Ning Shuyi sighed: "Nie Guang is so ambitious, his vision is high but his hand is low. He is obviously mediocre in both talent and ability, but he is inexplicably confident and thinks very highly of himself!
He always feels that he is better than others, so he must dominate others in every aspect to show his superiority.
A while ago, I always felt that after my sister came home, she had a feeling that she was hesitant to speak, as if she found it difficult to talk about something and felt in trouble.
On the other hand, Nie Guang, I didn't think he was so active when he came back before. Recently, he has been uncharacteristically uncharacteristic. Not only did he come and go frequently, he even became concerned about the rental of the house upstairs. I felt something was wrong.
Sure enough, after beating around the bush for a long time, he finally talked about what he wanted to start a business.
Although he didn't say it clearly, starting a business still requires start-up capital. My parents didn't really agree with his idea and didn't give him a particularly positive response.
After that, he didn't mention it again, but soon afterwards, things started to go wrong upstairs.
Early on, I felt that the last time my dad rented a house was a bit strange. With the following, it is difficult not to make people think of it. "
Huo Yan and Nie Guang didn't meet many times. They only met a few times. They were far from understanding each other. It was just that their superficial conversation and behavior did not make a particularly good impression.
He felt that Ning Shuyi, the brother-in-law, had almost all his plans on his face, his eyes were shining brightly, and Ning Shuyi's sister also seemed a little submissive in front of her husband.
Although the two sisters look somewhat similar, their personalities and temperaments are completely different.
"There is a big difference in personality between your sister and you." He said to Ning Shuyi.
Ning Shuyi smiled bitterly and said, "It's indeed different. My personality is somewhat inconsistent, but my sister is a good-tempered and gentle woman through and through.
She just has a good temper, so Nie Guang eats her up in everything. "
At this point, she stopped and sighed.
After all, Huo Yan was an outsider and a member of the opposite sex. Naturally, it was difficult for her to explain some things clearly.
Originally, her sister Ning Shuyue was not a strong and independent person, and since her marriage to Nie Guang, the two of them had been planning to have a child, but there had been no movement.
Although everyone had a tacit agreement not to mention this matter, it was obvious that my sister was short of breath and showing weakness.
Huo Yan, an outsider, didn't really care about the "not fair to outsiders" thing that Ning Shuyi didn't mention. At this moment, his eyes still fell on the scar on Ning Shuyi's forehead involuntarily. superior.
"You must have felt particularly scared at that time, right?" After a while, he asked again.
Ning Shuyi was trying to figure out how Nie Guang was related to Fang Zhiyang when he suddenly heard Huo Yan ask him, and was stunned for a moment. Then he realized what he was talking about and nodded frankly.
"It was so scary." After so many years, when she mentioned that experience again, her feelings were no longer the same as those days, and they were somewhat calmer. "But in order not to give in, I pretended to be scared at that time. I'm quite calm, but every time I go to the toilet, I still quietly choose a time when there are many people. If I were alone, I would feel flustered.
It just so happened that when I went home one night, I saw a news broadcast about a policewoman who bravely captured a gangster. The news said that the policewoman not only chased the gangster, but she was so anxious that she almost vomited from exhaustion. What's more, when the opponent is stubbornly resisting, he can simply defeat the enemy with one move.
At that moment, I felt as if the road in front of me suddenly had a searchlight and a direction.
It's just that I know how bad I am at sports. After that, in addition to studying, I will try my best to arrange targeted exercises for myself, which feels a bit desperate.
Fortunately, in the subsequent physical fitness tests, although my scores were low, I was still qualified. Finally, I was able to successfully enter the police academy and later became a police officer. "
"You are amazing." Huo Yan looked at her, with some surging emotions in his dark eyes. "You were not defeated by those people, but instead made yourself stronger. This is not an easy task."
Just as Ning Shuyi was about to speak, Huo Yan continued: "But you have to continue your physical training and you can't relax.
In addition, your fighting skills should also be strengthened. Not only can you protect yourself better at work, but if you encounter someone who provokes you in the future, you will give him some pain! "
Ning Shuyi was amused by him, but he didn't expect that after talking for so long, he was still thinking about giving Fang Zhiyang some trouble.
She waved her hand: "Whether I want to cause others some hardship is secondary. The main thing is that I realized a truth after the original incident."
Huo Yan pretended to be attentive and waited for her to continue.
"When those rumors caused me a lot of trouble, the unfamiliar classmates didn't know what they were talking about, and they followed others' opinions. When I heard what others said, I believed them to be true. I told them as gossip to others, and looked at those girls. For me, I'm just watching the fun.
And those people who usually have a good relationship with me and are quite familiar with me just secretly comforted me a few words behind my back, telling me not to worry about it and not to take it to heart. In front of those people, they didn’t dare to say a word to me. Talk about it, let alone deal with it.
I felt very angry at the time, and I thought that when things change later, when I look back, I understand what they were thinking at the time.
After all, being wise and protecting yourself is an instinctive choice that most people will make. Everyone will worry about offending a few people because they get too close to me, which is not a good deal.
After all, I won't do anything to others, and those girls are not reasonable people. "
She paused, looked at Huo Yan, and suddenly asked him: "Then do you think that in that situation, my isolation and helplessness was caused by my not being good enough?"
"Of course not." Huo Yan replied without any hesitation.
"So, in the final analysis, everyone is based on their own interests, what is more beneficial to themselves, not whether the other party is good or worth it."
Ning Shuyi said to Huo Yan: "Everyone is their own bottom line. If you don't protect yourself and don't treat yourself as a treasure, that would be the biggest betrayal.
When others treat you badly out of selfish motives, you give up on yourself and don't take yourself seriously. Isn't this tantamount to helping others bully yourself? That's when you really lose completely and truly have nothing. "
(End of chapter)
