The misunderstanding that he cheated in the exam has not reached Li Chenghuan's ears yet.
But even if he heard about it later, he would most likely laugh it off.
There were still a few days before the graduation ceremony, and he spent every day leisurely at home playing with his sister.
As his sister grows up day by day, her attachment to him becomes deeper and deeper. She sticks to him like a jellybean and can't get off him.
On days when there are no classes, Li Chenghuan would take his sister downstairs for a walk every day. Occasionally, he would meet some uncles and aunts he knew. For some families with two children, the problem of an uneven bowl of water is often unavoidable. When parents meet Li Chenghuan, the brother and sister, yelled and cursed at their children: "You two, look at these brothers and sisters who love each other, how can you look like enemies..."
Li Chenghuan could only smile helplessly.
One day, mother and son were walking together and met an aunt. Shu Lan knew her and stopped to chat for a while.
When the other party saw that Li Chenghuan and his sister had such a good relationship, she sighed and complained in front of Shu Lan that her two children were always fighting, and the eldest would never give way to the second, and both children felt that their parents favored each other.
He also asked how Shu Lan was educated and how he could make the relationship between the two children so harmonious.
Shulan cleared her throat, "Ha... I need to pay attention to a few methods."
Li Chenghuan chuckled to himself and pinched his sister's cheek.
But what Shu Lan said next made him thoughtful.
"Dabao won't let the second treasure go. Dabao thinks why should the older one give way to the younger one? If Dabao asks you this, then you have to reflect on it. When faced with delicious food, drinkable food, and fun things, Dabao is... If the second treasure is asked to give way, when the second treasure makes a mistake, can the eldest treasure teach the second treasure a lesson?"
Shu Lan smiled and said, "Can't you?"
"In other words, when facing delicious food and drinks, Dabao is the elder brother or elder sister, but when the second child makes mistakes, he can only be a bystander."
"Even when the younger siblings are acting up, the older siblings are not allowed to scold or scold them. They seek justice from their parents, but the parents still make peace with them."
"But if you observe families with good brother-sister relationships, they often have one common feature, that is, the elder brother can directly teach the younger brother and sister a lesson in many cases! The fear of the younger brother and sister to the older brother and sister sometimes even exceeds the fear of the parents. .”
"This is the power of being an older brother or older sister."
"If there is no right to discipline, what is this called? It's called disunity of rights and obligations!"
"He doesn't enjoy the right to be a brother or sister, so why do you ask him to fulfill his obligations as a brother or sister?"
"The same is true for us adults. How can we fulfill our obligations and not enjoy our rights?"
"Only when an older brother or older sister has absolute authority over younger siblings will they assume corresponding obligations."
"You can give it a try. When your second treasure makes a mistake in the future, let your eldest daughter teach him a lesson. If your second treasure complains to you, you can tell him sternly, why didn't you listen to your brother? You still complained to me. , come on, brother, beat him up again. At this time, you have to stand by your brother, and over time, let Dabao gain authority, and then he will regard himself as a brother or sister. "
"Put your role in that of an older brother or older sister, and give him the power to be an older brother or sister, and he will naturally take the initiative to assume the corresponding obligations."
"Only then will they feel from the bottom of their hearts that I am the elder brother and I have to take care of my younger siblings. I have to take care of them when they are wrong. I have to encourage them when they are right. If my parents are not at home, I have to take good care of them..."
After listening to Shu Lan's words, the other party suddenly realized, "You...this is how you educate your children?"
Shulan blinked and said haha, "Uh... that's right!"
She just summarized these principles from Li Chenghuan... I don't know if they are right or not.
The aunt walked curiously to Li Chenghuan and Li Xixia, knelt down and asked Li Xixia: "My dear, who do you like best?"
Li Xixia looked at the other party timidly, and then said: "I like my brother the most!"
"Then if you don't obey, who will teach you a lesson?"
Li Xixia buried her face in her brother's arms.
Li Chenghuan smiled, "My sister is very cute and obedient, isn't she Xiaoxia?"
Li Xixia nodded seriously: "I am the most obedient!"
The aunt who was watching was silent for a while, and then gave Shu Lan a thumbs up, "I really envy you, Sister Shu, you are really good at educating children! Your words are very useful to me today! I will also try to adjust myself in the future The way to educate children.”
Shulan smiled: "Educating children... is quite simple, just pay attention to the methods... Haha, we will communicate more in the future!"
"Communicate more! Communicate more!"
After the three of them walked away, Shu Lan lowered her head and looked at her son and daughter silently, and blinked.
…
On the day the results were released, the entrance to the small school was crowded with parents and students who came to see the results.
Liu Xuanxuan emerged from inside and said proudly: "My boss is the best in the county!"
"My boss is number one in the county!"
The surrounding students all turned their attention. Some parents didn’t hear clearly. They only heard “No. 1 in the county.” , look at you again!”
"Who is first in the county?"
"It seems like Lao Liu's child is screaming!"
"Lao Liu's child is number one in the county?"
"It's time to take a breath, it's time to take a breath."
Liu Xuanxuan's father, Liu Duo, was wandering nearby when he was stopped by an acquaintance: "Your child is number one in the county! Old Liu, your child's grades are so good?"
Liu Duo looked confused: "Ah? It's impossible, right?"
But when I met several people who said this, Liu Duo felt like he was dreaming. He was a little happy for a while, but more of it felt unreal.
When I arrived at the school gate, I saw my son bragging in front of several people from a distance.
"Did you see it? A perfect score of 240! A perfect score in Chinese! A perfect score in mathematics! All the additional questions are correct! I made a bet with you last time. My boss will definitely get the first place in the county!"
There weren't that many people around at this time. Liu Duo looked at his son and then at the score list with an expression of "Sure enough," and sighed. He was so angry that he went over and beat Liu Xuanxuan.
Liu Xuanxuan cried out innocently: "Dad, why did you hit me! You have to give me a reason!"
Liu Duo thought for a while, "You are so bad in the exam, why can't I beat you?"
Liu Xuanxuan said aggrievedly: "It's not the first time I've done so poorly in the exam. Are you still used to it?"
Liu Duo was speechless for a moment, then snorted: "Then there is no reason. I just want to beat you today."
Liu Xuanxuan could only be speechless.
…
Of course, Li Chenghuan didn't watch the results list to join in the fun. In fact, he already knew about the results the day before the results were released.
The class teacher called in advance, told him about his performance ranking, expressed congratulations, and then said that he would be chosen to speak as the graduate representative and asked him to prepare.
Li Chenghuan thought for a while and agreed on the phone. It was not a big deal.
My mother, Shu Lan, heard this and came over to ask, "Who called? What did you promise to the other party?"
Li Chenghuan said calmly: "Oh, just now the head teacher said that the results were out and that I would be chosen to speak as the graduate representative."
Shu Lan was stunned, "The results are out? Well, what's your ranking?"
Li Chenghuan said: "It must be number one in the county. The city's ranking is tied for number one with a few perfect scores."
Shulan was so excited that she wanted to hug her son and cheer.
Her academic performance was not very good since she was a child, and she had an inexplicable admiration for people with good grades.
But Li Chenghuan was too calm, which made it difficult for her to show too much excitement. She felt a little uncomfortable and couldn't help but hit her son: "You... why do you look unhappy? Come on, cheer. , jump!"
