Compared with Ni Guangli's speechlessness, Sang Jingwen and his wife were very excited when they heard that they went to see the kindergarten.
According to Ni Bingyan's plan, this is what will happen within five years, which is not too far away.
If a person has no long-term worries, he will have immediate worries. If he does not have immediate worries, there is nothing wrong with thinking more about the future~
Wash hands and serve dinner.
Ni Guangli was still muttering: "I just came back from a long-distance flight, and I didn't know how to take a break. I was running around."
Sang Yuan didn't wait for Ni Bingyan to speak and began to apologize: "Uncle, it's all my fault. I was happy when I saw her and insisted on dragging her out to play."
"I don't know her yet?"
Having said that, Ni Guangli no longer held on to Ni Bingyan's inkstone, but instead picked up the small wine glass that Sang Jingwen pushed over and took a small sip.
After Sang Yuan finished coaxing his father-in-law, he saw an extra chicken wing in the bowl.
I couldn't help but find it funny.
If you make her happy, she will give you her favorite chicken wings. If you make her angry, the chicken heads and feet that she hates the most will appear in the bowl.
If someone doesn't know her well, seeing her smiling the whole time, they might not even know she's angry.
The family started to have dinner, and there was nothing special prepared on the table. They were all home-cooked dishes that the family liked.
Roast chicken with bamboo shoots, hot pot fish, pot pork, tiger vegetables, plus a black bean sauce, dace, lettuce, and tomato and egg soup.
Ni Bingyan put down his chopsticks and scooped a bowl of soup for himself. As soon as he took a sip, he heard Shui Sulan ask:
"Which kindergarten did you visit today?"
Ni Bingyan didn't pay attention to the name of the kindergarten when he went there, so Sang Yuan just said it.
When Shui Sulan heard this, she couldn't help but nodded: "That kindergarten! It's a very good kindergarten. Grandma Wang's grandson in our community will go to school there in the second half of the year. I heard her say a while ago that children here have to go to school if they want to go to school. Submit the review form, and after passing it, there will be two rounds of interviews, one for the parents and one for the children. In order to keep her face, her daughter-in-law had no choice but to find a job last year."
Sang Yuan had experienced these things twice in his previous life, so it was not surprising. Ni Bingyan was surprised:
"It's just a preliminary review. In addition to interviewing the children, you also have to interview the parents? Is it so strict in a kindergarten?"
Sang Jingwen nodded: "Of course! The review is to check the family background. Children with too poor family conditions going to school together will be harmful to both parties."
It is obviously unreliable to select students based on tuition fees of more than 200,000 yuan a year.
Spending this amount of money a year to send their children to school is something many middle-class families can do even if they tighten their belts.
But kindergartens often hold activities, and they have to wear high-end dresses; spring outings and autumn outings in Europe require at least two parents to accompany them, and they have to pay for the whole process themselves; buy a schoolbag in a group, costing tens of thousands; sign up for interest classes, either golf or organ, etc. In Go, unless you find a national-level musician to teach you personally, learning piano will feel low.
In short, if you enter such a school, you have no financial means, you can't afford the tuition, but you can't afford it.
It is very realistic for kindergartens to set such rules, but they must be like this if they want to achieve their teaching goals.
Ni Bingyan didn't know much about these things before, but it was eye-opening to hear them speak so clearly.
Ni Guangli couldn't see her ignorant look and couldn't help but sigh:
"Hurry up and take your eyes back! Have you forgotten? The Chinese dance teacher who gave you enlightenment is the dancer Luo Chunyan, and the teacher who teaches you Chinese painting is the painter Zhou Ruyi. Do you think they charge very cheaply?"
Seeing that Ni Bingyan was embarrassed, he added: "But the requirements of this kindergarten are indeed ridiculously high. When you went to kindergarten in the past, you didn't have to go to kindergarten so hard."
Shui Sulan put down her chopsticks and wiped her mouth: "My father-in-law, this request is not outrageous! The reason for such a stipulation is that it is really necessary."
Seeing that everyone put down their chopsticks and listened to her carefully, Shui Sulan spoke in detail.
“You can learn a lot when interviewing parents!
"For example, the relationship between husband and wife is not good and they are always quarreling; for example, my mother is idle and spends all day shopping, playing mahjong and doing beauty treatments, and has no clear plans for life; and my father is an old man and has no ambition... Even if the family has money, they will not accept it. ah!
"Excellent children can not only be cultivated by schools, but also require the efforts of their parents. Do you think such a family will be very concerned about their children's education?
"Think about it, do you want your children to be with children from such a family?
"Although it is a kindergarten, the children are in the same class, and parents can also connect with each other. Sometimes, a parent-teacher meeting or a dinner party can be held to integrate resources, negotiate several business deals, and let Xianyu come in and occupy a place. Damn, how inappropriate is that?
"It is even more necessary to interview children. Some children are born with antisocial personality. Their families only think that they have a weird temper and are still very cute. But if the child suddenly breaks out at school and hurts other children, he will be injured. Can the child's family just let it go? They are all from families with backgrounds. They really hate going to school because of this. I'm afraid this kindergarten will no longer be able to open.
"Of course, this is the more extreme type, and there are children with a lot of bad habits. Others will definitely have concerns."
When Ni Bingyan heard this, he couldn't help but start to worry: "In this case, will my points be deducted during the interview? After all, there are always paparazzi behind me..."
Most powerful people don't like to be too high-profile.
Having a parent in the class is like bringing your own flashlight. Should you invite her to a class reunion or someone's child's birthday?
Wouldn't it offend her if she invited others but not her?
I sent her an invitation, and it’s fine if she doesn’t go. But once she goes, everyone will be tempted to take a group photo and post it on WeChat Moments.
How picky are today’s netizens!
It seems that a wealthy lady cannot have fat, neck lines, bad hairstyle or bad clothes, or even just not smiling when taking photos.
Who likes to be pointed at?
There is another one, she takes a photo with others, standing on the edge is being squeezed out, and standing in the middle is fighting for the C position. It seems that if women take a photo together, they can see the ability of each man.
People who are not yet married are already beginning to worry about these things.
Pianshui Sulan still looked serious:
"You work hard, have a successful career, and have excellent character. Why are you deducting points?"
Ni Bingyan stated his concerns.
Sang Jingwen nodded: "Your concerns are reasonable, but you have forgotten that today is the Internet age, how important traffic is, I believe you can also understand it. In order to drive the sales of new products, your Aunt Shui personally endorsed How many times."
Seeing her lack of confidence, Shui Sulan gave her an example:
"Uncle Zhao, who recycles precious metals, did you know that? When you were engaged, his family came here. His daughter came back from college last year and was working in self-media. She often took her team to her factory to shoot videos and make videos for netizens. Popular science. Are there people who think her family is a garbage collector and look down on her?"
Sang Yuan also nodded: "No matter what industry, being among the best in your own industry is worthy of admiration. Others will only praise you and not look down on you. Children will regard you as their Ron, don’t be ashamed of your profession.”
Ni Guangli could hardly stand listening anymore.
He is probably the only normal person in this room.
"I said, you two are not married yet? Isn't it too early to start thinking about these things?"
The key point is that the parents-in-law and mother-in-law cooperated perfectly, and he was also drunk!
"Let's take it step by step, okay? It's rare to get together and discuss the details of the wedding. It's only been a few months and the dress hasn't been embroidered yet. Don't you feel anxious?! Is there anyone missing from the guest list? How to arrange the seats? Which of the wedding company’s plans do you want? There are a lot of things, hey! The more I talk about it, the more anxious I become!”
Now, the three members of the Sang family no longer care about talking about their children.
Ni Bingyan was left alone, silently gnawing on chicken feet, confused and imagining what her daughter and son looked like. (End of chapter)
