When Li Chenghuan was older, Shu Lan began to try to cultivate some of Li Chenghuan's interests and hobbies.
This is actually a bit funny.
When people of Shu Lan's generation or a slightly younger age group were young, some movies or TV series that opposed cramming education were often played on TV. Ideas such as "releasing children's nature" and "happiness is more important" were prevalent.
The kind of well-behaved girl who practices the piano, beautiful but unhappy, is probably the embodiment of longing for freedom. The naughty and playful but "happy" little boy is often the protagonist, who has to fight against the parents who force the girl to practice the piano... those kind of parents , is really too classic a villain image.
It is difficult to say clearly the real reason for the popularity of this mainstream concept, but in any case, it does affect the thinking of many people.
But it wasn’t until I had children that I felt that this concept was nonsense.
You can ask those people who were so-called "forced to learn hobbies" when they were growing up. How many of those who achieved some success regretted it?
Specialties, even as a hobby, should always have more advantages than disadvantages.
Needless to say there are other benefits: it is easier to make friends, you can kill meaningless time when you grow up, you can be the person in the center of the halo on many occasions, you can increase your self-confidence... and so on.
Therefore, Shu Lan hopes to cultivate Li Chenghuan's expertise in a certain aspect.
But after all, it was my first time to be a mother and I had no experience in this area, so I asked some people around me for advice.
Many people gave answers.
"Can you develop hobbies? You can encourage children to try new things."
"You have to spend some money, buy some things, provide children with age-appropriate teaching materials and tools, musical instruments, sports equipment, etc. To make him interested, at least let him be exposed to something first."
"Interaction! Of course it is interaction! The most important thing is interaction! Participate in activities with your children. My child likes to play billiards. I play billiards with him every day..."
"Well...my point is, encourage. If a child is interested in a certain field, then he should be encouraged frequently so that they feel that their efforts are recognized and encouraged, and enhance their self-confidence and interest."
The thing Li Chenghuan has the most access to at home is painting. After all, his father is a very good art teacher.
But Shu Lan had observed that Li Chenghuan didn't seem to be interested in painting.
Of course, this is a small misunderstanding. Li Chenghuan actually likes painting. That thing is actually quite cool to him, but he feels that he has no talent in painting... He already knew this when he was reborn. , his talents lie in memory and athletic ability, so he doesn't want to waste time on painting.
Shu Lan naturally thought that Li Chenghuan was no longer interested in painting.
So, if you are engaged in sports, you may try to develop your children's sports skills.
Shulan herself is a person with excellent coordination. She was born in a rural area. When she was boarding at school in the second grade, she watched Allen Iverson play basketball and thought his dribbling movements were very beautiful, so she suddenly became interested in basketball. Then I spent some time playing basketball, imagining Iverson's movements, and it didn't take long for him to be able to dribble the ball well.
In a certain physical education class, she was playing basketball with a group of boys and knocked a boy over. The physical education teacher noticed her. Afterwards, she was recommended by everyone, and then she joined the provincial team step by step.
She is too short, 1.76 meters tall. Otherwise, with her skills, she might even be in the national team.
Recalling how he fell in love with basketball, Shulan decided to take Li Chenghuan to the court to educate him.
After Li Chenghuan came back from her grandparents' place in the countryside, it happened to be the time for winter training at her training camp.
Shulan took him to the stadium.
Li Chenghuan was actually a little excited. After all, he knew that among his talents, sports talent was far ahead.
Thank you mom for your genes!
When he arrived at the basketball court, of course Shu Lan couldn't guard him all the time, so he gave him a small basketball and let him play on the side of the court.
Basketball is still too big for him now, but it doesn't stop him from watching the kids in the training camp play with relish.
The training camp founded by Shu Lan has children of different ages, ranging from primary school students who have just developed their hobbies to high school sports students who are about to take the physical examination. It is very lively.
Many people saw the little boy holding a basketball on the side of the court and roughly guessed his relationship with Shu Lan.
At this moment, an uncle also noticed Li Chenghuan.
This uncle’s name is Zhang Weiliang, and he is also a sports celebrity in Qinghe County. He is a good friend of Shu Lan, but he is not a basketball player, but an MMA athlete. In this period when MMA is not very familiar in China, there is no The team, without a coach, became the first Chinese to appear on the UFC stage, a true lone hero.
Not many people know his name. In fact, at this time, too few people in China paid attention to and understood mixed martial arts, and he could not make much money. After he retired, he returned to Qinghe County and lived a leisurely life. Life.
He noticed Li Chenghuan because Li Chenghuan was sitting on his knees on the basketball, raising his calves from time to time, with his whole legs hanging in the air, relying only on his arms and knees to support his body's balance.
Hold for a few seconds before your feet return to the ground.
Seeing this scene, Zhang Weiliang couldn't help but his eyes lit up.
Many people have no intuitive feelings about sports talent. In fact, it is easy to judge. Children's sports talent can be observed from four levels.
Balance, gross motor skills, fine motor skills, coordination.
Just judging from Li Chenghuan's subconscious movements, he at least has good core torso control ability!
And core control is the foundation for any sport!
Zhang Weiliang took the initiative to strike up a conversation, "Kid, whose child are you?"
Li Chenghuan looked up at Zhang Weiliang, thought for a moment, and said, "I am my mother's child."
Zhang Weiliang's expression froze, he laughed, nodded, and said, "What's your name?"
Li Chenghuan felt that this uncle had no ill intentions, and since he appeared here, he must be an acquaintance of his mother, so he wanted to tease him and said, "Mom said you can't talk to strangers."
Zhang Weiliang thought this little kid was very smart and loved him. He took out the change from his pocket, including one hundred pieces and three pieces worth one dollar. He took the three pieces worth one dollar and said, "You talk to me, and I'll buy you some candies." eat."
Li Chenghuan thought for a while and said, "Uncle, you are so kind! But my mother said you can't ask for things from others."
Zhang Weiliang liked it more and more that this child really had a tutor, so he said: "It's okay, uncle will give it to you."
Li Chenghuan pretended to hesitate for a moment, pointed to the red one, and said, "Then... I just want one, I like the red one."
Zhang Weiliang was startled for a moment, then laughed loudly and said, "That's okay, then let's play a game and give you this red one after we finish it, okay?"
Li Chenghuan nodded: "Okay."
Zhang Weiliang pointed to the side. There was a terraced stand with wooden railings in the first row. The railings were five or six centimeters wide. "If you can stand on it and walk from there, uncle will give you this red Is it good?"
Li Chenghuan took one look and agreed happily: "Okay!"
Afterwards, Zhang Weiliang hugged Li Chenghuan onto the railing.
Li Chenghuan didn't find this difficult. He had a strong innate balance ability, coupled with his small stature and low center of gravity, he could walk from one end to the other very easily, while Zhang Weiliang had been cautiously He opened his hands to protect him, and as Li Chenghuan moved, his eyes became brighter and brighter.
The balance beam is the most intuitive thing that can show a child's coordination and balance ability!
Despite such a simple action, Li Chenghuan's calmness and calmness were already better than most people Zhang Weiliang had seen!
Coupled with the body control ability shown by this kid inadvertently kneeling on the basketball just now...
Not bad talent!
Afterwards, Zhang Weiliang generously gave the one hundred land note to Li Chenghuan.
But Li Chenghuan shook his head and said in a cowardly voice: "Uncle, I'm teasing you, I don't want your money."
Zhang Weiliang said with a smile: "It's okay, I even left three for myself!"
Li Cheng cheered and smiled, "Uncle, are you a big fool? Three pieces of one yuan are not as big as one hundred yuan!"
Zhang Weiliang was stunned for a moment, and then the corners of his mouth twitched slightly.
At this time, Shu Lan came over slowly after finishing her busy work. Zhang Weiliang smiled slightly and said, "Sister Shu Lan, is this little guy your child?"
"It's my child!"
"I want to discuss something with you..." Zhang Weiliang smiled slightly and spoke slowly.
