The moving company came quickly and the service was attentive and enthusiastic.
With their help, Ni Bingyan settled down on the 18th the next day.
Next comes the intensive minor changes.
Afraid that his stupid daughter would be misled because she didn't know anything, Ni Guangli arrived in the capital that evening, intending to supervise the whole process.
Ni Bingyan is very self-aware. Her aesthetic in this area is really inferior to her father's toes. Her father is willing to take over, so she has nothing to worry about.
In addition, she had just finalized a batch of work that needed to be completed on time, and she didn't have that much time.
Knowing that the father-in-law was coming, the Sang family welcomed him warmly and invited the father and daughter to their home for dinner that night.
The Sang family put a lot of thought into this meal.
Not only did he specially invite a Sichuan chef to come to the house just to make some delicious meals for them, Sang Yuan also cooked himself and made steamed duck with kelp.
Eating duck in summer can clear away heat, detoxify and relieve internal heat. It is perfect when paired with kelp, which is refreshing and salty yet fresh.
Ni Guangli taught him this dish, and with just one glance, he could tell that his prospective son-in-law put his heart into it.
When I am in a good mood, the fatigue of the journey disappears a lot.
For him, flying is not an easy task. If it weren't for his daughter's lifelong event, he would never take this trip.
This time, he will supervise the completion of minor changes at home, and will not return to Chengdu until after attending the engagement ceremony.
During this period, he put off all his work.
Perhaps this is the most intuitive manifestation of a father’s love as a mountain!
When the food was put on the table, Maotai opened the lid, Sang Jingwen took out a small wine glass and filled it up with his father-in-law with a smile.
"Brother, my career is getting bigger and bigger. It's a rare opportunity to come here. I'm going to prepare something simple. I don't know if it will suit my taste, but I have to eat and drink well!"
Dad Ni has been working in catering for a long time. One look at the dishes on the table and you can tell that the Sang family has put their heart into it. How can there be any reason to be dissatisfied?
"You two have always been considerate, but I feel bad that I came here empty-handed."
He originally wanted to rest for a day, pack up properly the next day, and then buy gifts and pay a visit. Unexpectedly, he had just been picked up by his daughter and before the car was put into storage, Sang Jingwen came to invite him.
Now that things have come to this, he is not being pretentious.
After a sip of wine and a casual polite word, Father Ni began to scold his daughter:
"My daughter, she's such a grown-up, and yet she still has to worry about everything for her. Oh! I'm so old! I bought a house and it's been more than two years and I don't even know how to clean it up. I really can't stand it anymore! She lives alone and cares about her pigs' and dogs' kennels. When she gets married in the future, she has to keep things decent. Occasionally, it won't be embarrassing to have relatives and friends come over and stay overnight."
Sang Jingwen poured himself a small glass and started drinking on his own without clinking glasses to persuade him to drink.
This was not the first time that the two of them had eaten together. They knew each other was used to each other, so they felt comfortable doing so.
Hearing this, Sang Jingwen immediately laughed out loud:
"We would like to do it for you! But how can we be as considerate as a father like you in our work? Nothing else. She can make do with it. We will live in this house for a long time in the future, so I'd better work hard on you!"
It's not that the Sang family couldn't afford to prepare a wedding house, but Sang Yuan said that he wanted to be closer to them, and considering the difference in economic base between the two families, he was afraid that others would say that Ni Bingyan was a high achiever, so he decided to live in Ni Bingyan's house directly after getting married.
In this way, I don't have to live with my parents-in-law, and I can get the care of my parents-in-law in my daily life. It's really nice to think about it.
The old couple were not the kind of old-fashioned people. They felt that what their son said made sense, so they agreed directly.
In ordinary families, if their son lives in the woman's house after marriage, he may be accused of being a softie, but they have no such concerns at all.
If you feel you owe your daughter-in-law, the worst possible outcome is to give her a larger betrothal gift.
After a few glasses of wine and a meal, Boss Ni started to talk again:
"I know that my daughter is really bad at everything. She is the first to eat. After they get married, if I want to rely on her to run the family, my life will definitely be a mess.
, I am far away, you two will suffer! "
It's definitely different when you're in love and when you're engaged. If you wait until you get married, there will be more things to consider.
Everyone is very busy, so when we take the opportunity to say everything that needs to be said, conflicts are less likely to occur.
It should be noted that getting married is a good way to get married with two surnames. If the parents tell their children all the bad things to say, the young couple will live an easier life in the future.
Sang Jingwen just thought he was drunk and started chatting, and said casually:
"Ouch! What are you talking about? How can any parent not care about their children? Bingbing is just like our own daughter, so just relax!"
Sang Jingwen was talking enthusiastically when he suddenly felt a pain in the back of his foot. He realized something was wrong and immediately closed his mouth.
Shui Sulan retracted her foot and pretended to be dissatisfied and spoke:
"Brother, you want to be lazy? That's impossible! From now on, let them live here for half a year and in Chengdu for half a year. If they have children, they have to take them back. We like peace and quiet, so let them go back Excuse you, we don’t know how happy we are!”
Sang Jingwen understood immediately.
There is something in this father-in-law’s words.
Also, if a family like theirs doesn't know how to do housework and just hires someone to do it, how could their life be in a mess?
Ni's family is in Chengdu, and her daughter is getting married far away. The big problem is whether her husband's family will support her from returning to her parents' home frequently in the future.
Although she has hands and feet and is financially independent, she can go back anytime she wants. Her husband's family supports and opposes her, but it's completely different.
My wife was smart enough to understand what he meant right away.
Each one of them has a brain like a hole in the pan.
Why! My head feels dizzy.
Rather than talking about this, he would really rather spend the night drawing design drawings.
He was having a headache when he saw that his father-in-law had been indifferent to his words just now. After hearing what his wife said, a smile immediately appeared on his face:
"Oh, we have a great discussion here. They are busy with their careers all day long. It would be great if they could go back and see me once a year! But I don't dare to expect that much."
This time Sang Jingwen didn't speak rashly and wanted to hear what his wife had to say, but Shui Sulan kicked him lightly again.
Sang Jingwen immediately followed his intuition and said, "It is a good thing for young people to be motivated."
Seeing that her husband cooperated well, Shui Sulan was very satisfied:
"Yes, they have the final say when they want to have children. We still want to have a baby in a few years!"
So don’t worry we’ll give birth!
With her husband's words as the background, it wouldn't seem abrupt if she said this again.
Hearing what she said, Sang Jingwen's hand holding the wine glass stopped.
He also had a daughter at home, so he had never considered these things. Sang Jingwen was shocked to find out that his father-in-law was so thoughtful!
"Actually, I wish they would have children as soon as possible. At my age, I don't know if one day I will be unable to breathe and die."
There was a smile on his face, but what he said was the opposite, making people not sure how to answer it.
However, Sang Yuan had rich experience in fighting with his father-in-law. When he heard this, he directly interrupted:
"Don't worry, you can still cook for your child when she takes her high school entrance exam!"
This is something that really happened in a previous life, and Sang Yuan said it with confidence.
This old man can still climb Qingcheng Mountain in his eighties. How many people can match his physical fitness?
After being interrupted like this, Ni Guangli didn't know how to answer the question, but he and Sang Jingwen reached a rare emotional unity.
Sang Jingwen has learned a lesson about this kind of Rong-style euphemism.
The three of them had made an appointment to play together for several days before, but they didn't think Ni Guangli was so difficult to deal with. Just as they were about to get married, their faces suddenly changed.
This may be what his wife told him before, that many people are like this when discussing business.
When we are eating, drinking and having fun, we can talk about anything and everyone seems to be easy to get along with. But when it comes to key issues of interest, they all change their faces and become careless and stubborn, which is very bad.
deal with.
"Ouch, ouch, where are these words? Let them take care of their own affairs! Come on, brother, let's eat food and drink wine!"
Interrupted by his son, Sang Jingwen finally organized his speech.
Knowing that he had talked a lot today, Ni Guangli borrowed the donkey from the slope and became the old brother Ni who was easy to deal with again, and began to exchange experiences in antique appreciation with Sang Jingwen.
For a time, the dinner was full of joy.
The Sang family has a large round table, with three elders sitting on one side and two young people sitting on the other side.
Listening to some elders playing tricks, Sang Yuan and Ni Bingyan started biting each other.
"I bet my dad doesn't even know what your dad wants to say."
Ni Bingyan listened very interestingly beside him. When he heard what he said, he squinted at him:
"It seems like you understand."
Sang Yuan was proud: "That's not true! Otherwise, he could like me to be his son-in-law?"
The reason and evidence were convincing, so Ni Bingyan didn’t say much and asked him:
"Hey, tell me honestly, how did you get my dad? I still can't figure it out until now."
Sang Yuan coughed twice, picked up the express and gave her some food:
"Come on, let's eat food and eat food. When we're full, we have to go see the designer. If there's a design we don't like, we have to change it quickly. But we can't really just ignore it. If we think it's inappropriate later, we'll have to change it. It’ll be troublesome to get up.”
Whether the father-in-law has good taste is one thing, but whether they live comfortably together is another.
You must know that in their last life, they got married in a hurry, but there was no such thing as house renovation.
Later, they felt that their home was a bit unlivable. Uncle Wang's house next door had been sold long ago. They were busy with work, so they kept squeezing here for the convenience of their parents to take care of their children.
Things are different now, so you have to plan carefully.
Ni Bingyan looked at him and was shocked!
"If you have any opinions, go ahead and say it! I really don't dare to have any opinions at all!"
My father-in-law took the initiative to help decorate the wedding room, but he still dared to think too much about the east and the west. Is it because the birthday girl hanged himself because he had a long life?
