In the 729 Park, everyone handles stress in different ways. The most common choices are to go to past lives and casinos. Others I have seen people yelling at the wall for no reason, lying on the bed crying and howling, and being stupid after drinking too much. Happy...
but me.
I chose one that is different from everyone else.
I choose to steal other people's happiness, like a thief.
"You finally messaged me back. Are you okay?"
"Did they hit you?"
"Can the hundreds of dollars I transfer to you every week guarantee that you won't be beaten?"
The guy confessed to the girl.
When I saw this scene in their chat history, I could understand why he told the truth.
Because the young man wanted to protect this girl, he must have known that the 'clients' he had not cut off would be taken over by others, and he was even more afraid that the girl would be put in jail after being taken over by others.
"I'm sorry, I have to tell you the truth. I'm a liar."
“A scammer who specializes in cheating girls out of money through online chatting.”
"Don't look for me again, and don't trust any strangers."
"Actually, I didn't mean to lie to you, I had no choice...I..."
The young man told everything about himself and wrote a short essay that filled the screen of his mobile phone.
He said that he was a rural boy and the purpose of going abroad was just to make money.
He also talked about his experiences after coming to this park, including being beaten for the first time a few days ago.
I understand, I know the reason why the guy told this girl, he just wants to prove that he is the same person as the other person.
Do you know why you need to prove it like this?
Because the girl told him the truth again and again, which put tremendous pressure on him!
The girl didn't hang him like a licking dog, she made it clear from the beginning that it was impossible for the two of them;
People don’t expect him to become a wallet. I get some 520 and 1314 every holiday;
She just regarded the young man as her emotional sustenance in a plain conversation, and shared the happy and unhappy things in her life.
But she didn't know it at all. This is called a "trap" in our "Jing Chat Technique".
We will induce your desire to share through constant communication and sharing. When you start sharing, we will continue to ask about the entire process and be deeply involved in it.
At this time, your behavior will become your habit, your habit will become your sustenance, and your sustenance will make you take out your mobile phone and open the chat box whenever you are not busy, and even end up getting distracted at work. At that moment, when you go to the toilet, and even all the time, you want to see if the person on the other end of the network has messaged you back.
This is not love, this is psychology.
What you share is not your life, but your polite feedback to others when they share their lives.
Just like when someone greets you with a smile and says 'hello', any normal person will smile and nod, or respond with 'hello'.
Later, after I returned to China, I heard that some people called this thing 'PUA'. At that time, I responded with great disdain: "Isn't this just a 'demand trap' based on people's psychological model? What is PUA? These things are all left over from playing many years ago.”
But in this mode, the young man couldn't bear to attack the girl.
He deleted her.
It was as if he had made up his mind to cut off contact.
I can be sure that this is what the young man is thinking, and there is no fraud at all.
However, there is also a saying in psychology called the 'abandoned cat effect'.
The original meaning of the abandoned cat effect is that when a cat is abandoned by its owner, it will become particularly well-behaved when adopted by the next owner.
What this means here is that when the other party has completely become psychologically dependent on you, but cannot make up his mind to spend money, you must decisively delete the other party's Green Bubble account on the grounds of "distrust" and make the result clear. Because 'Since you don't trust me, there is no need for us to get along'.
Think about how girls feel at this time?
The person who had just become a source of support in my heart deleted myself instantly...
Before this, you may have talked to him about how shameless the unit leader is; how idiotic your colleagues are; you may even have talked to him about how little your parents understand you.
At least in your world and his, you seem to regard everyone as a bad person.
But at this moment, the world you and he built together collapsed.
At that time, the girl will be just like the girl the guy is contacting, almost crazy to get her back. After all, she invested a lot of emotion as a bet, how could she lose so easily?
Yes, this is the most shameless part of the scam.
This is also where the abandoned cat effect comes into play.
Those girls would explain through the 'messages' of 'adding people' that they didn't distrust them at that time, but just wanted to be more cautious...
When the news of the disappearance wears off your patience, the 'add friend' message sent will change to 'OK, why don't I invest money! '.
Your emotion at that time was definitely not 'I want to be with him', but 'I really don't want to be bothered anymore, that's it! ', even if you still have doubts about this matter in your heart, you will be disturbed by emotions and unable to think.
That's the girl the guy contacted.
He has deleted the girl.
All the content I saw was the conversation between the two of them after the girl passed the 'friend addition application' through Green Bubble.
The two of them were like a couple who were really in love and were having an quarrel. The man said, "I can handle it," and the woman explained, "I just want to help you, can't I?" 'Same.
After the young man explained all his current situation to him, the girl actually started to actively send money to the young man.
At first it was five hundred, then two or three hundred, and recently it has become one or two hundred, and sometimes, only one hundred.
I could already see that the girl's life was struggling. It can even be seen that although this girl said, "It's impossible for us," her actual actions proved that she was already trapped in it and couldn't extricate herself.
I seemed to see the young man receiving the money. He must have clicked on the red envelope and lowered his head alone, with a bitter look on his face and not knowing what to say.
Because this mere hundred dollars can save him from being beaten in Building 2, but this mere hundred dollars can completely crush a person's personality in an instant.
Hi.
At this moment, I turned off the young man's chat history. How long had it been since then, but I could still think of personality in my mind. Here, I don't even count as a person anymore, I still have a fucking personality.
When, when, when.
There was a knock on the door of my office, and the old pig lay outside the door at the gap in the glass and looked in.
"Enter!"
After I shouted this, the old pig walked in arrogantly. Without even saying a word, he sat on the chair and put his feet directly on the table of the desk.
He has never been so arrogant to me.
At that second, I raised my head and asked with a sinister smile: "Is this a good thing?"
Whoosh.
Lao Zhu immediately pulled his feet back and looked at me in surprise: "Lao Xu, how did you know?"
"Don't you dare to come into my house and put your feet on the table if there's nothing wrong?"
"Don't you know how A Yong died, or why the knife disappeared?"
The old pig was much more submissive: "Brother."
This was the first time he called me brother: "I'm here to give you a lot of money, it's all for nothing!"
(End of chapter)
