"The eldest lady has sent someone to ask the prince to go back. The eldest lady specially sent someone to tell us not to go back yet, lest we bump into the eldest prince at the door of the mansion!" Qu Lian looked at Xu Qingmo and spoke word by word. said.
At this time, almost everyone's expressions became serious. The prince of Northern Xinjiang had a special status. The purpose of his pilgrimage to Beijing was to get married. How could he go to the Ningyuan Marquis Mansion to propose marriage in such a smooth manner?
After Meng Hetong was silent for a long time, he said to Yusheng beside him: "Go and find out the whole story!"
Yusheng got his life and went quickly.
While these people were frowning and full of sorrow, Xu Qingmo acted as if the matter had nothing to do with him and was not worried at all.
After Xu Yanquan paced back and forth in front of her for a long time, Xu Qingmo finally couldn't help but said: "Don't worry, I won't marry him!"
"How do you ensure that you will not be betrothed to him?" Meng Hetong frowned.
"As long as my father guards Northern Xinjiang, I will never marry him!" Xu Qingmo said softly, "Unless I am innocent, but in this case, I will definitely drag him to death, so you Don’t worry too much about that!”
As soon as he finished speaking, Xu Yanquan and Meng Hetong shouted almost at the same time: "Shut up!"
Xu Qingmo looked at Xu Yanquan, then at Meng Hetong, his expression gradually turned cold: "You know, what I said is the truth. It's not like this wouldn't have happened if I didn't say it!"
