After New Year's Day.
Su Mingzhe took his own research information and returned to the Su family's old villa.
After reading the information, Nan Lan's originally flat brows frowned:
"Judging from the photos, this Jiang Bin looks quite energetic. He is twenty years old this year and the same age as your sister. However, his family situation is too bad. Not only is he not a native of Shanghai, but there are four other people in the family. I am a sister, and my whole family still has a rural registered permanent residence. If I am from the wrong family and have the wrong household registration, Xiaoqing will have to suffer injustice after getting married."
Su Mingzhe didn't want to vouch for it at first, but seeing the worry in Nan Lan's words, he had to comfort him:
"Aunt Lan, with a brother like me here, how can I let my sister suffer?"
"You don't know your sister's temper. Even if she is wronged, she won't tell you."
Nan Lan was quite happy that Su Mingzhe came to the house to chat with Su Quanfang specifically about her daughter's affairs.
However, Nan Lan was not very satisfied with Su Mingzhe's attitude. When choosing a son-in-law for the family, he had to do a thorough investigation.
As a result, it only took a few days for Su Mingzhe and Su Qing to unite the front.
"Aunt Lan, the conditions in Jiang Bin's family are indeed a bit poor, but his family is very progressive. All five children in the family have been admitted to college. Although he is the only boy in the family, he has no bad habits. He has a good reputation at school. The reviews are also good.”
Su Mingzhe also investigated for a long time this time before he was ready to come over and have a good talk with his family.
This girl Su Qing is bombarded with phone calls every day and is driving herself crazy.
"Dad, Aunt Lan, that's what I think. Since my sister insists on falling in love with this Jiang Bin, as parents, it's better to separate than to block, so we might as well have a chat with them."
"If, I mean if, the two of them struggle for a few years, and finally we agree to let them be together, if we struggle so hard now, it will be easy for the two families to become enemies."
Su Quanfang didn't speak at first, but when he saw that his son had gone so far, he could only frown and said:
"Your Aunt Lan and I don't have to break them up. It's just that they are still students, and falling in love at this time is not good for their studies."
"Leave this matter to me."
Su Mingzhe knew that Su Quanfang and Nan Lan must feel sorry for their daughter and did not want their daughter to marry the 'Phoenix Man'.
However, Su Mingzhe's recent research revealed that his sister and Jiang Bin had been secretly in love since they were freshmen in college.
I don’t know how far this Jiang Bin and his sister have progressed.
Anyway, judging from Su Qing's reaction in recent days, the relationship between the two is quite good.
"Okay, I'll leave this matter to you. You tell the boy named Jiang that I can't spare him if he dares to bully Xiaoqing."
"Don't worry, Dad, if he bullies my sister, I won't be able to forgive him!"
Su Mingzhe had a meal at the Su family's old villa and went home after dinner.
Every family has a daughter to worry about when she grows up.
Su Mingzhe had been paying close attention to his sister's matter. After discussing it with Su Quanfang and Nan Lan, he called Su Qing and asked Jiang Bin to have a meal together.
The location is not a fancy five-star hotel or a Michelin restaurant.
It was a restaurant near their school, and three people were sitting in a box.
"Jiang Bin, this is my eldest brother."
"Hello, big brother."
"Brother, this is Jiang Bin."
"I called you Binzi."
Su Mingzhe knew that in Lu Province, people of the same generation would address each other by adding a rank followed by a 'sub' sound.
The sound of 'zi' varies according to the customs and accents of different places. In some places, it will be close to the sound of 'zi'.
For example, if Jiang Bin is the eldest and there is a younger brother below him, then he would be called 'Da Binzi' or 'Da Bin's'.
The three of them greeted each other and sat down.
Su Mingzhe asked Su Qing to order, and then he took Jiang Bin and started chatting.
The questions asked are not sharp, they are just about getting to know daily situations.
They chatted casually about family, school, customs and habits.
After a while, Jiang Bin was no longer reserved, and the three of them slowly started to talk harmoniously.
Judging from his speech and behavior, Jiang Bin's performance was not much different from Su Mingzhe's survey results. His speech was full of vigor, but his behavior was measured.
The most important thing is that this Jiang Bin has clear vision. According to the introduction in the book, this is called "siwuxie".
Su Mingzhe was confident that he had read it correctly.
If you don't have this perspective in looking at people, your two thousand years of life will be in vain.
Su Qing felt happy when she saw that her boyfriend and her eldest brother communicated smoothly.
If she can't find a boyfriend she truly loves while in college, after she graduates, she will have no choice but to look for her future husband among well-matched second-generation men.
The problem is that most of the second generation Su Qing learned about are playboys.
Su Qing would definitely not be happy to let herself marry those bastards.
This was the reason why Su Qing fell in love with Jiang Bin when she was a freshman.
I have to say that Su Qing has a good vision.
Jiang Bin was finally recognized by Su Mingzhe.
Su Qing's worries were relieved.
A dinner is over.
Su Mingzhe paid the bill and drove the two of them back to school.
When he got home, Su Mingzhe called his biological father and explained the situation. After careful consideration, he said that it would be best to ask Su Qing to invite Jiang Bin to come two days early from his hometown during the Chinese New Year. Meet the family.
This is not done for any reason, just to show that the Su family attaches great importance to the relationship between Su Qing and Jiang Bin.
I also hope that Jiang Bin can let Jiang Bin know about the situation of the Su family through this meeting, so that he will not make mistakes.
Su Quanfang thought for a moment and agreed.
Su Qing will be twenty-one after the New Year. She is indeed of age to fall in love, and her family cannot hide her away.
Now that you have a love partner, you should think of ways to make them live a long and lasting life.
Instead of setting up random tests like on TV.
In this world, the human heart is the least worthy of testing.
This is like in "A Chinese Ghost Story", when Nie Xiaoqian seduced passers-by, she said, "As long as passers-by are not greedy for money and beauty, they will not hurt these passers-by." '
The problem is, how many men can control themselves when meeting a top-notch beauty like Nie Xiaoqian.
Therefore, when Su Mingzhe had a boyfriend with his sister, he didn't want to test it or anything. Instead, he wanted to find a way to consolidate the relationship between the two.
Su Quanfang listened to his son's words and had no objection.
This principle is roughly similar to the management philosophy of "don't use people you doubt and don't doubt people you employ".
Now that Su Qingdu and Jiang Bin have started talking, let's have a good talk.
Doing this in the family can be regarded as a gesture of support, lest the two of them break up due to conflicts in the future, which would lead to a bad reputation.
In this way, the matter between Su Qing and Jiang Bin was settled.
When Su Qing went home at the weekend, Nan Lan told Su Qing about the matter.
After Su Qing returned to school, she told Jiang Bin that the Su family invited him to come to their house for the Chinese New Year.
When Jiang Bin heard that he was about to meet his parents, although he felt a little nervous, he remembered that he had already met his uncle, and it seemed appropriate to see his father-in-law and mother-in-law again.
Jiang Bin didn't hesitate much and agreed to come back on the sixth day of the new year to pay New Year's greetings to the elders of the Su family.
Su Qing nodded with satisfaction.
Time flies.
As long as Su Mingzhe is not busy with other chores, he basically spends his time researching artificial intelligence in the company.
There is nothing for him to do at home.
Su Mengmeng has tutor Yan Sixian as a tutor, and her academic performance has always been top-notch in school.
Occasionally, Tian Yulan, a stinky bitch, likes to be in the limelight and drags her eldest daughter to participate in various children's singing and dancing competitions.
Su Mengmeng also performed well and took home many certificates, trophies and medals.
Su Tongtong is not bad either. She is learning from her elder sister, but she is not as mature as her elder sister and needs adult supervision in everything she does.
After Su Mingzhe returned home, he would check on the second daughter's study status.
Needless to say, the youngest son is only a little over a year old, and his words still come out in two words, but Tian Yulan has already started to hold him and recite the Three-Character Sutra every day.
This method of educating children was originally sought by Tian Yulan from outside. It was said that professors from Shuimu University used this method to educate their grandchildren.
As long as his son was fine, Su Mingzhe didn't bother to talk to Tian Yulan.
On the other hand, Nan Xiaopeng also has excellent academic performance. Now after school, he still goes to Jeet Kune Dojo to learn martial arts.
Su Mingzhe saw that he was still struggling to embroider his legs and fists after more than a month of training, so he taught his son a set of Tai Chi in private.
The Tai Chi he teaches is a serious exercise that can produce real inner strength and energy.
Nan Xiaopeng was not interested in learning Tai Chi from his father.
In the eyes of children, Tai Chi is "Old Man's Boxing", and only old men and women who dance in the square will learn it.
However, he became particularly serious about learning Tai Chi after seeing his father slap the stone lion flying in front of his house.
The stone lion at the door of my house, including its base, weighs more than two hundred kilograms in total.
Su Mingzhe threw such a heavy stone lion in the air, tossing it back and forth like a balloon.
Nan Xiaopeng was dumbfounded.
"Dad, how long will it take me to practice until I'm like you?"
"When I was your age, I was almost accomplished in martial arts. You started practicing martial arts late. If you don't delay, you will be almost ready by the time you are fifteen."
Su Mingzhe also had several Peiyuan medicinal decoctions in his hand, but he originally didn't want to give them to his son because he was afraid of raising his son to become a freak.
However, this son has an introverted personality, so I don't give him anything to do for fear that he will be too sensitive and do something else.
Therefore, Su Mingzhe asked someone to bring back a lot of medicinal materials and taught Nan Li how to make Peiyuan medicinal soup for his son.
With the help of these Peiyuan medicinal decoctions, Nan Xiaopeng's cultivation speed will be much faster than ordinary people.
Zhao Na comes from a traditional scholarly family and suffers from the so-called "literary disease". She is somewhat dissatisfied when she sees her well-behaved grandson practicing martial arts every day:
"Azhe, you taught Pengpeng how to dance with guns and sticks. Aren't you afraid that he would fight with his classmates at school?"
"What kid doesn't fight?"
Su Mingzhe didn't care whether his son fought with others or not. As long as his son was not the one who made the mistake, he would support his son even if he fought with others every day.
Are boys still boys if they don't fight with others?
Su Mingzhe was about to further advocate his method of educating children when he suddenly saw Nan Li glaring at him. He couldn't help but smile, turned to his son who was looking at him with admiring eyes and educated him:
"Son, we who practice martial arts still have to convince others with virtue. If we do it, we will lose the way of a gentleman. Do you know how to write 'wu' in martial arts? What does it mean to stop fighting and turn it into force? It means The purpose of our martial arts training is to "stop the fight" and settle things. Therefore, if you really have a conflict with a child, you should think about it before taking action. Is there a good way to solve the problem without taking action... "
Nan Xiaopeng was confused when he saw his father's explanation which was completely different from before.
What he didn't notice was that his own mother had already had a bad look in her eyes.
