how?
"What do you think of me?"
Nalan Yanran wanted to pretend not to care.
But her shy little face still betrayed her.
Of course, even if she didn't manage her expression well, being arrogant was still Nalan Yanran's main theme. She knocked Xiao Yan's chest with her fist, raised her head, and kept her last words:
"You don't want to give me a chance."
"If you lose, you deserve it."
"Don't say I didn't remind you."
"Your current cultivation level is not as good as mine!"
Xiao Yan nodded.
That's right.
But did Nalan Yanran forget something?
Strange fire is a weapon for cross-level fighting!
Although the strange fire is not omnipotent, since Gu Xun'er activated the strange fire in the Xiao family two years ago, he has been able to cross four major realms in a short time and tie with Lu Yuan, the fighting emperor. Just have a general understanding of things like strange fire.
Don't talk about Jin Emperor Fen Tianyan's high ranking.
Only ranked fourth, is this still high?
Are there any third, second, and first ones above?
Moreover, the difference between him and Nalan Yanran is only one star. As long as he breaks through the realm of nine-star fighting master, he will naturally become a one-star fighting master.
Even if Qinglian’s Earth Heart Fire is not ranked high.
It shouldn't be difficult to cross a big realm.
Even if Nalan Yanran had learned various fighting skills that Lu Yuan had left to the Yunlan Sect and was fighting at the same level, he still had an absolute advantage.
Xiao Yan's judgment was very accurate.
No exaggeration at all.
On the contrary, his judgment was even too small.
With the power of the three-color fire lotus in his hand, it is more than enough to kill a fighting king. Of course, the prerequisite for killing is that he can hit the fighting king accurately.
Even so, the power cannot be underestimated.
After all calculations, it was Nalan Yanran who had no chance of winning.
Fortunately, Nalan Yanran didn't know.
Fortunately, Xiao Yan didn't say anything.
Both of them have relatively high emotional intelligence. They understand that when it comes to certain things, enough is enough. Therefore, they tacitly avoided the unpleasantness just now. Nalan Yanran took the initiative to speak and extended an invitation to Xiao Yan:
"Why don't you stay and have a casual meal?"
"My grandfather has a very stubborn character."
"If you leave without saying hello, I guess he won't be able to sleep well that night."
Xiao Yan didn't quite understand Nalan Jie's character.
However, we can also see something from Nalan Jie's behavior.
However, after thinking about it carefully, I still refused.
The purpose of his trip has been achieved.
There is no need to get entangled with Nalan Yanran here.
There is no need to get entangled with Nalan Jie here.
"It's better not to."
"Help me say sorry to Mr. Nalan."
"I still have something to take care of."
"Let's just say goodbye."
"See you soon."
Xiao Yan bowed his hand.
Nalan Yanran didn't force her to stay.
Although she didn't want to admit it, Xiao Yan today really impressed her. She had some regrets, but not much.
Both she and he are proving themselves to each other.
And from today's perspective, it has proven to be very successful.
In this case, what is there to regret?
Seeing Xiao Yan flipping out from the wall, Nalan Yanran pursed her lips and smiled. Comparing Xiao Yan's strange way of leaving and Xiao Yan's aggressive demeanor in the room just now, she suddenly felt a sense of amusement.
And outside the wall.
In the mind of Xiao Yan who was running away.
Yaochen's voice suddenly sounded.
It is full of joy that the children have grown up.
Despite this relief, Xiao Yan didn't want it.
"Then Nizi likes you."
After saying this, Yao Chen seemed to feel something was wrong. After thinking for less than a second, he quickly changed his words and repeated: "Then Nizi likes you again."
The word "again".
Xiao Yan choked and said nothing for a long time.
Yao Chen thought Xiao Yan didn't hear clearly.
Repeated again.
That is the third time.
Only then did Xiao Yan get an answer that was not an answer.
"Um……"
Then there was another extremely awkward silence.
The embarrassment made Yao Chen go crazy: "No, you just said yes and then disappeared. Don't you have any feelings that you want to express?"
"This is not an acceptance speech."
"What do you want me to say?"
Xiao Yan rolled his eyes, knowing very well that Yao Lao's habit of eating melons had returned. He sighed and asked angrily:
"Should I say it's an honor?"
"What an honor!"
"And he was liked again."
"Is she the one she likes?"
"No, that's not the right thing to ask."
"I should say, what does she like?"
"Is it me?"
"Obviously not."
"It's strength!"
"So sleep, what do I have to be proud of?"
Yao Chen didn't expect Xiao Yan to ask this question, but he did have many ready-made answers to this answer, which were also summed up from his unpleasant life experiences:
"It's pointless for you to dwell on this."
"Nothing is absolute in this world."
"That's the benefit."
"That's the position."
"The same goes for feelings."
"Think about it carefully, and I will tell you something from the bottom of my heart. Suppose you are a person who has a very difficult time living. Do you think you are qualified to pursue a loyal love? "
Xiao Yan remained silent.
After a long while, he choked out a sentence that made Yao Chen laugh angrily: "But, teacher, if a person only pursues power, thinks I am strong and falls in love with me, then what is her bottom line as a human being?" Where?"
After asking, Yao Chen did not wait for an answer.
He continued to ask: "Moreover, if she looks at me with admiration just because I have power, why would she stay with me if one day I lose my power again?"
Yao Chen understood what Xiao Yan was thinking.
What Xiao Yan thinks is that if his partner only gets together with him because of Mu Qiang, one day in the future, when he is no longer strong, it does not mean that he cannot accept his weakness, but that he cannot Accept the betrayal you received when you put in those feelings.
A strong person should have a strong heart.
Xiao Yan hopes that his significant other will be someone who can share the joys and sorrows with him. Although everyone is saying that people should look forward to the future, but people are separated from each other, and no one can guarantee who will betray whom for how much benefit.
Once betrayed, it will definitely be a psychological blow to the betrayed.
but……
"As long as you keep being strong, won't it be fine?"
Yao Chen made a joke seriously, even though it was also what he meant. After all, back then, if he had the strength to fight a saint or an emperor, he would not have lost his partner twice.
The essence of all tragedies is weakness!
However, everything must be viewed separately.
Just like what he said above.
Nothing is absolute.
The essence of tragedy is indeed weakness, but only weakness will not lead to tragedy.
More, it lies in the complicated fate.
"Then what do you think..."
"How good were Gu Xun'er and you in the past?"
Yao Chen didn't use his own story as an example, because every time he thought of his two ex-girlfriends, he felt unstoppable pain and regret, but it was precisely because of these regrets that he matured.
Therefore, he used an example that Xiao Yan was quite familiar with to persuade Xiao Yan.
as expected.
Xiao Yan immediately became anxious.
Fortunately, Xiao Yan also noticed the impact.
Just use your mind to communicate with Yaochen.
Otherwise, others will see a madman.
Still a cursing lunatic.
"How do I know she lied to me?"
"Even pretending to be nice in front of me?"
"This is the worst possible use!"
"Take advantage of my good impression of her!"
Xiao Yan was completely shadowed by Xiao Xun'er.
However, Yao Chen shut up the scolding Xiao Yan with just one sentence: "So, it was because you failed to see the whole picture that you mistakenly believed her. However, if you think about it from her perspective, you are now , isn’t it because I didn’t see the whole picture and didn’t believe in that girl just now?”
Xiao Yan was startled.
There was a thoughtful pause.
Then he continued to stride forward.
But in his heart, he acknowledged Yao Lao's statement.
"Then there will be no one I can trust in this life?"
"Even Brother Lu can't believe it?"
Xiao Yan's mind was a little confused.
See this side of Nalan Yanran.
Listen to Nalan Yanran tell her story.
It was a bit hard to give up.
Even though he had already thought about it and just wanted to end this entanglement with a three-year agreement, but even so, he was still a little reluctant to do so.
Yaochen is not a philosopher.
But I also understand a few general principles.
After a pause, he enlightened: "Actually, when you have doubts about a person, whether that person is reliable or not has become unreliable, because you yourself look at the other person with suspicion, so feelings This kind of thing cannot be forced, and it has nothing to do with interests. If you use interests to taint this relationship, you will only get the result of failure. You must have the mentality that I will be lucky if I gain, and I will lose my life. In other words, I will take out A true heart is placed in front of you. If you are willing, please show your true heart. However, if you are not willing, you can show a fake heart. I can't see it. However, people are group creatures after all, and lying is too much. People who have too much will often die in endless lies. I never mind paying for a relationship. I can take it up and put it down. This is called a man, a strong person, and this is the mentality that should be in a relationship."
Xiao Yan had never been in love before traveling through time.
Naturally, I don’t understand the psychological changes of worrying about gains and losses in the process of love.
Just like now.
There is always a King of the Sea and a Queen of the Sea fishing.
This is the root of emotional devaluation.
This is also the reason why people in the world don’t believe in feelings.
No one is willing to accept betrayal, but it is very easy for a person to hide something from someone, especially if this person is the one who is liked. As long as her excuse is not outrageous, people who like her will naturally not do it because of her. poor excuse to question her.
In other words, relying on being loved makes you confident.
This is more torturing than killing someone with a knife.
Because this is not about the humiliation of life.
It involves the humiliation of moral integrity.
However, the King of the Sea and the Queen of the Sea are extremely capable of grasping the psychology of their prey. Only when they are truly wounded and bruised can they be given up. What is the result?
What did these kings and queens of the sea gain?
What is gained is endless emptiness.
Go around and around, come down in a circle.
They will find that even if they find someone who is willing to accept them, the person who accepts them will only accept their appearance. If they want to get a relationship that they think is sincere, they will always wear something that makes them sick. They pretend to be humble, courteous, or otherwise, and the love they receive will never be given to the truest version of themselves.
All in all, it's not a good experience for anyone.
However, more people were hurt.
Therefore, values are very necessary.
It's not that when economic conditions improve, people are willing to get married and come together to have children and grandchildren, but that two hearts hold the basic conditions of trusting each other and both have a dream and want to live a better life. Together.
This kind of love is relatively reliable.
As for it being completely reliable...
Nothing in this world is completely reliable...
People always love themselves first.
Then, you can learn to love others.
However, because of this, in the face of life and death, most people will only love themselves first, because not loving themselves is equivalent to losing the qualification to love others.
Of course, it's not absolute.
There are always people who will risk their lives for others.
It's just that there are too few such people.
Any survey data is obtained from most people. Otherwise, there would be no such thing - there is bad news and good news. The bad news is that you have a very rare disease and there are no cases. FYI, the good news is that we are going to name this rare disease after you and you will be a case in point...
However, the main reason why strong people are strong is that they view things more objectively and soberly.
They are all characters who are not afraid of life and death.
Nothing?
Then start all over again!
Do it while you're alive, even if you die!
Who is born invincible?
Isn’t it an invincible road that is walked one step at a time?
One sentence of truth is preached, and tens of thousands of books are falsely preached.
Yao Chen only used one sentence to let Xiao Yan see clearly the essence of the strong and always strong, and also made Xiao Yan stop hesitating and further transform.
This is the role of a good teacher.
It’s not about how much knowledge he gives to his students.
Rather, it allows students to understand how a person can survive in the world, what is the difference between the weak and the strong, and between humans and animals.
Can establish a correct three views.
It is neither false justice nor rhetoric. Our world is fair and just at all times. There will never be unjust, false or wrongful cases. You can reason with anyone at any time. As long as you are a good person and do not do anything You are just when you do something wrong, and you are not a desperate lament, complaining that the world is bad, that there is no reason to explain, that it is chaotic, and that it is reasonable for the strong to crush the weak.
"Teacher, I understand."
"Thank you for telling me so much."
Xiao Yan solemnly said to Yao Chen.
but……
I haven't waited for Yaochen to be happy for too long...
He was teased by Xiao Yan off-line, and he was so angry that he wanted to strangle Xiao Yan, the traitor: "But, having said that, old man, you also wasted a lot of saliva, are you really not thirsty? I heard you didn't say anything for a long time, no Will you be so moved by my sincere feelings that you will drop your little pearl?"
Yao Chen was really moved: "..."
A long while.
Only then did he quietly hold back a sentence.
It was stuffed into Xiao Yan's head.
"Don't ever let me praise you again in your life, you brat!"
Xiao Yan smiled and rubbed the back of his head.
As soon as he heard this, he knew that Yao Lao was not angry.
Whenever you get angry, you won't call him a brat.
(End of chapter)
