Ni Bingyan firmly believes that children who are born and grow up in an environment full of love will become happier people.
So after becoming pregnant, Ni Bingyan began to reduce her study time and spend it with her family.
I get up on time at six o'clock every day and show up at Sang's house on time at 6:40 to accompany my mother-in-law for a walk and my father-in-law to do Tai Chi in the yard.
After breakfast, he and Sang Yuan went to the company to work.
While Sang Yuan was working, she would do the homework beside him.
At noon, her exclusive chef came over and started a small stove for her in the company canteen, while Sang Yuan continued to eat a big pot of rice with the employees.
After dinner, the two of them went for a walk in the park downstairs to eat. After returning to the office, she went to sleep in the back room.
I've been feeling sleepy lately, both due to the weather and hormonal changes.
Sometimes I even feel like my brain is no longer as bright as before.
She accepted these changes calmly and did not complain at all.
Firstly, her family loved and protected her, and secondly, she thought it was for the sake of her children and she could tolerate it.
After waking up from sleep, I'll do a few more questions, eat some fruit snacks, drink a glass of milk, and then I'll almost be able to go home with her boss.
After returning home, the family had dinner, and Ni Bingyan practiced calligraphy or painted a traditional Chinese painting with his father-in-law.
There is no need to force children to learn things like music, chess, calligraphy and painting. If children live in such an environment, they will learn it on their own over time.
As for the child not yet born?
It does not matter.
As soon as the child is in the womb, he begins to feel such a strong atmosphere of traditional Chinese culture and wins directly at the starting line.
After completing the daily goals and having someone help organize the pen, ink, paper and inkstone, Ni Bingyan was satisfied and took her husband for a walk home.
It's only a few hundred meters away and will be there in a moment.
After getting home, wash your face and skin care, do yoga for half an hour, and then do roll wraps to massage your tired brain, and then go to bed.
For the sake of her children, the number of questions in her bedtime papers has been reduced by a fifth.
It's not a big sacrifice.
In this way, she can go to bed at half past nine every day.
Sang Yuan would also try his best to finish his official duties in advance, pat her back when she was sleeping, and hum softly to coax her to sleep.
The best prenatal education is when the young couple has a good relationship, stable emotions, and a warm family environment.
Ever since she became pregnant and communicated her concept of prenatal care to her family, everyone in the family applauded.
The working day schedule is as above.
During the two days on weekends, I sometimes follow Sang Yuan back to my grandfather’s house. The two houses are right next door. It’s great to be able to accompany all the elderly with just one trip~
Sometimes I would go to Sang Su's house and ask her about parenting.
But Sang Shu said that she had no experience in this area and had to ask her mother-in-law.
My brother-in-law often stays in the military area, and my sister returns to work after giving birth. The children have always been taken care of by their grandparents, so they live with their parents.
Sang Su's mother-in-law is elegant and generous, has culture and connotation, and has a very high emotional intelligence. She never makes people bored in her behavior. The key is that she never feels forced.
She liked Ni Bingyan very much. Every time Ni Bingyan came over, she would cancel all arrangements and entertain her at home.
From her, Ni Bingyan learned many tips for dealing with the wives of wealthy families.
As expected of an old lady whose mother-in-law also wanted to learn from her, she really has something good.
If they come across an exhibition or concert that they like, they will also take the time to go and see it.
Every day, I live a very solid life.
Sang Jingwen and his wife couldn't bear it for less than a month.
In fact, I have to get up at six o'clock every day, waiting for my daughter-in-law to come over, walking with her, doing Tai Chi and square dancing.
After dinner in the evening, I would continue to write and draw with her.
The old couple said that life like this was worse than before retirement.
After finally relaxing, I suddenly became nervous again.
What was originally a hobby has become a task that must be checked in every day, because my daughter-in-law said that she must create a good growth environment for her children.
The old couple couldn't sleep until they woke up naturally.
To this, I cannot say no.
I don’t know how my daughter-in-law here is so energetic, living like this, and still looking relaxed.
The couple discussed it for half a night, finally decided on a plan, and began to encourage the young couple to move to the city.
This way you can get at least a few days off a week.
Shui Sulan pulled Ni Bingyan and said earnestly:
"You live at home and your daily commute is too long. Now you have morning sickness again. Sitting in the car for too long will be uncomfortable and not good for your children."
Ni Bingyan was a little hesitant: "How about that? I won't accompany him to work!"
As for the long commute, it's not bad, less than an hour.
Although the child can't see his father now, he can hear his father talking!
It is absolutely impossible to let Sang Yuan live alone in the city.
As for letting her live in the city with her, she never thought about it.
In this way, the child will lack the love of grandparents.
The family must be neat and tidy, no one should be missing~
Sulan is bald.
I simply went to persuade my son again:
"When you live at home, you don't have enough rest time every day, and the time you have to deal with official duties is also shortened. If you move to the city, you can sleep more in the morning and get off work later in the evening."
After persuading his son, he told Ni Bingyan: "Don't worry about us either. Your father and I will visit you often."
Ni Bingyan is not stupid. He has been with his sister's mother-in-law a few times recently. When he heard this, he suddenly understood.
Does your mother-in-law feel that she lives too close and is being disturbed?
After thinking about this, he immediately nodded in agreement and said that he would not be back after work tomorrow.
Shui Sulan breathed a sigh of relief and told them to bring the nanny and exclusive chef.
Large flat floors in the city are completely suitable for living here.
There is a big park downstairs, so you don't have to worry about running out of places to walk.
When the young couple returned home, Ni Bingyan's face fell.
"Do my parents dislike me?"
Sang Yuan did not dare to underestimate her sensitivity and would never fool her, so he told her his guess.
"My parents usually get up around the same time as me, around 7:30. Well... they may feel that they have been having a hard time lately."
Although they were neighbors in the past, Ni Bingyan did not ask the old couple to spend time together when she was working out and studying. When she lived at home, the old couple were afraid that she would feel uncomfortable and would deliberately get up according to her schedule, so she really didn't know this. .
"I don't know any of this."
It turned out that her parents-in-law had always treated her like that.
It was really hard to persist for so long this time before finding a way to "save myself".
Ni Bingyan felt very guilty and stopped going to Shui Sulan for a walk the next morning. Unexpectedly, Shui Sulan developed a habit and got up at that time. Then she went downstairs without tears and came to find her. .
Ni Bingyan thought that she was afraid that he would think too much and deliberately gave in to her.
I couldn't help but be deeply moved.
It can be considered a beautiful misunderstanding. (End of chapter)
