Shen Anan sent the person out.
The two of them couldn't say anything, it would definitely be inappropriate to send them back and forth.
It was difficult to walk after dark, so Huo Chengan would not let Shen Anan send him to the army.
Shen Anan said in a low voice,
“Go early and come back early, take care of yourself.
That's what my mother said, don't rely on your youth and good health to not care about anything.
Remember, there are people at home waiting for you. "
She knew what kind of danger Huo Chengan would face when he went out, and it was not like she had never gone on a mission with Huo Chengan.
Huo Chengan looked around and saw no one around, stretched out his arms and said calmly.
"Let me hug you."
Shen Anan hurriedly looked around, and sure enough, there was no one around. She didn't hesitate, so she went up and hugged his waist, leaning against his chest.
The two hugged tightly, and the big hands held her in their arms.
"An'an, I really wanted to be husband and wife with you earlier, but things always go wrong and I'm waiting for you to come back this time.
I will definitely apply to the leader for us to hold a wedding. "
Shen Anan hugged his thin waist.
"Fool, take care of yourself first. Mom and I are waiting for you to come back at home. We'll talk about it after you come back."
Huo Chengan kissed her hard on the corner of the lips, but didn't dare to continue. He was afraid that he couldn't help it, and he was afraid that he wouldn't be able to let it go.
Let her go with a smile.
"Don't worry, my life is yours.
I still have this life left to have children with you, and I still want to enjoy a family relationship. "
He turned around, waved to Shen An'an, and left quickly.
Probably because he was afraid that if he stayed any longer, he would really be unable to hold back his inner turmoil.
Shen Anan was a little sad and had to admit that she was becoming more and more attached to Huo Chengan.
It seems as if this person disappears from one's life, which makes people feel sad and that something is missing.
Rather than just beginning, it seemed that the lives of myself and my mother could be complete.
And this man has quietly entered her and her mother's lives.
The next day, the mother and daughter took the old lady back. Old Mrs. Shen was completely wilted now.
Not only did he not speak, he was like a quail, frightened by any sound.
Shen Anan bought her a train ticket back. Without saying a word, the old lady agreed without any intention of resisting.
There was no argument or quarrel, and he even sent her on the train and just bought her some food.
The things she brought with her were not what the old lady expected, but she didn't say anything.
And the old lady almost impatiently got on the train by herself, and even turned around when she got on the train.
She didn't even look at her daughter-in-law, Zhang Xiuying and Shen Anan, who sent her to the train.
Shen Anan pulled her mother out of the station and had to admit it.
It is rare for the old lady to have such a realization this time.
I didn't expect that one day of detention could make such a difference in the old lady's life.
The mother and daughter finally breathed a sigh of relief and were out of the sea of suffering.
The two returned home, and this time it became their home again. Shen Anan cleaned the old lady's room again.
The old lady was not polite at all. The house was a mess.
He even went through the boxes and cabinets in the house, obviously wanting to see what was in the house.
Fortunately, the old man and Huo Chengan originally lived in this house, so there was nothing important, otherwise the old lady would have stolen it.
The mother and daughter tidied up the house. Shen Anan originally wanted to sleep directly in her mother's house.
Who knew that Zhang Xiuying had a straight face and drove her directly into the next room.
"Go and sleep over there, go and sleep over there."
"How old are you, and you still sleep on the same bed as your mother? How can you do that?
Remember you are already married! "
Seeing Zhang Xiuying blowing her beard and staring, Shen Anan felt helpless, okay!
This was her first time as a daughter-in-law, so she really didn't know where her mother got so angry?
“Mom, don’t be like this, I want to be nice to you, but you’re not happy yet!
Everyone wants their daughter to be a filial daughter, but you are driving away other people's filial piety. "
Shen Anan was a little helpless, pestering her mother's coquettish look.
Zhang Xiuying sighed,
"You, this child is stupid, just like an unmarried girl.
Mom tells you that you are married.
What is the meaning of marriage?
The first thing in your heart is your man and your own home.
This is the attitude towards living with others. You can't always think about yourself.
Is that okay?
Think about it, if Xiao Huo only thinks about his parents, he will throw you aside as a daughter-in-law.
No matter what, don't care about anything, put his parents first, are you happy in your heart?
Think about it for yourself. "
Shen An'an thought about it, indeed, if Huo Chengan really put his parents in front of him at every turn.
I'm afraid I won't be very happy either.
"Mom, I understand."
“You know what you know?
If a couple wants to live a good life, their hearts must be in the same place.
Work hard and contribute to this family together, and consider each other together.
This family will become stronger and stronger because of your cohesion.
Although my mother said that I am not as literate as you, and I am not as capable as you, but I know the truth.
The couple should live together with their hearts in mind. From now on, you remember that no matter what I ask you to do.
The first thing is to put your man first, and then put your mother second.
When you have children in the future, you will naturally put your man first, your children second, and your mother can take a back seat to third.
Your mother won't argue with you, but as someone's daughter-in-law, you have to figure out your priorities first.
You must first figure out how to live in your own little family. "
Shen Anan is a little confused,
"Mom, when you say that, I don't understand. Why do you have to put Huo Chengan first?
In theory, shouldn’t I have a child and put my child first?
Parents' love for their children is always so selfless. If I love my child, why can't I put him in the most important position? "
"Silly boy, parents' love for their children is always selfless, but you have to know that your children will leave you in the future.
As long as the child reaches adulthood, he must have his own life, and he must move towards his own life.
He can't stay with you forever.
The last person to be by your side is your husband, your wife.
Since he is your other half and the person who will accompany you for the rest of your life.
If you are not good to him and you do not consider him everywhere, how can you make him willingly be good to you and consider you?
People are bidirectional. "
"Your father has been very good to me in this life and always puts me in the most important position.
Just because you are his daughter does not mean that you will be less loved by me as your daughter-in-law.
I don't have that high education, but your father gave it to me and he treated me sincerely.
Let me understand that in this family, the couple can only live a good life if they unite and love each other.
And everyone in this family is an outsider.
Whether it’s parents, siblings, or your own children. "
“You can be filial and be kind to them, but you must pay attention to propriety and the bottom line.
We want to be a good person, but not because we hurt our other half's feelings.
If two people want to balance their relationship, the other person is thinking about you and you are thinking about the other person. This is a two-way street.
Of course, if you meet someone like the one in the village who drinks and beats others, who values boys over girls and treats his wife badly, and is treated like an ox and a horse, then it goes without saying.
Why do you feel sorry for that kind of person?
To deal with this kind of person, we have to use violence to fight violence. We will do to him what he does to us.
Your father said, if you encounter something like this when you grow up, don’t say anything.
Let's get our daughter back and divorce her immediately. Even if we fight him tooth and nail, we still have to protect our daughter back. "
Shen Anan's eyes were red, knowing that these words were not just Zhang Xiuying's own words.
And when it comes to my father who passed away, my father always said this to my mother before he passed away, which is why my mother was so impressed.
It is precisely because his father has never had any preference for boys over girls that his father respects and loves his mother.
Only then did my mother have such a correct concept, correct bottom line and thoughts.
How lucky I am to have such parents.
