"So it seems like you've seen another side of her?" Ning Shuyi asked.
The young mother smiled, and since she decided to communicate with Ning Shuyi, she no longer hid it: "It must be because I was lucky enough to see it, otherwise I wouldn't have said that.
In fact, I didn't know her at all, but I would run into her from time to time when I took the kids downstairs for activities every day.
As you can see from my child, she has an extroverted personality. She loves everyone she sees and especially likes to interact with others.
Last summer, my daughter was not walking very steadily. When I took her to play downstairs, I met the Deng Qingrong you asked about - I didn't know her name at first, but I just heard you talking about it. Talking over there, I found out that the old lady’s name was Deng Qingrong.
At that time, besides her, there were several other old people downstairs, sitting in the shade and hiding from the sun, chatting. My daughter picked a lot of small wild flowers on the grass nearby. She thought they looked good, so she gave them to whomever she saw.
Other old people can't help but tease their children when they get flowers. My daughter loves to laugh very much and laughs when she is teased. Everyone praises her for being cute. "
When she said this, she paused. She was afraid that Ning Shuyi thought she was being petty and had conflicts with others, so she quickly explained: "I don't mean that I have to ask others to praise my child for being cute or anything like that. After all, it's not like that." Not everyone likes children.
But if you like it, you can pay more attention to it. If you don’t like it, it doesn’t matter if you don’t pay attention to the child. The other old people at least expressed their kindness to the child. That Deng Qingrong sighed after taking the little flower that my daughter happily gave her!
She sighed unexpectedly, which startled me. I thought there was something difficult at home, but I was accidentally aroused by my daughter's behavior.
Then she looked at my daughter and said, 'What a pity, she's just a little girl! If this was a smart and smart little boy, how happy would the old people in the family be!
If she just said this, I would probably hold the baby and walk away if I didn't like it, but she immediately told me that now that the conditions are so good, I might as well have another baby, and it's better to hurry up, because there is a saying , the shorter the interval between two babies, the easier it is for the gender to be different!
She said that her generation was not allowed to have more children in the past, but now that the country encourages it, they should seize the time to recuperate their bodies and have another child, so as not to delay it for a long time. If the interval is long, another 'little girl' will come out and suffer in vain. !
When she said the words 'little girl', her tone was full of dislike. I felt that at that moment, she looked at my daughter with disgust in her eyes, which was very unfriendly. "
When the young mother mentioned this incident, she still couldn't help but get a little angry. She took a few deep breaths to calm down the irritable mood that had just been aroused by recalling this incident: "I didn't look very good-looking at the time, and there was a person next to me. When the aunt saw it, she opened her mouth to smooth things over.
The aunt said that times are different now. Whether it is a boy or a girl, they are the treasures of the family. It is normal to have another child, but it also depends on the wishes of the couple. As for whether they are both boys or both. Girls, those are all insignificant things.
When Deng Qingrong heard other people say this, she probably felt that it seemed a bit patriarchal, so she immediately changed her mind and said that she just felt that she was a woman and that women had worked too hard in their lives, so when she thought about what would happen to her children in the future, This sin makes me feel unbearable.
She said that she just had a selfish idea, thinking that if she gave birth to a son, her child would no longer have to suffer from women in this life. "
After the young mother repeated these words, she unabashedly rolled her eyes to express her inner disdain: "I don't believe even half a word of her explanation, and my brain has grown in vain!
If she is really a woman and can understand the suffering of women, then she should not smack her lips and regret that my daughter is not a little boy, and then urge me to have another child for no reason other than biological reasons!
Doesn’t she herself know that the most dangerous experience a woman may have in her life is the moment she gives birth to a child, and that the hardest thing is raising children?
To me, she was simply duplicitous. She accidentally revealed her true inner thoughts, and when others heard her, she immediately changed her story to cover it up when others didn't agree with her!
Fortunately, my daughter was still young at the time and couldn't understand what the adults were saying. Otherwise, how would the child feel if she knew that others thought that no matter how good she was, she was not a boy?
I was staying with the child just now, and I heard those aunts saying that her son had some problems, so he couldn't find a partner to get married. I think this is good, although I feel a little sorry for her son, at least no woman will meet him. Such a mother-in-law is really unlucky! "
"Thank you for not worrying about 'the dead are the most important' and for being willing to provide us with a different voice." Ning Shuyi nodded to her to express his gratitude.
"It's okay, I'm a very materialistic person." The young mother smiled, "I think objectivity and fairness are the most important thing at all times. If we all follow the principle of putting the dead first, then wouldn't there be no bad people in this world? !
I'm not saying how bad she is, after all, I don't even know her. I'm just telling you my own feelings based on my own experience.
As for what kind of person she is, you can make your own judgment. "
After Ning Shuyi thanked her, he stopped disturbing the mother and daughter, and turned to look for Huo Yan. The two of them wandered around the area around these buildings. They didn't gain much later, because there were many No one was familiar with Deng Qingrong, and even if they were, they would not want to be involved in such a thing because they were unfamiliar.
On the contrary, there were some people who not only could not provide any valuable clues, but also wanted to get some "inside information" from them, which made Ning Shuyi feel dumbfounded.
Since they couldn't find out anything, they didn't stay here any longer. The two of them got in the car and prepared to return to the Public Security Bureau.
At this time, the sky was getting dark. Ning Shuyi was sitting in the passenger seat and couldn't help but yawned. He was thinking that he would have to stay up late at work tonight and would have to get himself a cup of coffee to refresh himself when he went back later. OK.
When Ning Shuyi yawned, Huo Yan glanced at her: "I've been living alone at home these days. Is there anything going on?"
(End of chapter)
